Vacations and travelling with chastity belt

Laura

Girls, how about if you need to travel alone?

Sara2001

Laura Girls, how about if you need to travel alone?

I never had the need. Most probably I would go by train or by highway bus. Both are save and have good quality in Germany and for German destinations the train is faster and more convenient then the plain.

James

@Angelina#672 Oh, you can still do it, but you'll be wearing something like this from now on:

https://www.amazon.com/Ella-Mae-Modest-Swimsuit-Leggings/dp/B07D4HL7Z3

Sara2001

James https://www.amazon.com/Ella-Mae-Modest-Swimsuit-Leggings/dp/B07D4HL7Z3

The question is how good you can the the belt, bands and bra under this outfit. I think it's very visible when your outfit is wet.

Angelina

James

yes i could wear that at least with belt and bra but with the tightbands it gets more difficult, i can hardly swim with it

Laura

Sara2001 But you might need it later on, since your are an adult already. As for me, if I need to fly, the belt will be taken off, otherwise I should travel with the belt on.

James

Sara2001 Well, it's either that, wear more layers, negotiate exceptions....or don't go on vacation anymore.

Sara2001

James Well, it's either that, wear more layers, negotiate exceptions....or don't go on vacation anymore.

It's easy to say that if you don't have to fear that someone will see something he or she shouldn't.

Even if it is not visible under the swimsuit, it's still a lot of clothes and because of very religious Muslim families, these kind of clothes is forbidden at many, maybe most European beaches and swimming pools.

James

Sara2001 Modest swimwear is worn by women of many faiths and not banned, outside of some temporary French ones which don't apply here. If you can find evidence of such a widespread ban, please do so.

As for being seen, sure, but that's where the compromise and exceptions come in. No girl is going to get to touch even unbelted while next to her dad on a beach, or even in the water, really.

If that's a problem, well, then okay, but vacations may as well be cancelled, then.

Vanessa

I’ve never traveled by plane,but I guess,in such case,the belt should be taken off before the flight and put back on right after...

Travelling alone would be a problem if the belt must be worn...Avoiding the plane,using train or bus(like Sara suggested),seems the best solution.

Going to the beach is really difficult,yes.Or we must wear clothes hiding it....Maybe using a pareo at the beach,taken it off right before going to the sea,and put it on right after?The belt would be visible with the swimsuir,but not for long,maybe short enough to not be noticed.

Laura

Vanessa I’ve never traveled by plane

Lucky for you and other you live in Europe, where everything is close and railroads are good.

Angelina Belt and bra also add some weight, so be carefully when swim. My Tollyboy is almost 1.5 kilograms.

James

Angelina Which goes back to negotiations and exceptions... I'd agree with perhaps the belt and that swimwear on - or just the swimwear.

Angelina

Laura
there you have right belt and bra are together already quite heavy, there I should be really careful 😉

Angelina

James

yes i could of course get into it, but currently i don't dare to go out on the street with it normally (except in emergencies) i don't know how it will be in 3 weeks on holiday, but to be able to enjoy it to some extent i have to get over it

James

Angelina Have you discussed if you'll get new swimwear of if you'll go at all?

While you may want to put conversations about this or school or sports off, you probably should not...

Sara2001

Angelina Where do you go to holiday? Warm region? Cold region? Is it common for swimming or are there other things to do? Is it in the western world? I think doing a trip to a less democratic country with a minor age daughter in a chastity outfit could lead to heavy trouble.

Laura

Sara2001 she said "fuerte ventura". That's Spain.
Angelina Do you know what kind of swimsuit your dad have in mind for you?

Sara2001

Laura she said "fuerte ventura". That's Spain.

Most probably I'm currently to tired now. Yes, she said that.

You should organise a big load of TV series, or something that you can use during the holidays and you should tell your father this, but it is important to not do it in anger or reproachful but calm and as something that is just the logical consequence for you.

The hidden message has to be: "if I'm not able to enjoy my time at the pool/beach, so I prevent a boring holiday by organising entertainment for myself". So you look adult and understanding your situation as a fact.

If you do it right, he sees that you accept your situation and he can recognise and see by himself how much he takes away from you. Maybe he can than find a way to give you a bit more freedom without loosing his face or that he appears inconsequent.

Angelina

Sara2001

I'm also very tired no problem. 😃

I'll talk to my father tomorrow in a quiet tone about how he imagines it on holiday.

Sara2001

Angelina

I'm with you with my thoughts and I hope I can help you a bit.

For me it looks like he will not change his mind immediately and/or because of your direct input. Give him the input that brings idea to his head on his own.

I would make suggestions how you plan to spend the time on holiday. During this I would not point out that you have to make these plans because of the belt, bra and tight bands.

He already knows this very well and as you said you already had unpleasant conversations about this topic with him!!!

From my own experience I know how difficult it is to not freak out and scream to him what he is doing to you. Normally nothing changes to the better if you do so.

If he explains you with the biggest self confidence, that of cause you have to adjust to what he has done to you, keep calm. Don't freak out. Show him that you don't want to fight and the you only think about what you can do in the new situation.

I don't know your father and I don't know your belt and anything, but maybe you can even offer him to lock your belt, bra and tight bands on your own in the airport toilet just after landing (if you can lock it without the keys) if this makes him happy you can only win with things like that. Most probably he will be very proud of you and maybe you get something back in exchange.

Don't say things like "Why should I go to the pool, it's so hot outside and I can not use it anyway" but things like "I plan to read a good book in my room, it's so hot in the sun and here I don't get a sunburn".

Show him that you got his point and that you don't fight, but now with the given changes you have to replan your life.

After a while he will see how your life is now and then the changes are his changes and than they don't feel like loosing for him.

Angelina

Sara2001

thanks for the kind words 😃

I will talk as said tomorrow in peace with him and take up your suggestions.

I will announce myself tomorrow then, we will see how it runs

Vanessa

Sara2001 From my own experience I know how difficult it is to not freak out and scream to him what he is doing to you. Normally nothing changes to the better if you do so.

I agree with you,never the best way to discuss it,even if it is not always easy to stay calm when you can't access to your own genital parts or feel sexual pleasure anymore,and knowing it'll be the case for several years...

Angelina when we lie on the beach he will take off the bra and the tightbands, so that i only have to wear the belt. i have also already seen what it looks like, the swimsuit has a leg attachment and a skirt on the hips, so that the belt is effectively covered.
when we are on longer hikes (from 30 minutes) i get the tightbands off 😉 but the bra stays on.

Not perfect,but it could have been worse.

Angelina t helped a lot to speak with my father in a calm tone i explained to him that i understand why he wants to lock me up, but i also explained to him which points would make the holiday inedible for me.

he then agreed to the compromises described above, which of course pleases me. today we often met in the middle.

You managed this talk very welll!

Sara2001 Yes, I know exactly what you mean. At least I was allowed to go to school without the belt on days with sport class. On any other day I had the same fear, but luckily nobody find it out.

It was the same for me when I was punished this way:no belt during sports,but having to wear and hide it when there is no sports.Nobody(except a few boyfriends/girlfriends,for obvious reasons)knew it.

Laura

She can say too it is her choice,as she wants to be able to date while letting her boyfriend understand very clearly that she won't have sex with him for a long time,and it is useless to try to make her accept to have sex with him.

Sara2001 Any toilet break.

Not the best place to self-pleasure,but it would be more than enough for us!