Your Mom's Thigh Bands
Maija From the appearance, the thigh band is obviously a kind of restraint. You think thigh bands are very natural, so did you also think that wearing a restraints is very natural for a grown woman at the time and feel attracted to it? Little girls always love to imitate their mothers in clothing like high heels, so have you ever wanted to try them when you notice them? Or were you wondering why your mother wears a restraints, or whether other adult women wear similar devices? Did you accidentally discuss this with someone else?
Kaja I dont think so. It is about mindset. Lot o child from homeschooling or from good school (not only alternative) like education and they donnt need external motivation.
Avery It almost seems sometimes that you are a troll. Right here on the forum I think @Ines would be a good example of someone who worked hard in order to achieve something, to get into med school, to succeed in sports.
of course that can be, i'm an example of that myself, but i'm talking about the fact that up to a year before graduation a maximum of 20% of the students in my school really studied just to get good grades, in the year of graduation it was maybe 30-40% i'm just speaking from my school experiences
Natalia congratulations to you both
thank you 
Mr-TM I never did. Not even before the exams.
That's exactly what I mean, so small rewards can help to motivate the child to learn and get good grades
Avery You speak excellent English.
together with physics, english was actually my weakest subject at school, but i have the talent to "beat" a lot of learning content into myself and to concentrate, that always helped me
mimikatz no, she doesn't have any problems with her muscles so far.
mimikatz thighbands aren't restraints. They are simply something that a proper lady must wear. Yes they prevent the wearer from doing some things, but so do mini skirts and high heels! I consider thighbands with a chain essential, and wouldn't not wear them even if given the chance.
My mother thinks the same way, and always tells how her chastity equipment has made her a better person.
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Maija thighbands aren't restraints. They are simply something that a proper lady must wear.
Well, I didn't mean bands are restraint, but what you said is the understanding of an adult. As you thought they're natural and your mom didn't explain their purpose until you get old enough, it can be drawn that it's impossible for you to understand their necessity and advantages for a lady as a little girl. Appearance of bands is really similar to handcuffs to a little girl.
mimikatz but if you notice the bands at 8yo you may not know these ancient underwear but you must know handcuffs.
yes, I agree with you here. i think if i as an 8 year old girl, whether accidentally or on purpose, would have discovered my mother's thigh bands, then the first question in my head would be: "why are mom's legs tied up?" . a girl that age doesn't think far enough to see it as normal in any way.
Ines One more thing..
Lets make a thought experiment. Imagine your older sister manages to masturbate by stimulating her breasts an she is caught by your parents. They decide, she has to wear a chastity bra aditionally. They decide, the new gold standard of 'protection' in your family is a chastity belt + bra. You refuse to wear the bra (you don't like it, you told this in the past) and because of this you lose your 'privilegs'. In my opinion your younger sister is in this situation now. I'm sure you disagree but I can't change your mind an you can't change mine.
a_father Imagine your older sister manages to masturbate by stimulating her breasts an she is caught by your parents. They decide, she has to wear a chastity bra aditionally. They decide, the new gold standard of 'protection' in your family is a chastity belt + bra.
I call to the Men in Black, because some aliens are faking be my parents. 
My story is very plain, even boring...
a_father They decide, the new gold standard of 'protection' in your family is a chastity belt + bra.
It is absolutely impossible, but I will do the effort.
This would not happen before a negotiation, and obviously ,and I said it a lot of times, in this case, wearing a bra could bring more privileges, but do not wear it do not take away anything of current situation.
a_father I'm sure you disagree but I can't change your mind an you can't change mine.
I know, but at least currently we can talk politely, and that is great.
I'll try to give an example, but I don't know if it applies to @Ines's sister.
Ines's sister wants to go to a party. A real party with women and men and probably enough alcohol. Situation now: she is not allowed to go, because it is too dangerous to make a wrong decision.
Situation with cb: she is allowed to go because she is protected.
@Ines please correct me if what I wrote misses the point of cb carrying in your family.