Angelina unfortunately i have to disagree, even though i think it is good to have sex before the wedding, i think these problems can be solved after the wedding night

But their wedding night would be less good for them...

HHelen

Even if they're engaged,and only want to try once to be sure it is good for both of them,to solve potential problems before their wedding(and to make her not virgin on the wedding night,avoiding any pain or blood during it)?

Valadar

I tend to agree.The heartache could be less hard if she knows he only wanted sex from her before doing it,sure.And she would be less ashamed of herself to have accepted to have sex with a wrong man.

Angelina

And,even if it implies some lying about the keys,she could make him sure he couldn't have sex with her,even if he tries to convince her.

            Vanessa But their wedding night would be less good for them...

            maybe, but i think because it is similar for me and camryn, it will still be a nice night, especially for me if i haven't had an orgasm for several years

                Vanessa Even if they're engaged,and only want to try once to be sure it is good for both of them,to solve potential problems before their wedding(and to make her not virgin on the wedding night,avoiding any pain or blood during it)?

                To hand the key to him or what? I'm still not sure if it's right.

                    Valadar have very little to no say in there current situation

                    I could say yes, but have to say no.

                      Angelina

                      Yes,it would likely be nice,but it's better to be sure there wouldn't be any sexual compatibility problem between the husband and his wife(or two husbands,or two wives)during the wedding night.

                      HHelen

                      Not necessarily giving him the key,only letting them be alone a day in the house,with her abstinence belt off,making clear it would not be the case anymore until they marry.

                      With pill and condoms,there would not be much risk for pregnancy or STD,they would know if they are " sexually compatible",and she would not have to lose her virginity during her wedding night(it can be too painful the first time to make her able to get much pleasure).

                            Vanessa it's better to be sure there wouldn't be any sexual compatibility problem between the husband and his wife(or two husbands,or two wives)during the wedding night.

                            but now even if there are sexual problems between the two of them, it doesn't mean to me that they shouldn't get married. there are many more things that matter when getting married

                            Vanessa it can be too painful the first time

                            that depends a little bit on if he's a virgin, camryn and i are going to share that "pain"

                                  Vanessa With pill and condoms,there would not be much risk for pregnancy or STD

                                  They are about to marry anyway.

                                      Vanessa it can be too painful the first time to make her able to get much pleasure

                                      I have also heard it depends on age

                                          Laura

                                          Can you explain a little bit?

                                          i ask you out of your own interest how would you see someone (me) losing her virginity at 20 ?

                                              Vanessa only letting them be alone a day in the house,with her abstinence belt off

                                              To unlock her just for sex and locks back after? It would be so non-romantic.

                                                  Laura I would have more troubles than you

                                                  so the older the more painful?

                                                  HHelen It would be so non-romantic.

                                                  depending on how you incinerate it 😃

                                                        Vanessa Even if they're engaged,and only want to try once to be sure it is good for both of them,to solve potential problems before their wedding(and to make her not virgin on the wedding night,avoiding any pain or blood during it)?

                                                        They should move away and the belt will be out of scope.

                                                            Laura Correct. But that's a rumor only

                                                            Correct me if Im wrong but isn't that like the idea of the older you are the more painful somethings are like removing your tonsils?

                                                            Perhaps its just an old wives tale? 😅

                                                                Valadar Correct me if Im wrong but isn't that like the idea of the older you are the more painful somethings are like removing your tonsils?

                                                                Hymen becomes stronger