Curfew

Vanessa

Laura

At least,it is often one of the purposes.

Sara2001

Not a pleasant change,so...

Angelina but I hardly think a bedtime at your age is appropriate anymore. do you really have a bedtime ? 😮

I agree with you,but have no choice.And yes,even if it depends on what I do the next day.

Laura Let's ask @Katies-Mom-Melanie

Right!😉

Laura

Not sure her mother is very open to bargaining...

Angelina this is actually very nice, even if the reason is not nice 🙂

I agree.

Laura

They may think it is dangerous,or make people think she's a slut,for example.

Laura

Often more dangerous at night.

Laura

Vanessa Not sure her mother is very open to bargaining...

@Katie is 18 now

Sara2001

Vanessa Not a pleasant change,so...

Not really a drastic change, I had to ask to leave, to ask when I am allowed to be back and to explain my plans in advance before Daniel, too.

Angelina

Vanessa I agree with you,but have no choice.And yes,even if it depends on what I do the next day.

hmm, i haven't had bedtime since i was 12, you are 25 you need immediatly to change something. for me it was that since i was 12 i only sleep 6 hours and because my father sleeps more than me it makes no sense

Sara2001

even if I repeat myself, contracts would help here, in which it says which reasons he has to accept, so that you may leave the house, otherwise he can decide very arbitrarily 🙁

Renita are not adult enough and have curfew.

like @Vanessa or how ?

Laura

Vanessa And yes,even if it depends on what I do the next day.

Judging by the time when you reply on the forum, you don't 😂

Vanessa

Laura

I know,but she still live in her house,and it seems she needs her financial support.So if her mother don't want to bargain,@Katie can't do much..

Vanessa

Sara2001

So the only change is that you must tell it to your boyfriend too,while it was only to your father before?If yes,not a big change,sure.

Angelina you need immediatly to change something.

It's not me which can decide it...

Angelina as far as i know @Vanessa has the days off after she posts on the forum. probably this bedtime is only for working days.

Right.I'm more free if I've not to work the next day,or,at least,the next morning.

And I sometimes cheat,of course,but it is risked.

HHelen I also think that a good unwed girl should spend nights at home.

It is not uncommon for parents to think this way.

HHelen It's the main purpose for parents not familiar with chastity belts.

Logical,especially without chastity belt.

Laura My parents have the opposite opinion. I can spend nights wherever I wish, but not allowed to brings guys home

Have they explained why?

Christine

As wearing a chastity belt! 😉

Angelina

It would always be allowed,if you call him?

Ines home of a female friend.

Often used as a way to cheat this rule,telling we go to our friend house,and then go to our boyfriend/girlfriend's one!😉

Renita

Angelina but you probably mean it more generally

I meant people who still are not adult enough and have curfew.

Renita

Angelina like @Vanessa or how ?

Right. And @Katie .

Sara2001

Angelina even if I repeat myself, contracts would help here, in which it says which reasons he has to accept, so that you may leave the house, otherwise he can decide very arbitrarily 🙁

But the reasons are already very clear. I can leave without asking permission for work or school. In this situation I only have to inform him. In any other situations I have to ask permission. It's very simple.

Angelina

Laura

as far as i know @Vanessa has the days off after she posts on the forum. probably this bedtime is only for working days. nevertheless she is 25 and is an adult woman, this is very inappropriate

Laura

Angelina as far as i know @Vanessa has the days off after she posts on the forum

I think otherwise it takes too much time

HHelen I also think that a good unwed girl should spend nights at home.

My parents have the opposite opinion. I can spend nights wherever I wish, but not allowed to brings guys home

HHelen

Angelina it's not only about sexual activity

I also think that a good unwed girl should spend nights at home.

Vanessa At least,it is often one of the purposes.

It's the main purpose for parents not familiar with chastity belts.

Christine

HHelen I also think that a good unwed girl should spend nights at home.

Sounds medieval.

Angelina

HHelen I also think that a good unwed girl should spend nights at home.

maybe and of course it is a main reason, but not the only

Laura I think otherwise it takes too much time

definitely, i have a different tactic, i read and write every day, because i like to read everything and otherwise it would be too much 😂

Ines

Christine But unfair.

No. There is only a reason to do it, and it is pretty normal that parents have to protect us.

Laura My parents have the opposite opinion. I can spend nights wherever I wish, but not allowed to brings guys home.

In my home, and I think my parents are not monsters we can not bring boys ( really we do not even try it), and of course we can not sleep in boys house.

HHelen

Laura but not allowed to brings guys home

I have nothing against it.

Vanessa It is not uncommon for parents to think this way.

That's obvious.

Vanessa Logical,especially without chastity belt.

You also have this risk in the daytime, nothing to do with curfew.

Ines

Christine Sounds medieval.

Sounds very logic. In home or home of a female friend.

Angelina

Renita

well i have no curfew at 18 as long as i tell my dad where i am going and call him if i get home after 10pm 🙂

Katie

Renita Right. And @Katie .

What are you asking me?

Christine

Ines Sounds very logic.

But unfair.

Vanessa As wearing a chastity belt!

Chastity belts are back now.

Angelina

Katie What are you asking me?

she talks about adult women (over 18 years) who still have a curfew

Renita

Katie You are 18 already, but not a adult since you have curfew.

Katie

Renita I’m an adult

Angelina

she is an adult before the law (although she comes from the USA, where you are only an adult at 21?) but not in her household

Renita

Angelina but not in her household

It might end up with curfew at 25.

Angelina

Vanessa And I sometimes cheat,of course,but it is risked.

just so i understand this correctly. could it be that it's just a rule when you have to be in your room ? or really a rule when you have to lie in bed and sleep ? i ask because i find that extremely strict

Vanessa It would always be allowed,if you call him?

of course as i said before i will have no curfew as soon as i am 18, but my father always wants to know where i am and if it will be later

Laura

Vanessa Have they explained why?

The same reason. An unwed girl shouldn't demonstrate her sexual activity.

Ines I think my parents are not monsters we can not bring boys

You can or you can't?

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