29-year-old virgin

Renita

Vanessa As she wears it without this feeling during years,they probably would find it very suspect.

She can refer to her age.

Laura

Abby82 What's your reason(excuse) and what is their?

"How long should I wear it?" from my side, and "you only need to take it off for sex" from their side

Saintprudence

Laura they do not approve at all of masturbation either, as I recall.

Laura

Saintprudence they do not approve at all of masturbation either

Long story short, they don't care

Angelina

Laura Long story short, they don't care

but it does matter. there is a big difference between being denied sex and masturbation, your parents should consider this

a_father

Laura I think @Laura you don't want to understand what I'm saying. If a daughter is your age, parents certainly don't have a say in your lifestyle. I would ask them if they don't believe you are taking care of yourself. I wouldn't use shame as an argument, just the fact that you feel patronized. You are 29 years old and they don't allow you to control your body. It's not about sex, just about the rights to yours body. If they get older, the relationship will turn around. At some point you have to take care of them. Now is the time to meet at eye level. There is no more room for your belt. Now clear what do I want to say? If not, I will probably not reach you. In Germany we have a funny saying that applies: 'I don't have enough colored pencils to explain it to you.' I don't know whether the sentence makes sense in English.

Laura

Angelina your parents should consider this

They know it, but they are not going to do special arrangements for it

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.

Angelina

And I don't think there is a french translation for this one.

Laura

However,there was,and it ended because you sneaked out,right?

Angelina

a_father 'I don't have enough colored pencils to explain it to you.

i am also from germany, but i have never heard this saying before. but it is a good one, i will remember it 😂

Saintprudence

a_father We do have a variation in English: "I don't have enough crayons to explain it to you."

Renita

a_father I wouldn't use shame as an argument

Wouldn't you? This is the most adequate description of the situation.

a_father

Angelina You can learn a lot from me 😂

Angelina

Laura They know it, but they are not going to do special arrangements for it

i don't think it makes sense, but this is where the topic of open discussions starts again, which many parents unfortunately refuse to enter 🙁

Christine No, I don't mind if he attacks me.

me either, but I still try to explain what it is all about 🙂

bismarck

Laura I think being locked in a belt for ten years is very cruel that should not extend even one day. I don't think a person could forget their restraints to be happy. Would you consider long distance dating? Yes there were a lot of cheating so never involved money and reject any irrespective demands (like someone asking for dick photos) I've seen a lot of handsome guys living in East Europe, Ukraine or South Africa. They would not know whether you are belted and ask you to stay the status quo and continuing wearing them after marriage. And also broaden potential targets of ages to a few more years upper or lower than you? Other wearers are either having partners and looking forward their release after marriage or happy continuing wear the belts after marriage. Hope you can get release soon! It's too long!

Christine

Angelina we will all be destroyed

No, I don't mind if he attacks me.

Angelina

a_father

i am open for everything, but i think we are too far apart in character for me to learn much from you or vice versa 😂

a_father

Angelina What do you know about my character? Yust beeing against chastity belts doesn't tell much about my character. I would be more concerned about your fathers character

Laura

Vanessa However,there was,and it ended because you sneaked out,right?

Yes, but I thought we are talking about now

Angelina

Vanessa And I don't think there is a french translation for this one.

probably not, you can translate it and you will recognise it 😂

Vanessa

Laura

Don't you think they don't want to do special arrangements now due to it?

a_father

Angelina Perhapse the German original, if it can be translated better: "Ich habe nicht genug Bundstifte, um dir das zu erklären." 😂

Laura

a_father Yust beeing against chastity belts doesn't tell much about my character.

Being against chastity belts, but talking about it on the chastity forum tells a lot 😂

Angelina

a_father

well, the way you write about it says a lot about your character, there are some who are against the chastity belt or against forced wearing, but also there are differences

a_father I would be more concerned about your fathers character

i could ask you the same question you asked me, what do you know about my father's character? well i know a lot about it, i hate my equipment, but i know exactly why my father wants it 🙂

a_father

I did not know this saying either, but it is good, I will remember it 😉

Laura

I agree

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