Joh Does it mean if you have an emotional problem of your equipment you have to handle it on your own?
No, of course not. If I have an emotional problem with my equipment, he hugs and cuddles me as I need it and we talk about why this is necessary and useful, but yes, even if it is not strictly forbidden, he appreciates when I don't ask or beg for a release, even in those situations. It doesn't happen anyway.
Saintprudence It’s very special to have someone who will supervise your belting with the proper love and attention
I couldn't have said it better. Even if it is strict it's very, very, very beautiful when you known, see and feel that it is done out of love for you.
Sara2001 ... it's very, very, very beautiful when you known, see and feel that it is done out of love for you.
Somehow its nice to read here that others see it as I do.
Of course the forum itself may be biased away from this point of view since it is specifically for the discussion of "unwed" chastity. The members who write the most here are not in wedlock and so are concerned with CB's for other reasons. I took advantage of the forum to learn about thigh bands, but crept in "under the wire" since technically I am "unwed" - smiles.
It is a bit of a shame from my perspective that there isn't a similar forum for Wed Chastity (I am familiar with BeltedGirls.com), that is not kink related.
Foxies We've talked about doing "Wed Chastity" here but concluded that enough topics already successfully overlapped both that it would be redundant 
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Angelina Is it possible to get married in your country ?
Indeed, it has been possible for same sex couples to wed for a few years now, and before that "civil unions" were allowed.
My partner and I have often discussed it, but since we have been together for so long, in our own minds we are wedded. Essentially we have no need of any sort of "blessing" by others. Possibly for sentimental reasons we prefer to remain as we are (living in sin 
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This is no critique of others who prefer recognition of their commitment to each other. Its actually rather sweet. We also recognise it can provide a legal framework for the protection of children. Sadly, this is something we have no need of.
Sorry, I wasn't aware that the specific topic of wedded chastity has a specific thread here.
Foxies clarification: there wasn’t a specific “wedded chastity” topic. Just a discussion within other topics that we seemed to have belting within marriage pretty well covered already!
Foxies We also recognise it can provide a legal framework
It has also an advantage for different sex couples. In an emergency your partner unconscious in hospital and decision should be mad if you are married it is much easier. Otherwise the doctor could not acknowledge you as partner and listen to you.
Foxies This is Foxies partner writing on her account. If the moderators don’t like this – let me know and I will stop writing.
No problem,especially if you always tell when it is you who write on this account.
And welcome!
Angelina in germany, real marriage has only been possible for same-sex couples for a few years, before that we had the system of an officially registered live partnership.
Like in France,it seems.
However,if you want to open one,I don't think it would be a problem.
Foxies This is no critique of others who prefer recognition of their commitment to each other. Its actually rather sweet. We also recognise it can provide a legal framework for the protection of children. Sadly, this is something we have no need of.
no, i don't want to put you under pressure it was just a thought, even though i understand that after a long relationship it would only be symbolic
children are another topic and yes my girlfriend and i are thinking about how to solve the natural problem of a lesbian relationship.
Joh In an emergency your partner unconscious in hospital and decision should be mad if you are married it is much easier.
I don't know how it is in other countries, but in Germany there are so-called living wills, i.e. a document stating who is allowed to make decisions in an emergency.
Vanessa No problem,especially if you always tell when it is you who write on this account.
And welcome!
This is Angela writing on my partner Foxies account. Thank you for the welcome and I will do my best to identify myself if or whenever I add a comment - smiles.
Oh, and I very much appreciate the polite atmosphere on this form. It is a welcome change after seeing so many other forums. 
I tell my husband about interesting things I read here. He enjoys hearing them, but he doesn't seem interested in joining.
It probably didn't help when I said he should sign up as MisterBlossom. lol
MissBlossom He can join and read everything but he has obligation to write at all.
MissBlossom It probably didn't help when I said he should sign up as MisterBlossom. lol
How about SirBlossom?
MissBlossom It probably didn't help when I said he should sign up as MisterBlossom. lol
actually sounds like an idea haha 
