Using a chastity belt as a means to "test" a relationship

HHelen

Valadar I think this could potentially prevent a lot of heartache

I completely agree with you.

Vanessa

Angelina I guess it won't surprise you that I disagree 😉

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And if she omits to tell him she can get the keys if she wants?😉

Angelina i am rather surprised that he first wanted to support her and then separated from her.

Yes,his way to react is very surprising...

Valadar Yes my idea in my head was that it would prevent the jumping into bed and taking the pressure off the woman for sex&in that way to allow the relationship to grow more...

It could work,yes.But won't prevent heartache if he decides to break-up.

Valadar it is not wise to have sex with lots of people

But it could be enough if they have a long and serious relationship,or get engaged.If they're truly in love,and think about marrying together,they would not have sex with lots of people.And,personally,I think it is good to have sex with a boyfriend before marrying,to know if there is some problem about their sexual compatibility,and solve these if needed,before the wedding night.

And,even if wearing it until marriage,don't you think an abstinence belt should be enough?

HHelen

I don't think so,but at least,she would know he doesn't love her before having sex with him.

Christine

However,you still don't like it.

Katie

Renita Tell us more details about this relation and it will help better to analyze who's fault it is

I only mentioned it on here because I was angry and thought I might get a little support. Instead you all are analyzing it, blaming me and saying mean stuff.

Angelina

Katie

understandable, but because (according to your statement) it was on the belt, we just want a lot of information to know how he and you acted

Christine I date with the belt on and can say it works.

but it's more complicated, isn't it?

Renita

Katie No, bad result is also result. It lets you learn and don't make same mistakes in future. But if want to analyze your mistakes and blame him only, too bad for you.

Max9

Laura I wouldn't let him have sex with me

I once had a relationship where I was deeply in love with a person who obviously judt wanted me as an affaire. I was so blinded I thought she would mean it serious indeed. I believe this can happen more often, that's why I think wearing achastity belt till wedding can be a prevention for this not to happen to someone.

Christine

Unlike most of you here, I date with the belt on and can say it works. Even in behavior.

Angelina

Vanessa And if she omits to tell him she can get the keys if she wants?

I think he's gonna ask 😉

Vanessa know if there is some problem about their sexual compatibility,and solve these if needed,before the wedding night.

unfortunately i have to disagree, even though i think it is good to have sex before the wedding, i think these problems can be solved after the wedding night

HHelen

Vanessa And,personally,I think it is good to have sex with a boyfriend before marrying,to know if there is some problem about their sexual compatibility,and solve these if needed,before the wedding night.

I'm not going to take her belt off just for this purpose.

Valadar

Vanessa It could work,yes.But won't prevent heartache if he decides to break-up.

Valadar it is not wise to have sex with lots of people

But it could be enough if they have a long and serious relationship,or get engaged.If they're truly in love,and think about marrying together,they would not have sex with lots of people.And,personally,I think it is good to have sex with a boyfriend before marrying,to know if there is some problem about their sexual compatibility,and solve these if needed,before the wedding night.

And,even if wearing it until marriage,don't you think an abstinence belt should be enough?

I don't personally see a problem if they have sexual intercourses before the actual wedding night, if they are committed to each other. Nor do I personally cing a problem with the girl wearing an abstinence belt (where the front sheild is removable on some chastity belts) as opposed to a full on chastity belt. My idea was that the girl uses it as a way to test her romantic partner of his seriousness towards her as a person true it will not prevent heartbreak however it will lessen it by her not joining herself callously to a partner that could just discard her potentially after having received sexual gratification. Just my thoughts...

Vanessa

Angelina unfortunately i have to disagree, even though i think it is good to have sex before the wedding, i think these problems can be solved after the wedding night

But their wedding night would be less good for them...

HHelen

Even if they're engaged,and only want to try once to be sure it is good for both of them,to solve potential problems before their wedding(and to make her not virgin on the wedding night,avoiding any pain or blood during it)?

Valadar

I tend to agree.The heartache could be less hard if she knows he only wanted sex from her before doing it,sure.And she would be less ashamed of herself to have accepted to have sex with a wrong man.

Angelina

And,even if it implies some lying about the keys,she could make him sure he couldn't have sex with her,even if he tries to convince her.

Angelina

Valadar however it will lessen it by her not joining herself callously to a partner that could just discard her potentially after having received sexual gratification. Just my thoughts...

True, but that girl might as well just say no. 😉

Valadar

Angelina True, a no should be enough however a chastity belt really says NO lol wouldn't you agree? 🤣

Christine

Valadar however a chastity belt really says NO

You need to say No anyway if you don't want him to discover your belt.

Angelina

Valadar True, a no should be enough however a chastity belt really says NO lol wouldn't you agree?

a normal no has to be enough, if the boy does not keep to it, we call it rape

Valadar

Christine I suppose it depends where your relationship stands and how comfortable you are with your potential romantic partner obviously alot of the females on this forum including yourself are belted and have very little to no say in there current situation. I was just using the point of a chastity belt to prevent sexual intercourse as a means of letting a relationship deepen beyond just the current culture of everything always being about sex. Just my thoughts...

sun

When I talked with my wife about the chastity belt before our marriage, if she thought I was a fetishism, she will never marry me. So I think that's really a test.

Christine

Valadar have very little to no say in there current situation

I could say yes, but have to say no.

Valadar

Angelina I agree Angelina, unfortunately some guys do not take no as an answer&in this case a chastity belt can prevent rape.

Angelina

Valadar

well i have already said in another topic that only a chastity belt does not prevent rape. this is only possible with other circumstances (in addition to the belt)

but in general, I agree with you 🙁

Valadar

Angelina chastity belt does not prevent rape.

From what I understand it does prevent the act of rape both "front-side wise" especially&back-side wise" in some cases but there is always a possibility the rape can be forced orally too, so agree with you in the "broader sense" of rape.

Angelina

Valadar

well in my opinion it does not prevent rape on the front side (at least not always), but I have explained that in the appropriate topic

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