Waist vs. hips

Christine

Angelina You should discuss it with her, even if you don't like the answer, but then you will know.

She might change her mind later regardless what she says now.

Vanessa If you live on your own,and earn your own money,you would not have to obey

It might change later.

Angelina

Christine She might change her mind later regardless what she says now.

that's not fair, i think especially with something as important as a chastity belt everything should be discussed beforehand and also remain valid

Vanessa

Angelina

Possible,yes.

gwen

I understand you(and am sorry for you that they reacted that way),but I think I would have trouble to manage it well...

Christine It might change later.

If you don't depend on her anymore(money,home...),you can choose yourself freely.

Angelina

I agree.

Christine

Angelina that's not fair, i think especially with something as important as a chastity belt everything should be discussed beforehand and also remain valid

She is too impulsive and likes to change her mind.

Vanessa If you don't depend on her anymore(money,home...),you can choose yourself freely.

If it's for good.

Angelina

Vanessa ),but I think I would have trouble to manage it well...

i think so too and i can't understand why homosexuality is still such a big problem

Vanessa If you don't depend on her anymore(money,home...),you can choose yourself freely.

but don't forget the emotional dependency

Vanessa

Angelina but don't forget the emotional dependency

Sure.But I don't know if it is important for her.

Angelina

😉

Angelina

Christine She is too impulsive and likes to change her mind.

then maybe you should think about a contract so that she doesn't change her mind all the time

Christine

Angelina then maybe you should think about a contract so that she doesn't change her mind all the time

It would never work.

Angelina even with a new job, her own flat,

And another fantasy world...

Angelina

Vanessa Sure.But I don't know if it is important for her.

I think the emotional dependence is very high, otherwise she would not write that even with a new job, her own flat, it may be possible to continue wearing the belt.

Vanessa 😉

😂

Vanessa

Angelina I think the emotional dependence is very high, otherwise she would not write that even with a new job, her own flat, it may be possible to continue wearing the belt.

Right.But it would be good if she confirms it.

Christine And another fantasy world...

You should keep hope that you would get it.

Angelina

Christine And another fantasy world...

What do you mean? Why fantasy world?

Christine

Angelina What do you mean? Why fantasy world?

Coz these things are unreal in the current situation,

Vanessa But it would be good if she confirms it.

Probably she is right.

Angelina

Vanessa Right.But it would be good if she confirms it.

@Christine ???

Angelina

Christine Coz these things are unreal in the current situation,

having a job and your own flat is not unrealistic for a woman your age, don't let it drag you down. 😉

Vanessa

Christine Probably she is right.

In this case,it is harder,yes,at least until wedding...A bit like most of us...

Christine

Angelina having a job and your own flat is not unrealistic for a woman your age,

Not now.

Vanessa .A bit like most of us...

Yes, u r in the same situation.

Angelina

Vanessa ..A bit like most of us...

with the difference that we have a partner and will most likely marry in the next few years.

Vanessa

Angelina

Right.

Christine Not now.

With the pandemic,it is harder,yes.

Angelina this could be due to a lack of self-confidence, many women who are involuntarily in the belt have this problem, it took me a very long time to get new strength and sometimes i still have this feeling

And I think it is understandable we react that way,at least at first.

James

Christine You do realize you...say no to every idea right?

Angelina

Christine Not now.

with a little effort and a lot of self-awareness you will make it, i am sure 😉

James You do realize you...say no to every idea right?

this could be due to a lack of self-confidence, many women who are involuntarily in the belt have this problem, it took me a very long time to get new strength and sometimes i still have this feeling

Christine

James You do realize you...say no to every idea right?

Are there any positive ideas?

Vanessa With the pandemic,it is harder,yes.

Not only.

Update. I always wear the waist belt now.

James

Angelina this could be due to a lack of self-confidence, many women who are involuntarily in the belt have this problem, it took me a very long time to get new strength and sometimes i still have this feeling

Sure. I get that...but I am not sure she recognizes this, or even truly wants to get out of the belt, because the one obvious thing is she wont unless she changes things.

Angelina

James she wont unless she changes things.

I think she does not see the possibility to change anything

Vanessa at least at first.

and that's the point, it's completely understandable of course, but we have to get out of this hole at some point. i did it by saying to myself: "hey, despite the belt i have a happy relationship for a long time". 🙂

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