Chastity bra

Laura

Vanessa Maybe I could suggest to have a spare one,with my parents have the keys for it,and put it on her only for the night,when we sleep together.

That's basically what I mean, or what @Renita mentioned, she is supposed to wear a belt when she stays in your home.

Vanessa

Angelina

I think it is not due to my age,but to my situation,from studying,and so,a lot in university to searching a job,and so,a lot alone at home;but I think it is to strict with the cahstity bra if I've to wear it outside too...I don't think they'll do it as strict as your father,however.

Laura

Something that could be used,but I'm scared about what it could mean after...

Laura

Vanessa I think it is not due to my age,but to my situation,from studying,and so,a lot in university to searching a job,and so,a lot alone at home;but I think it is to strict with the cahstity bra if I've to wear it outside too..

In my opinion it should be opposite, because you are close to a financial independence, however they might just want to motivate you more this way.

Angelina

Vanessa

i hope it very much for you but the belt was also meant to be a punishment at the beginning, and now you wear it permanently. so always pay attention not to what bad happens

Sara2001

Angelina she probably won't be able to buy it secretly.

but if she doesn't get support for the idea at home, she shouldn't.

Of course I am not able to buy it secretly. As I said I have no access to my bank account and have to ask my father for anything I buy. It is completely unthinkable in my family that I have the key to a chastity device. That's not how the things should work for my father.

Laura I think if her parents wanted her to wear a chastity bra they would do it already. So it's her choice only.

My parents don't see the need for a chastity bra, I think I wear my chastity belt and tightbands for other reasons then most of your. It has nothing to do with staying good by having no sex. The important aspect for my parents (and for Daniel) is to prevent me from having orgasm so I can focus on other things and to remind me that man and woman are not equal in what they are allowed to do.

Angelina generally i find some aspects of your relationship very disturbing, i have the feeling you are going to marry a man like your father

I think you are right in some ways, in others you are not. I don't think my father is a bad man or did a bad job with us. I can talk with Daniel about everything and he takes it into account. It is just not ok to fight with him. He has the final saying, if I don't respect that I agreed that he has the task to punish me for that with a lecture I understand and whatever he sees that is necessary for me to learn my lesson.

I can talk about the chastity bra with him and I don't have to fear that I will get one tomorrow. He was just opened to my idea but set some borders I would have to accept.

I don't believe it's important that Daniel waits with his orgasms until I can have orgasms. I don't feel that this would mean that he is more interested in me as a person. I am very happy that I'm able to make him happy. I think it is more beautiful when he has his orgasms with me than when he is not with me. He is not expected to stay in chastity. Not by my and not by his parents or the society.

For the chastity bra, Daniel and me agree that it would not be a good thing for us, so we will not work on this topic any further.

Vanessa

Sara2001 For the chastity bra, Daniel and me agree that it would not be a good thing for us, so we will not work on this topic any further.

Problem solved,so!

Laura n my opinion it should be opposite, because you are close to a financial independence, however they might just want to motivate you more this way.

It would make sense,but I don't think they think about it this way.

Angelina by that i mean she has to be careful that her parents want her to wear the bra 24/7.

Right,but I don't think it is the purpose,even if wearing it when outside was a bit hard.I'll try to make them change their mind about it(hard,but not impossible,if I found good arguments,stay calm,and don't ask about it too often).

Laura I suppose it's the imminence if she doesn't find a job soon.

I don't think so.But,if I am lazy or does not do my best to get one,I may be punished(and it can include grounded at home for a few days,while wearing thigh bands and chastity bra during all my grounding,day and night).

Angelina then she should get married, she seems to have a very good relationship. so why not . as soon as she has a job she can finance the wedding as well

We talked about marriage and both of us would like it.But we want that at least one of us have a permanent job,and to live together for a while before,to be sure it would be right for us.

Laura

Angelina so always pay attention not to what bad happens

What could be worse? Chastity bra is the worst thing that might happen to a girl 🙂

Angelina

Laura

by that i mean she has to be careful that her parents want her to wear the bra 24/7. the belt was only meant to be a punishment in the beginning.

Laura

Angelina by that i mean she has to be careful that her parents want her to wear the bra 24/7

I suppose it's the imminence if she doesn't find a job soon.

Angelina

Laura

you can see how important a job is. 😂

seriously she is of age has a relationship and should urgently see that she moves out of her parents

Renita

Angelina you can see how important a job is. 😂

However, this helps little herself. Unless a chastity bra is put on her yet 🙂

Angelina

Renita

then she should get married, she seems to have a very good relationship. so why not . as soon as she has a job she can finance the wedding as well

Laura

Angelina @Renita meant me 🙂

Angelina

Laura

I thought she means Vanessa 😂

Angelina

Vanessa

what does emilie do for a living or does she study?

Laura

Vanessa I don't think so.But,if I am lazy or does not do my best to get one,I may be punished(and it can include grounded at home for a few days,while wearing thigh bands and chastity bra during all my grounding,day and night).

I mean if you get a job, it would be strange for them to send you to work wearing the chastity bra. Otherwise nothing prevents them from doing it, especially they know you are not able to move away,

Vanessa

Angelina

She had studied biology and want to work in research,but won't be against working as a teacher,if it is too hard to find a job in her first choice.

Vanessa

Right,I'm not sure(and they haven't decided yet,as far as I know)if they'll want me to wear it at work,but for now,outside without my parents means chastity bra on.But I'll still try to make them change this rule.

Only a few more hours before I've it taken off after a week with it on permanently,very hard.My parents should stay at home this week-end,so I hope to not have it on anymore during it!

No cut,bruises,injuries or so with it on,so they decided there si no good reason to change their mind about the rules concerning it.

Angelina

Vanessa

Congratulations that the bh is first gone . how was the week emotional for you ? were there any hygienic problems with you ?

Vanessa

Angelina Congratulations that the bh is first gone . how was the week emotional for you ? were there any hygienic problems with you ?

No hygienic problems,but I had more supervised showers,and my mother looked closely to be sure it does not injure me at all.I guess I could take showers with only the belt on,most of the times,so it should be ok.

Emotionally it was very hard,very disturbing to not have access to my breasts anymore,and not even be able to look at these...I've cried a lot,fought it a lot(with no success,it is as secure as the chastity belt),but I managed it.I hate it a lot,and I hope I'll be able to reduce a lot how often I've to wear it(I would accept more if it is like thigh bands,only when alone at home).

Angelina

Vanessa

i'm sorry for you, but you can at least shower without the bra which is already very good. if i translated it correctly now you'll find the bra even worse than the tighbands. i hope you can reduce the time. but you should show strength before your parents, because if they realize how much you hate the bra, they will often use it as a punishment.

hope you understand what I mean

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