Curfew

Sara2001

Since my relationship with Daniel became very serious, I don't have a curfew anymore, but because of a different reason.

It's very easy 🙂 🙁 My rule says that I am never allowed to leave home without his permission, except for work.

Angelina

Vanessa I'm old enough to not have curfew or bedtime

but I hardly think a bedtime at your age is appropriate anymore. do you really have a bedtime ? 😮

Sara2001 It's very easy 🙂 🙁 My rule says that I am never allowed to leave home without his permission, except for work

very hard rule, but you don't live with him yet or ? then your father has to control this rule or ?

Vanessa

Laura

At least,it is often one of the purposes.

Sara2001

Not a pleasant change,so...

Angelina but I hardly think a bedtime at your age is appropriate anymore. do you really have a bedtime ? 😮

I agree with you,but have no choice.And yes,even if it depends on what I do the next day.

Laura Let's ask @Katies-Mom-Melanie

Right!😉

Laura

Not sure her mother is very open to bargaining...

Angelina this is actually very nice, even if the reason is not nice 🙂

I agree.

Laura

They may think it is dangerous,or make people think she's a slut,for example.

Laura

Often more dangerous at night.

Christine

Vanessa You're lucky!

I have got married earlier.

Sara2001

Angelina very hard rule, but you don't live with him yet or ? then your father has to control this rule or ?

Since Covid 19 he stays at my parents place most of the time. Beside this it's trust and my father.

Katie

Renita But what for? Is it required by law? I miss the point.

Parents make up the rule.

Katie

Laura I think the main purpose of curfew for a girl is to prevent a sleepover with a guy.

But that’s stupid if I’m in a belt. Why can’t I

Laura

Katie But that’s stupid if I’m in a belt.

It is stupid. No curfew is required with a belt on

Katie Why can’t I

Let's ask @Katies-Mom-Melanie

Angelina

Laura It is stupid. No curfew is required with a belt on

it's not only about sexual activity 😉

Sara2001 Since Covid 19 he stays at my parents place most of the time

this is actually very nice, even if the reason is not nice 🙂

Renita And no, nobody ever told me "you must at... be home" because I was always prudent enough.

i know the difference and i mean whether you were never told (when you were a minor) that you had to be home at a certain time . when I'm 18, I won't have a curfew either.

Renita

Angelina so you were allowed to be out as long as you wanted ? you never got told: "you must at... be home"?

There are two stages in your life, minor and adult. If you are a minor your parents have responsibility over you and decide what you are supposed to do. When you are and adult you and only you decide what to do. Curfew for you means you are still a minor. And no, nobody ever told me "you must at... be home" because I was always prudent enough.

Laura I think the main purpose of curfew for a girl is to prevent a sleepover with a guy.

It was not an issue for me.

Katie

Renita There are two stages in your life, minor and adult. If you are a minor your parents have responsibility over you and decide what you are supposed to do. When you are and adult you and only you decide what to do. Curfew for you means you are still a minor. And no, nobody ever told me "you must at... be home" because I was always prudent enough.

I am not a minor. I’m 18. But I still must follow mommy’s rules and wear a belt and be home early unless I get permission. For following the rules I get a home, I get a college education, I get food. Even though I’m 18 unless I want to pay for all that on my own I must follow mommy’s rules still

Laura

Katie I’m 18. But I still must follow mommy’s rules and wear a belt and be home early unless I get permission.

But you can bargain now

Laura

Angelina it's not only about sexual activity

What else is it about? 😂

Renita

Angelina i mean whether you were never told (when you were a minor) that you had to be home at a certain time

I knew it myself.

HHelen

Angelina it's not only about sexual activity

I also think that a good unwed girl should spend nights at home.

Vanessa At least,it is often one of the purposes.

It's the main purpose for parents not familiar with chastity belts.

Angelina

Laura What else is it about? 😂

because there are parents who worry that something will happen to their children when they come home late

Laura

Angelina because there are parents who worry that something will happen to their children when they come home late

What's a difference between day and night time?

Valadar

Laura What's a difference between day and night time?

Generally night time is considered to be more risky in terms of children's safety, in parents eyes. Perhaps it's because it's easier as people tend to do malicious things at night in the darkness?

Angelina

Laura

it's exactly what @Valadar said 😉

Angelina

Renita I knew it myself.

so you did have a curfew?

Renita

Angelina so you did have a curfew?

No. I was not asked to go home at particular time, I taught to have own responsibility instead.

Angelina

Renita

but now I can also be responsible by keeping to agreements and rules 😉

from when were you allowed to decide on your own responsibility (i.e. from which age) ?

Renita

Angelina but now I can also be responsible by keeping to agreements and rules

That's not about you 😃

Angelina from when were you allowed to decide on your own responsibility (i.e. from which age) ?

16 or 17

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