Curfew

Sara2001

Angelina very hard rule, but you don't live with him yet or ? then your father has to control this rule or ?

Since Covid 19 he stays at my parents place most of the time. Beside this it's trust and my father.

Angelina

Laura It is stupid. No curfew is required with a belt on

it's not only about sexual activity 😉

Sara2001 Since Covid 19 he stays at my parents place most of the time

this is actually very nice, even if the reason is not nice 🙂

Renita And no, nobody ever told me "you must at... be home" because I was always prudent enough.

i know the difference and i mean whether you were never told (when you were a minor) that you had to be home at a certain time . when I'm 18, I won't have a curfew either.

Renita

Angelina so you were allowed to be out as long as you wanted ? you never got told: "you must at... be home"?

There are two stages in your life, minor and adult. If you are a minor your parents have responsibility over you and decide what you are supposed to do. When you are and adult you and only you decide what to do. Curfew for you means you are still a minor. And no, nobody ever told me "you must at... be home" because I was always prudent enough.

Laura I think the main purpose of curfew for a girl is to prevent a sleepover with a guy.

It was not an issue for me.

Katie

Renita There are two stages in your life, minor and adult. If you are a minor your parents have responsibility over you and decide what you are supposed to do. When you are and adult you and only you decide what to do. Curfew for you means you are still a minor. And no, nobody ever told me "you must at... be home" because I was always prudent enough.

I am not a minor. I’m 18. But I still must follow mommy’s rules and wear a belt and be home early unless I get permission. For following the rules I get a home, I get a college education, I get food. Even though I’m 18 unless I want to pay for all that on my own I must follow mommy’s rules still

Laura

Katie I’m 18. But I still must follow mommy’s rules and wear a belt and be home early unless I get permission.

But you can bargain now

Vanessa

Laura

At least,it is often one of the purposes.

Sara2001

Not a pleasant change,so...

Angelina but I hardly think a bedtime at your age is appropriate anymore. do you really have a bedtime ? 😮

I agree with you,but have no choice.And yes,even if it depends on what I do the next day.

Laura Let's ask @Katies-Mom-Melanie

Right!😉

Laura

Not sure her mother is very open to bargaining...

Angelina this is actually very nice, even if the reason is not nice 🙂

I agree.

Laura

They may think it is dangerous,or make people think she's a slut,for example.

Laura

Often more dangerous at night.

Laura

Angelina it's not only about sexual activity

What else is it about? 😂

Renita

Angelina i mean whether you were never told (when you were a minor) that you had to be home at a certain time

I knew it myself.

HHelen

Angelina it's not only about sexual activity

I also think that a good unwed girl should spend nights at home.

Vanessa At least,it is often one of the purposes.

It's the main purpose for parents not familiar with chastity belts.

Angelina

Laura What else is it about? 😂

because there are parents who worry that something will happen to their children when they come home late

Laura

Angelina because there are parents who worry that something will happen to their children when they come home late

What's a difference between day and night time?

Valadar

Laura What's a difference between day and night time?

Generally night time is considered to be more risky in terms of children's safety, in parents eyes. Perhaps it's because it's easier as people tend to do malicious things at night in the darkness?

Angelina

Laura

it's exactly what @Valadar said 😉

Angelina

Renita I knew it myself.

so you did have a curfew?

Renita

Angelina so you did have a curfew?

No. I was not asked to go home at particular time, I taught to have own responsibility instead.

Angelina

Renita

but now I can also be responsible by keeping to agreements and rules 😉

from when were you allowed to decide on your own responsibility (i.e. from which age) ?

Renita

Angelina but now I can also be responsible by keeping to agreements and rules

That's not about you 😃

Angelina from when were you allowed to decide on your own responsibility (i.e. from which age) ?

16 or 17

Angelina

Renita That's not about you 😃

well if you answer me i have to assume that it's about me, but you probably mean it more generally 😃

Renita 16 or 17

then I need to talk to my dad again 🤣

Laura

Angelina then I need to talk to my dad again

and relocate to Texas 😂

Renita

Angelina but you probably mean it more generally

I meant people who still are not adult enough and have curfew.

Angelina

Laura

not while trump is president. 😂

Laura

Vanessa Not sure her mother is very open to bargaining...

@Katie is 18 now

Sara2001

Vanessa Not a pleasant change,so...

Not really a drastic change, I had to ask to leave, to ask when I am allowed to be back and to explain my plans in advance before Daniel, too.

Angelina

Vanessa I agree with you,but have no choice.And yes,even if it depends on what I do the next day.

hmm, i haven't had bedtime since i was 12, you are 25 you need immediatly to change something. for me it was that since i was 12 i only sleep 6 hours and because my father sleeps more than me it makes no sense

Sara2001

even if I repeat myself, contracts would help here, in which it says which reasons he has to accept, so that you may leave the house, otherwise he can decide very arbitrarily 🙁

Renita are not adult enough and have curfew.

like @Vanessa or how ?

Laura

Vanessa And yes,even if it depends on what I do the next day.

Judging by the time when you reply on the forum, you don't 😂

Vanessa

Laura

I know,but she still live in her house,and it seems she needs her financial support.So if her mother don't want to bargain,@Katie can't do much..

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