1.Probably get punished or harder rules.Except if she gave you permission.
2.It would not be often,but better than nothing(many of us are not allowed to orgasm at all).
3.Same than 1. if you damage it.No punishment if you fight it,we all do this.
4.If the belt is on,it is secure,you should get privacy.
I've never been at ease discussing about it with my parents,while other have no problems with it,it would depend on you.
If you're used to masturbate or have sex,it would be hard to have it reduced...But,even if I think it is impossible to get used to it,you would probably manage it better after some time.
Katie Also for the first question she has changed it to how can she prevent me from leaving the house while belt is off on Saturday. Also how can she know if I leave the house.
Not possible.She should trust you.Or change your release day to a day she's pretty sure to be in the house.
Katie what do you mean by supervised cleaning? Your mom watches you clean yourself with the belt off? She sees you naked? I could never did that. I would die if I let my mom watch me clean myself.
Yes,Many of us have supervised showers with the belt off while we're supervised to be sure we only shower and don't self-pleasure.
Katie Which I would totally do if I had the chance.
Laura A video surveillance, for example
It's a bit extreme...
Katie I don’t think my mom would pull the 100k offer if I had sex. Then I would refuse to ever wear the belt again if she takes away the carrot
So,if you cheat,you won't lose it,at least!🙂
In my case,classical punishment can be a spanking and cornertime.But I can easily have to wear thigh bands and chastity bra permanently,day and night,during a few days,as punishment.
Thigh bands are bands of metal around the thighs,connected with chains to the chastity belt,and connected to each other with a chain,or only a lock,to prevent the wearer to spread her legs.It makes the belt more secure,but restrict a lot the movements.
A chastity bra is a metal bra totally covering the breasts(making impossible to access these at all),which can't be taken off without a key.Very hard emotionally.
Both are awful to wear.
Not sure he's the best one to give advices as you and your mother are both new to it,as he's an unbelted man.
No offense @James,but I think for a new user of chastity belt,a woman is more able to give advices.
Katie wrist cuffs that attach to belt
it's more bondage than chastity...
Katie 1 no touching breast ever.
2 no masterbation.
3 chastity bra needed if going to see bf
4 no seeing bf without permission. (When in college call mom for permission).
5 no lieing about anything ever.
6 no anal sex
7 must maintain 4.0 gpa
8 home or in form by 9pm
9 no slutty cloths
10 no cursing
11 no yelling at mom
12 no asking for belt off or orgasim
A lot of rules...But I don't think some are related to chastity(especially number 5,10,11)
Katie Also James said to mom it would be harder gm for me if I’m let out weekly so it’s switched to quarterly if I’m good.
One week to quarterly is a a too big change in 1 or 2 days.And it would mean only 4 orgasms a year for you.She should take more time to define clear rules,and not going too lenient or too strict,then changing her mind a few hours later.
Katie She is upgrading me to my steel.
You told us she wanted to buy a Neosteel,on another topic,so which one she's going to buy?Anyway,both are good brands.
Same for me.Her rules are becoming stricter and stricter as we discuss here,and some details(like the brand of the belt)tend to change,depending on the topic.
Katie Instead of demanding I stop seeing him she offered me the deal.
I understand you accepted the chastity belt instead of breaking-up.What would have happened if you refused to break-up and refused to wear the chastity belt either?
You could have done it before starting to wear it!😉 At 19,I was definitely not a virgin! 😉
Not very romantic! 😉
Especially with a cheap belt and no training.
aslan_asena At the beginning, you will need a training program. At least two weeks. Three or four are better. Start with e. g. two hours a day and increase softly. Don't perform an overnight wearing before at least having completed seven training days.