Waist vs. hips

Angelina

Vanessa Sure.But I don't know if it is important for her.

I think the emotional dependence is very high, otherwise she would not write that even with a new job, her own flat, it may be possible to continue wearing the belt.

Vanessa 😉

😂

Christine

Angelina then maybe you should think about a contract so that she doesn't change her mind all the time

It would never work.

Angelina even with a new job, her own flat,

And another fantasy world...

Vanessa

Angelina I think the emotional dependence is very high, otherwise she would not write that even with a new job, her own flat, it may be possible to continue wearing the belt.

Right.But it would be good if she confirms it.

Christine And another fantasy world...

You should keep hope that you would get it.

Angelina

Christine And another fantasy world...

What do you mean? Why fantasy world?

Christine

Angelina What do you mean? Why fantasy world?

Coz these things are unreal in the current situation,

Vanessa But it would be good if she confirms it.

Probably she is right.

Angelina

Vanessa Right.But it would be good if she confirms it.

@Christine ???

Angelina

Christine Coz these things are unreal in the current situation,

having a job and your own flat is not unrealistic for a woman your age, don't let it drag you down. 😉

Vanessa

Christine Probably she is right.

In this case,it is harder,yes,at least until wedding...A bit like most of us...

Christine

Angelina having a job and your own flat is not unrealistic for a woman your age,

Not now.

Vanessa .A bit like most of us...

Yes, u r in the same situation.

Angelina

Vanessa ..A bit like most of us...

with the difference that we have a partner and will most likely marry in the next few years.

Vanessa

Angelina

Right.

Christine Not now.

With the pandemic,it is harder,yes.

Angelina this could be due to a lack of self-confidence, many women who are involuntarily in the belt have this problem, it took me a very long time to get new strength and sometimes i still have this feeling

And I think it is understandable we react that way,at least at first.

James

Christine You do realize you...say no to every idea right?

Angelina

Christine Not now.

with a little effort and a lot of self-awareness you will make it, i am sure 😉

James You do realize you...say no to every idea right?

this could be due to a lack of self-confidence, many women who are involuntarily in the belt have this problem, it took me a very long time to get new strength and sometimes i still have this feeling

Christine

James You do realize you...say no to every idea right?

Are there any positive ideas?

Vanessa With the pandemic,it is harder,yes.

Not only.

Update. I always wear the waist belt now.

James

Angelina this could be due to a lack of self-confidence, many women who are involuntarily in the belt have this problem, it took me a very long time to get new strength and sometimes i still have this feeling

Sure. I get that...but I am not sure she recognizes this, or even truly wants to get out of the belt, because the one obvious thing is she wont unless she changes things.

Angelina

James she wont unless she changes things.

I think she does not see the possibility to change anything

Vanessa at least at first.

and that's the point, it's completely understandable of course, but we have to get out of this hole at some point. i did it by saying to myself: "hey, despite the belt i have a happy relationship for a long time". 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina and that's the point, it's completely understandable of course, but we have to get out of this hole at some point. i did it by saying to myself: "hey, despite the belt i have a happy relationship for a long time". 🙂

I need time too,but managed it.

Christine Update. I always wear the waist belt now.

Sorry for you!🙁

James

Christine Are there any positive ideas?

Over the last few years, yes. But you’ve not wanted the help or to try something new, as I can recall, Christine. It’s just been a steady stream of why it’ll all never work or improve.

Angelina

Christine Not only.

what other reasons are there ?

Christine Update. I always wear the waist belt now.

🙁 not good

Christine

Angelina what other reasons are there ?

Lack of job opportunities.

Angelina but actually that should not happen

At least you can have some hope.

Angelina

Vanessa I need time too,but managed it.

of course, it takes time

Maija Previously I had a hip belt, but could get around it by pulling down.

that was also the concern of @Christine mother, but actually that should not happen, maybe the measurements were not correct?

Maija

Having worn both I can say that a waist style belt definitely gets more in the way, but is way more secure. Previously I had a hip belt, but could get around it by pulling down. In my current belt the waist band sits right above my lilia, so that it's impossible to pull down

Max9

Maija maybe it didn't fit?

Ines

Maija
Badly measured. I have both and are equally safe, if hip belt is a bit less comfortable, but because I have to wear it tighter since it has partially cable design.

Renita

Maija but could get around it by pulling down

Were you actually able to do it?

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