Vacations and travelling with chastity belt

Sin

Ha Sydney weather is only in the 20s all week, they're having a cold snap! I wouldn't even bother going to the beach unless it's 30° or above. Wait until it hits 40°+, that's when the fun starts.

curious

Sin
Sydney typically has not more than a handful of days above 40 each year, sometimes even none at all. And those are usually in January, so unlikely she will have to cope with that.

Andrew

Maija airport WiFi didn't work so video calling during the change wasn't possible. Initially he decided that we would need to wait until Sydney, but after negotiating 3 minutes for each one of us was allowed

Don't you think that the entirety of the measures taken by your father in connection with your trip to Australia is a gross exaggeration? I can understand a father holding his daughter in a chastity belt to keep her virginity or not to masturbate (although I don't support this). However, such activities as using a diaper or peeping on a phone in the toilet seem completely disproportionate. Even if it happened that you masturbated on a plane or at the airport, it would be an incidental event since you wear the chastity belt all the time. Besides, does your father have any level of trust in you?

Angelina

Maija (I decided to tell my father what I did, since it felt so wrong. He was grateful for being forthcoming about it, and said he will think about the appropriate remedial measures 😃)

no, that's not wrong, it's completely normal and i wouldn't have told your father that. if you should have feelings of guilt, then at the most towards your girlfriend. is she actually on holiday with you? anyway i wish you a nice time 🙂
may i ask how long you will stay in australia? and even outside your metal underwear it must be a shock to come to australia from a cold country like finland?

Andrew Besides, does your father have any level of trust in you?

well, it's the same with me, if it is like that, we wouldn't wear a belt, would we? 🤨

Sin

curious I'm in Perth and our forecast for this week is 37, 38, 38, 37, 38. Sydney is typically a week behind us as we're on the same latitude and the weather patterns run west to east. Feb - March is when it gets humid and sweaty as the tropical summer storms arrive, so not exactly metal underwear weather! @Maija is lucky she landed on a cool week.

curious

Sin
I have lived in Sydney for several years. Great Dividing Range isolates the east coastal regions always from the rest of the mainland, so what happens in Perth does not necessarily reach Sydney. It might or might not.
But I think @Maija will somehow adjust.

Avery

Sin I'm in Perth and our forecast for this week is 37, 38, 38, 37, 38.

It's 37 where I am too. Except we do temperatures in Fahrenheit.

curious

Avery
Maybe one day the US will manage to overcome outdated measuring units and join the rest of the world. There is still hope.

Avery

curious Maybe one day the US will manage to overcome outdated measuring units and join the rest of the world. There is still hope.

Possibly, but we have the Kardashian as a measure of time, putting us ahead of you people. E.g. it is one Kardashian until school ends for the Northern Hemisphere summer.

Andrew

Angelina well, it's the same with me, if it is like that, we wouldn't wear a belt, would we? 🤨

I always saw your situation as extreme. I didn't think @Maija would be the same, especially since she claims to wear the belt voluntarily, so I would expect a more common sense approach from her father...

Angelina

Andrew especially since she claims to wear the belt voluntarily,

so from my point of view, a prerequisite for voluntariness is that @Maija could say she doesn't want to wear the belt and the other devices anymore, i don't see that. but best @Maija should clarify that herself

Ines

Andrew I would expect a more common sense approach from her father...

Amen.

Andrew

Angelina that @Maija could say she doesn't want to wear the belt and the other devices anymore, i don't see that. but best @Maija should clarify that herself

I also sometimes feel the same way and it would be really good if @Maija spoke about it.

Bryan

Angelina It is definitely best for @Maija to answer herself although I've generally found her one of the more voluntary/enthusiastic wearers on the forum?

Maija thighbands aren't restraints. They are simply something that a proper lady must wear. Yes they prevent the wearer from doing some things, but so do mini skirts and high heels! I consider thighbands with a chain essential, and wouldn't not wear them even if given the chance.

That being said, I agree the rules while traveling seem excessive and I think it would be quite reasonable for her to push back more against them.

Angelina

Bryan although I've generally found her one of the more voluntary/enthusiastic wearers on the forum?

yes, maybe @Maija likes the equipment and chastity, that is also ok, but according to my definition of voluntariness, she must have the opportunity to say no if she wants to and I don't see that.

Rina

Maija I'm not sure what I'll be doing if I start to wear chastity equipment and manage things, but I guess things will go way lenient for me, since it's more about alleviating my dysphoria (So I would really want to get back into belt asap), instead of enforcing my chastity.

Does your My-Steel belt have Travel System (Which basically allows it to be easily stowed in luggage)? Once I get a chastity belt, I'm thinking about adding that option (I'm kind of leaned towards anal hole style) so it would be convenient to carry it to travel destination.

Maija

Rina Does your My-Steel belt have Travel System (Which basically allows it to be easily stowed in luggage)? Once I get a chastity belt, I'm thinking about adding that option (I'm kind of leaned towards anal hole style) so it would be convenient to carry it to travel destination.

No but a big suitcase does just fine for us

Kaja

Angelina This what you say is really important point.

Angelina

Kaja This what you say is really important point.

I'm assuming that on my own. let's say i would like to wear the belt and other devices. I still wouldn't call myself voluntary because I wouldn't have the chance to say no

curious

Angelina
Technically speaking you are right, but then:
Involuntary and happy with that situation is absolutely fine and should not give rise to any arguments.
There are plenty of situations in life where we do not have a choice but are happy the way things are.

Angelina

Maija No but a big suitcase does just fine for us

and? can you manage the heat in your equipment?

curious Involuntary and happy with that situation is absolutely fine

yes, i think that describes the situation @Maija is in. however, that is better than her being unhappy with the belt.

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