Motivations

Fatherof3

Ines how long do you let the trolls go before calling them out and shutting it down. Albeit, its entertaining (lol). It just adds to the length of threads.

Foxies

What motivates trolls? Reading a non-pornographic forum such as this seems a strange way to get their jollies! 🤣

Laura

Foxies What motivates trolls?

Mostly to share their fantasies and make other people taking them seriously

Angelina

Foxies My amusement stems I suppose from the fact that I see it both ways and that is often the trouble with writing something specific.

i admit i also often have this problem and yes i have good and bad days but fortunately i have more good days than bad 🙂

Jonas Where threats of being cut off from family are made, this may seriously affect wearer's necessary ability to say NO to a belt.

I have to agree with you, apart from the emotional support, I would have enormous financial problems, I would probably not be able to study and I would probably earn a minimum of what I probably will earn now

Foxies What motivates trolls? Reading a non-pornographic forum such as this seems a strange way to get their jollies! 🤣

therefore these trolls disappear quickly 😉

Max9

Foxies They like to escape in a different reality. Maybe the topic turns them on in a fetishist way but as they want their vision to seem as real as possible they don't like the fetishlike forums. The, sort of want to escape in a different reality ehere they are young and able to do what thex missed to experience strifing for a good job.

Vanessa

Jonas Where threats of being cut off from family are made, this may seriously affect wearer's necessary ability to say NO to a belt.

In fact,I can.And I know I would do it,if I was threatened about other things.If,for example,they told me I should break-up with Emilie or I would break the relationship with my parents;they would have to say good bye to me,as I would stay with my girlfriend(even if it would be hard for us,as her parents don't like she's lesbian and would not welcome me in their house).

And in my case,I've an advantage too,as my parents know there is a risk that my twin side with me and break the relationship with them if they break the relationship with me.Not sure my parents could accept to lose the relationship with their son and daughter at the same time...

Ines We had " terror stories " too. However, thankfully, the others get tired and post less.

Right.

Laura

Some people seems to have too much free time to spend...

Jonas However, on the other side, I can see that sex isn't an entirely risk-free joy.

But we can lower the risks,if we're careful.

Christine

Jonas If you were in her situation in the future, would you definitely not consider making the same deal?

You mean if I have a daughter. No I don't want to rob her of the joys of life.

Jonas

Christine Thanks for answering. I really can see that waiting could be seen as a loss. However, on the other side, I can see that sex isn't an entirely risk-free joy.

Christine

Jonas I really can see that waiting could be seen as a loss

Waiting for marriage? I'm pretty confident a girl should try enough before.

Jonas

Christine I see your point, but it's clear we're coming at this from different angles.

Some people would consider waiting for marriage or remaining exclusive to a partner to be one of the joys of life. Something deeper than sex for transient personal pleasure.

But it's incredibly difficult to maintain virginity and chastity against the influences of a heavily sexualised society, peer pressure, and from your own raging hormones.

Also our views on this may change with age. Young people tend to take more risks and seek out experiences, older people want their children to build strong, long lasting relationships, because they'll do better in the long run.

Christine

Jonas Some people would consider waiting for marriage or remaining exclusive to a partner to be one of the joys of life.

Let them do it, if it's their choice.

Jonas But it's incredibly difficult to maintain virginity and chastity against the influences of a heavily sexualised society, peer pressure, and from your own raging hormones.

Don't you think that this contradicts the previous statement?

Jonas

20-year-old-me would be like "Oh my belt's too tight", "Aw, I'm frustrated", "This is too hard" etc etc. But, if I could go back in time and be my own guardian angel, I'd be like: "The belt's just fine", "You can deal with it", "It really is for the best".
I can't speak for anyone else, but in my case, the advice would be right and I'd have a better life.

Jonas

Where threats of being cut off from family are made, this may seriously affect wearer's necessary ability to say NO to a belt.

Vanessa In fact,I can.And I know I would do it,if I was threatened about other things.

I am very glad to read this. It's okay for parents to be firm in their request for chastity, but it does have to remain a request. I think you do have power in your situation, but I hope that you can all progress together as a family.

Vanessa But we can lower the risks,if we're careful.

True.

...but you can't approach the safety of a full chastity belt! 😀

Angelina

Vanessa her parents don't like she's lesbian

this has nothing to do with the topic of your post but, this statement is completely strange because no one chooses their sexual orientation.

Vanessa And in my case,I've an advantage too,as my parents know there is a risk that my twin side with me and break the relationship with them if they break the relationship with me.Not sure my parents could accept to lose the relationship with their son and daughter at the same time...

wow, i find it really amazing how close you (your brother and you) are. 🙂

Vanessa

Jonas I hope that you can all progress together as a family.

I hope too.I would not like to have to break the relationship with them...

Jonas you can't approach the safety of a full chastity belt! 😀

I can't honestly tell you're wrong...

Vanessa

Angelina this has nothing to do with the topic of your post

It was used to explain better how it could impact us if they decide I should not live at house anymore,which can make people understand better the consequences would be very hard to manage.

Angelina this statement is completely strange because no one chooses their sexual orientation.

I agree,but it's not her parent's opinion(and generally the opinion of most member of her family)...

Angelina wow, i find it really amazing how close you (your brother and you) are. 🙂

Even if we're "false twin",I think the fact we're still twins play a part in it.🙂

Christine if it's their choice.

It's the important part,it should be the wearer's choice.

Jonas

Good for you,and I think it is the same for most of the willingly wearers.

Jonas

Christine Depends where you get your joy from I guess. Sure, my body wants and enjoys sex, but the joy of deeper relationships and longer commitments is, to me, more important. As to the wider world, much of it appears to be set up to encourage people to act on impulse for short term pleasure.

Angelina

Jonas As to the wider world, much of it appears to be set up to encourage people to act on impulse for short term pleasure.

that is why we should not let ourselves be guided too much by external influences, but act according to the motivation that seems right to us and makes us happy in the long term. 🙂

Jonas

Angelina I know it's different for other people, but for me, full chastity makes me very happy. 😁

Angelina

Jonas

that's perfectly ok, i meant it should make you happy because it makes you happy and not because it makes others happy. 😉

Jonas

Vanessa It's such a shame that how we are introduced to chastity belts has such an effect over how we see them.

All the benefits that I experience are available to all other wearers.

My chastity belt is just as locked as anyone else's.

But I had a clear free choice at the outset and it has made a huge difference. My belt is a part of me, not something I'd trash given the chance.

Angelina

Vanessa It was used to explain better

I understand what you mean, but it drove me crazy to read it in this way 😂

Vanessa Even if we're "false twin",I think the fact we're still twins play a part in it.

probably, twins usually have a better relationship than normal siblings.

Vanessa The fact it is forced or willingly has the main part of our feelings about it.

I agree

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