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Martin

Laura Webcam in a chastity gear? Interesting 😂

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Angelina

alina I have this style of being kawaii and nerd girl there but that's not even how I am my real life.

understandable and good, on the internet you are only there to earn money and you are a figure of art there. it is good if you can separate that from your private life. but have you ever thought about learning a real profession or studying?

HHelen If I was your parent and discovered such "job", you would wear a chastity belt 24/7 + chastity bra to prevent this activity in future.

i think my father would do exactly the same and i would at least take all technical devices away from my daughter.

alina Well that's exactly what happened to me except the chastity bra

No, because 24/7 would mean that you could no longer do the job.

Laura Webcam in a chastity gear? Interesting 😂

She could also earn money with it and the parents are reassured. 😉

Samantha

Laura Webcam in a chastity gear? Interesting 😂

If I were in her place, I probably would be worried about parents deciding that if I can do the job in chastity, they would decide that there is no reason to take it off at all. Though, cam like that could do wonders for spreading the word and accustoming people to chastity devices

Angelina

Samantha If I were in her place, I probably would be worried about parents deciding that if I can do the job in chastity, they would decide that there is no reason to take it off at all.

that's right, then there would be no more exceptions and the belt would be worn permanently. a stupid idea

alina I tried exams for university but failed. I will try again in the future but now I have to consider the problem of moving to another city with the chastity belt - I don't know how my parents would want it to go. If they say "ok, you move but the key stays with us here" I can't be able to work there.

anyone can fail exams, but if you fail the second time, you should consider whether it is really the right thing to do, or whether you should study something else. moving out depends on your financial situation, and yes, then new rules for the belt would have to be developed.

HHelen

alina Well that's exactly what happened to me except the chastity bra

No, they let you keep you job.

James but I will say I think Helen is wrong - having to wear both would probably not affect what you get paid

Would be nothing to "sell", I hope.

James

HHelen Would be nothing to "sell", I hope.

There in lies the irony I guess - with a camera, there is no touching anyway, so yes, I could see guys wanting to pay for it. I'd have to assume it's like any product - if it's unusual and desirable it may well raise prices.

Jen

alina maybe only people who live in crap countries and have to work hard can understand the value of being able to do sex work paid on dollar

Sorry you feel that

Megan

alina I sincerely hope adult models with more freedom and confidence than me will do that in the future! It would make it more fashion and acceptable. I found one day a video of a model dancing Rihanna in chastity belt, but can't remember where now. She was cute and talented (but not famous).

I did not know Rihanna has done this.
Katy Perry had a fake toy in her music videos. Bella Thorne, Miley Cyrus, and others were rumored to have real ones for a short time but that might just be a rumor that family exaggerated.
Who knows but if they were artistic it would be easier to get mainstream representation just as you said...

Angelina

alina and live by myself, but there is the belt

Your parents want you to wear the belt, so it would also be your parents' responsibility to find a solution if you move out.

Joh

alina If they say "ok, you move but the key stays with us here" I can't be able to work there.

You can learn to pick the look. It needs some time but is possible.

alina I tried exams for university but failed.

At which topic did you failed?

Laura

alina but there is the belt

They want you to keep wearing the belt even if you move out locally?

HHelen

alina I have to consider the problem of moving to another city with the chastity belt - I don't know how my parents would want it to go

They need to find a way.

alina If they say "ok, you move but the key stays with us here" I can't be able to work there.

You should study, rather than "work" there.

Laura

alina they want to set me free only when I'm married so location doesn't matter

Same for me. I can move out at any time, but will continue to wear the belt

Joh

alina I suck at math, sciences and all of those.

Do you have someone who can help you or do you have friends you can work with to get through the topic.?

Angelina

alina Try telling it to them 😆

You don't have to, it will happen by itself when you move out at some point. 😉

alina Most of them, I like reading and like English (I think I'm not so bad at it) but I suck at math, sciences and all of those.

Have you thought about studying something else?

Angelina

alina

if you don't see yourself studying, you can try other alternatives. vocational training, internships, etc. you can always study later if you want.

Joh

alina
If you are not sure, do it later. What @Angelina said, in the meantime you can do an internship or work in a company where you might be able to work after graduation. So in the field you can see yourself in.

Joh

alina
If you continue with your sex work you will earn money but it does not help to get you further with your education or work experience. The time you spent now for your career will be the base for you later life.
I read an article about a 16 year old men yesterday. He has two companies and work 90 hour per week. It is crazy but it shows you can do a lot if you will. If you spent sufficient time for learning you can work parallel as well.

Angelina

alina Can't I just keep doing sex work? For this moment of course. It's paying well because it's dollar.

you can do that, but remember that you are also getting older and what will you say to an employer when you are 30. even if you have a qualification by then, you will certainly be asked what you have done in that time and an internship or apprenticeship is certainly more helpful.

Joh I read an article about a 16 year old men yesterday. He has two companies and work 90 hour per week.

ok, even i wouldn't want that, my father never worked that much even at the most strenuous times. that's crazy 😂

alina I don't know how long but I see women on her 30's who are big and famous in this industry

think carefully about whether you want to do this and in this industry it's the look alone that counts. if you can't do this any more, you need a plan B.

carg

alina Can't I just keep doing sex work?

For how long? It is an industry where you are often discarded once you get a bit more mature. And what will you do then, without education or other job experience?

Rina

alina It would make it more fashion and acceptable.

I wish that too. If I ever tell about chastity belt to my parents... They will think I'm such a "freak who's obsessed with weird looking metal underwear" or "too paranoid about crimes that aren't likely to happen to me" or even insane... They won't even let me to self-lock using timesafe or etc, if I manage to get belt and let my partner to hold keys (As I'm in long distance relationship with her I'll have to use some remotely controlled safe or lockbox) then my parents find it out they would actually think I'm "freak" and prompt me to get rid of chastity belt.

I hope it to become more normal, but I also believe that only wearing of chastity devices in voluntarily manner should be normalized. My ideal situation would be wearing chastity belt and my partner to hold a key (She understands me and wants to support me with the idea of wearing chastity belt), and even after marriage.

I wish the day can come sooner, when I can wear chastity belt of my choice and have my partner as a keyholder. In addition, if it becomes more like fashion, I think many chastity belts will also make better design and more improvements to make it more comfortable for long-term wear and hygiene, which would be amazing.

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