Advices to get used to wear a chastity belt
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Saintprudence
Thank you for solace. Certainly it's all mindset.
Sure we can be proud to be belted for the people we love.
Verrouille Indeed. I consider my orgasms to be the property of my spouse, not myself. I feel you are likely the same. We can take pride in the efforts we make to protect the property of our loved ones.
Saintprudence
What belt do you wear?
Verrouille My-steel.
How often are you unlocked?
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Verrouille frequently. I am often unlocked when my wife can supervise me or I can be closely chaperoned by one of our few friends who are in on it. The belt is not an end in and of itself; it is a tool for the overall goal of absolutely preventing self-touching. I am occasionally unlocked when my wife wants me in bed. I am never allowed to be alone and unlocked under any circumstances.
For me, the only way to get used to it is to accept all these sensations and stop fighting them and give up trying to get an orgasm and relief. And also constantly occupy yourself with something - for me it is physical exercise, active sports and study.
I don't think it's possible to give up thinking about sexual pleasure. It's a to important part of our nature. I think any wearer will miss sexual pleasure all the time as long as she or he is wearing the belt.
I'm asking myself about visiting this forum: I tend to consider it helps me to read and talk with all you but is it really the case? My mind is constantly occupied by this belt. I hope I will cope with this belt with time.
you mean you think more about the belt when you write here, or ?
that's normal but it gets better after a while and then it can even distract you from the belt. 
Verrouille I'm asking myself about visiting this forum: I tend to consider it helps me to read and talk with all you but is it really the case?
If you were using will-power to quit masturbation I'd say stay off the forum and stop thinking about it. But you're using a chastity belt and it's really good to be able to share the experience with others.
My mind is constantly occupied by this belt.
I try to enjoy the feeling of arousal, even though it's not going to lead anywhere.
I hope I will cope with this belt with time.
It gets easier!
Angelina it can even distract you from the belt.
Yes indeed.
I think no matter if you come to this forum or not. A constant reminder will occur every morning. If you know what i mean. 
Its good therapy to come here and talk and look for advices from others in the same situation though.