Advices to get used to wear a chastity belt

Verrouille

I asked my girlfriend to lock me in a chastity belt, I was glad she accepted. Now I'm locked in a Neosteel and I regret so much. It is very hard, I cant erect anymore and the belt is tightly locked. I would like to turn back but it's too late. No way. She appreciate so much that it's out of question to put it off. I have to deal with. It's definitive I'm afraid (it seems to be an evidence to her) she will unlock me very rarely. From now on, I have to wear my chastity belt permanently. It's been now many days I'm locked and I cant get used to it. I desesperate and dont know what to do. She wants me to stay locked 24/7. Does anyone have advices to me to get used to it? Thank you

HHelen

Verrouille It's definitive I'm afraid (it seems to be an evidence to her) she will unlock me very rarely.

Why don't you talk to her?

Angelina

Verrouille

you should give yourself some time, wait a few more weeks. if you really get psychological problems, you should have conversations with your girlfriend to talk about improvements of your situation.

if your girlfriend still refuses, you should give her a choice. unlock your belt or separate (but this should be the last way)

Christine

Verrouille It's definitive I'm afraid (it seems to be an evidence to her) she will unlock me very rarely. From now on, I have to wear my chastity belt permanently. It's been now many days I'm locked and I cant get used to it.

You have serious problems with your relationship.

Vanessa

Verrouille

You may be able to tell her to give you the key,or you would destroy the lock.Or don't accept to put it back on.Do you think refusing to keep wearing it can put your relationship in danger?

If she's the only one enjoying the situation,it is not good,and should not be used.

But,for your main question,I don't think we can get used to wear a chastity device,especially reluctantly.We can manage it better,but not be used to it.

Verrouille

Anyway,it should be opened often enough,to be erect,to not damage the penis.

Angelina if your girlfriend still refuses, you should give her a choice. unlock your belt or separate (but this should be the last way)

Right,if it makes him unhappy and she doesn't care,he can doubt she truly love him.

Verrouille I was unlocked today, what a relief! just came back into belt now.
I think I have to stay quiet in the belt (no erotic ideas etc), it would be better then.

Or don't accept to put it back on.

Laura

You might want to read americangraffiti's experience. He was locked in Neosteel by his mother.
Female belts are different

Verrouille

Thank you but I suspect it is fantasy.

Laura

Verrouille In my opinion, it's impossible to wear a male belt for a long time. But I don't know, I saw female belts only on my relatives

Verrouille

It depends on the belt I believe. Mine is state of the art, design for long term wearing. Many Neosteel customers wear their belt permanently. And we choose their best model for that purpose.

Laura

Verrouille Many Neosteel customers wear their belt permanently

I think these are other fantasies, if we are talking about male belts.

Verrouille

Neosteel is as serious as Tollyboy, even better for male belts. The manufacturer himself assured me that the model I wear is designed for permanent wearing. You should take a visit to his website.

Laura

Verrouille There are few Neosteel (female)wearers here

Verrouille

Neosteel developped new male chastity belts these last years, I wear the very last one. I recognize it has a lot of qualities. Perhaps it is just the chastity that is too hard for me. Mindset. I dont know.

Sara2001

I am also a forced wearer. I think if it wouldn't have been a thing my mom had to do as long as I can remember, it would be even more difficult to accept that it already was. Since I am with my boyfriend, I understand that it is needed to maintain the difference in our roles.

Verrouille

It's okay. Unlocking sometimes is okay. 😀
But it is only for the first weeks, then it will be 24/7.
I was unlocked today, what a relief! just came back into belt now.
I think I have to stay quiet in the belt (no erotic ideas etc), it would be better then.

Angelina

Vanessa We can manage it better,but not be used to it.

I've noticed that too, it gets better but not really good

Vanessa and she doesn't care,he can doubt she truly love him.

this is exactly what I mean, of course it should only be the last way out, but love must come from both sides

Vanessa

Angelina I've noticed that too, it gets better but not really good

And after 3 years in it,it is still the case...🙁

Angelina

Vanessa

am now at 1 1/2 years and yes I must unfortunately agree with you 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

Not surprising.I'm sorry,but I can't tell you it would become easier...🙁

Saintprudence

Verrouille Eventually, you do get used to it, or at least accustomed to it. There’s no easy way or shortcut. That’s why the lock is there. There is no other choice but to endure. Take solace in knowing that you do a very special thing by giving your GF this gift, and it allows you to offer up your sacrifice in a way very few are able to truly manage.

Verrouille

Saintprudence
Thank you for solace. Certainly it's all mindset.
Sure we can be proud to be belted for the people we love.

Angelina

Vanessa Not surprising.I'm sorry,but I can't tell you it would become easier...🙁

yes, unfortunately i also assume that. the idea that even if we marry at the earliest point in time, i have worn the belt for 4 1/2 years is very difficult to accept 🙁