Just chatting
Angelina i am also always happy when people have positive experiences with chastity.
That's really cool of you to say. 
Happy, positive, experiences do seem to depend on how the idea of a chastity belt is presented. I think @Jenna's recent reports show just how important this is.
The feelings of frustration and the bother of wearing a chastity belt are the same for everyone, but people who've chosen chastity find them easier to accept.
I wonder if you could have chosen chastity if the idea had been presented to you in a different way?
Laura Not just a member, but one of the founders
I do hope she responds to email.
Joh Everyone can read most of the posting. Some are only visible when you locked in.
Yes, I once did it on my smartphone, i.e. read it without being logged in, but I can only read about half of all threads because many are only for members
Jonas I wonder if you could have chosen chastity if the idea had been presented to you in a different way?
I ask myself that too, I keep asking myself what my story would have been like if my father had just asked me nicely. I might even have said yes, but then with breaks and no thigh bands and no bra
Laura Microsoft rejects e-mail sent from our IP, because it belongs to an IP range, they don't like
maybe some protection mechanism against "sex websites" (yes, i don't like the term, but microsoft might think so) ?
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Angelina Yes, I once did it on my smartphone, i.e. read it without being logged in, but I can only read about half of all threads because many are only for members
Yep, this is exactly why I had to log back in. I wanted to find some posts which I remembered but which weren't coming up on the public view.
Angelina I ask myself that too, I keep asking myself what my story would have been like if my father had just asked me nicely. I might even have said yes, but then with breaks and no thigh bands and no bra
I can understand why you would say "breaks and no bra" but...
If you had been able to discuss the idea of chastity fully, I wonder if you could have been convinced. I don't mean convinced to wear a belt, I mean convinced that chastity is a good idea? Something that you would then actively choose.
This is kinda what happened with me. As an exercise I wrote a huge list of why masturbation could be wrong (serious reasons, not "it'll make you go blind" type rubbish) and I ended up truly convincing myself that masturbation was wrong (for me personally).
Once convinced of the idea, I found it easier to put up with the discomfort and to give up all breaks. It's like @Tobbe once wrote (about female chastity of course!), it's not about giving something up 
, it's about freeing yourself from cravings and desires 
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Laura As I said I didn't have time to sort it out yet
No problem, I think that will be cleared up at some point. 
the difference is that i do not believe that masturbation is wrong or harmful. if i had voluntarily said yes, it would have been to please my father and only under these conditions. 
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Angelina i do not believe that masturbation is wrong or harmful
Neither did I at the start of the process. I'd even say that I was pro-masturbation, thought it was just fine, no problems.
Aw no. I'm really sorry to hear that. Thank you very much for trying Laura.
Angelina too bad
Maybe she'll rejoin in the future some time?
Either way it was lovely to speak to you again Angelina, take super good care of yourself.
Angelina I keep asking myself what my story would have been like if my father had just asked me nicely. I might even have said yes, but then with breaks and no thigh bands and no bra
It sounds like he took it pretty well when you asked him nicely! I agree that perhaps you'd be less frustrated and happier with the situation if you had been given some choice in the matter originally.
Jonas Neither did I at the start of the process. I'd even say that I was pro-masturbation, thought it was just fine, no problems.
well, i have had many years to think and yes there are arguments for the belt, but i still don't think masturbation is wrong.
Jonas Either way it was lovely to speak to you again Angelina, take super good care of yourself.
thanks you too and nice that you got in touch, I hope @Vanessa does too
Saintprudence It sounds like he took it pretty well when you asked him nicely!
we don't normally work against each other, only my father is sometimes so stubborn that he absolutely has to get his way.
Angelina we don't normally work against each other, only my father is sometimes so stubborn that he absolutely has to get his way.
I do wish you could have lived in the alternate universe where you were asked nicely, if only because I imagine your current status would be a lot easier to endure. (And maybe you could have negotiated away the extra equipment, which feels like overkill to me!)
probably yes, but the question is also what I would have answered. Today I would have suggested a deal to him, but at the time I was also very stubborn, I was 15 so what do you think
Jonas I miss speaking on here, I really do. And the unwed forum really needs more people like me who are pro-chastity!!!
well, there are already enough people here who are pro-chastity, besides, of course, you can always write if you want to.
Jonas Speak to you again I'm sure, but for now... Byeeeeeeee!
hope to read from you again sometime, bye 