Motivations

Jonas

Where threats of being cut off from family are made, this may seriously affect wearer's necessary ability to say NO to a belt.

Vanessa In fact,I can.And I know I would do it,if I was threatened about other things.

I am very glad to read this. It's okay for parents to be firm in their request for chastity, but it does have to remain a request. I think you do have power in your situation, but I hope that you can all progress together as a family.

Vanessa But we can lower the risks,if we're careful.

True.

...but you can't approach the safety of a full chastity belt! 😀

Vanessa

Jonas I hope that you can all progress together as a family.

I hope too.I would not like to have to break the relationship with them...

Jonas you can't approach the safety of a full chastity belt! 😀

I can't honestly tell you're wrong...

Angelina

Vanessa her parents don't like she's lesbian

this has nothing to do with the topic of your post but, this statement is completely strange because no one chooses their sexual orientation.

Vanessa And in my case,I've an advantage too,as my parents know there is a risk that my twin side with me and break the relationship with them if they break the relationship with me.Not sure my parents could accept to lose the relationship with their son and daughter at the same time...

wow, i find it really amazing how close you (your brother and you) are. 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina this has nothing to do with the topic of your post

It was used to explain better how it could impact us if they decide I should not live at house anymore,which can make people understand better the consequences would be very hard to manage.

Angelina this statement is completely strange because no one chooses their sexual orientation.

I agree,but it's not her parent's opinion(and generally the opinion of most member of her family)...

Angelina wow, i find it really amazing how close you (your brother and you) are. 🙂

Even if we're "false twin",I think the fact we're still twins play a part in it.🙂

Christine if it's their choice.

It's the important part,it should be the wearer's choice.

Jonas

Good for you,and I think it is the same for most of the willingly wearers.

Christine

Jonas Some people would consider waiting for marriage or remaining exclusive to a partner to be one of the joys of life.

Let them do it, if it's their choice.

Jonas But it's incredibly difficult to maintain virginity and chastity against the influences of a heavily sexualised society, peer pressure, and from your own raging hormones.

Don't you think that this contradicts the previous statement?

Jonas

Christine Depends where you get your joy from I guess. Sure, my body wants and enjoys sex, but the joy of deeper relationships and longer commitments is, to me, more important. As to the wider world, much of it appears to be set up to encourage people to act on impulse for short term pleasure.

Angelina

Jonas As to the wider world, much of it appears to be set up to encourage people to act on impulse for short term pleasure.

that is why we should not let ourselves be guided too much by external influences, but act according to the motivation that seems right to us and makes us happy in the long term. 🙂

Jonas

Angelina I know it's different for other people, but for me, full chastity makes me very happy. 😁

Angelina

Jonas

that's perfectly ok, i meant it should make you happy because it makes you happy and not because it makes others happy. 😉

Jonas

Vanessa It's such a shame that how we are introduced to chastity belts has such an effect over how we see them.

All the benefits that I experience are available to all other wearers.

My chastity belt is just as locked as anyone else's.

But I had a clear free choice at the outset and it has made a huge difference. My belt is a part of me, not something I'd trash given the chance.

Angelina

Vanessa It was used to explain better

I understand what you mean, but it drove me crazy to read it in this way 😂

Vanessa Even if we're "false twin",I think the fact we're still twins play a part in it.

probably, twins usually have a better relationship than normal siblings.

Vanessa The fact it is forced or willingly has the main part of our feelings about it.

I agree

Vanessa

Jonas It's such a shame that how we are introduced to chastity belts has such an effect over how we see them.

But it is understandable,I think.

The fact it is forced or willingly has the main part of our feelings about it.

Jonas

Vanessa But it is understandable,I think.

Absolutely, of course, yes. Such a pity.

Vanessa

Angelina probably, twins usually have a better relationship than normal siblings.

But we're unhappy to not have the "special link" that "true twins" often have(feeling better when our twin is happy,feeling pain when out twin hurt himself/herself,thinking the same thing at the same time,etc;..).I've read a story about "true twins" separated at birth,and,when they find each other,they notices they have the same work,they married a woman with the same name and have given the same name to their sons(and other similarities).

Angelina

Vanessa

i am not sure, but i think it only works with twins of the same sex. but you have the advantage that there is no generation conflict (between younger and older siblings)

Ines

Angelina
Twins are always of same sex, Angelina. 🧐
I think "fraternal twins" is the exact term, I believe, for siblings (that can be a boy and a girl) that are born after the same pregnancy.

Vanessa

Angelina i think it only works with twins of the same sex.

I agree,I think this link exists only in "homozygous twins".

Angelina @Vanessa and her brother

We're "heterozygous twins".

Angelina

Ines Twins are always of same sex, Angelina. 🧐

well twins can be boy and girl too, @Vanessa and her brother are an example and at least my google doesn't tell me otherwise

Ines I think "fraternal twins

hmm... my google say another things but hmm...

Ines

Angelina
I will not try to teach English! 😂 Maybe I am wrong.

Angelina

Ines

ah ok i understood the mistake because i just translated words with the google translator.

I thought it was about the difference between the sexes (i.e. boys and girls). realised you meant identical and fraternal 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa

well, except for the general barriers of different genders, do you think there would be this special connection if he were a girl ?

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