Distancing serious use from fetish.

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Angelina

oh, didn't know that. Sorry.

Joh

Angelina he doesn't have to think about it

Why should he not think about it if his behaviour unfair? Do you think it is ok that he is standing outside the rules but force you to following it?

Angelina

Joh

no, that's not what i mean. the initial situation was that i really wear the bra permanently. after long negotiations i managed to get a break per month and in return i wear the connecting chains. i didn't have to agree to that, but then i wouldn't have gotten the break.

Vanessa

Angelina i hope so too

Let us know how it went!

Angelina that's right, that's why it's not a permanent solution but only until i find an alternative

Let's hope you would find one quickly,so.

Angelina besides, i wouldn't want to get married under the current conditions, it should be a nice big party 😃

Would you delay it if the situation don't allow it?

Angelina

Vanessa Let us know how it went!

definitely, but it's still 4 months until my birthday and only shortly after that the rules will be discussed anew

Vanessa Let's hope you would find one quickly,so.

i still have a little time, but unfortunately i don't have any ideas yet.

Vanessa Would you delay it if the situation don't allow it?

yes i would, i'd rather put up with a few more months in the belt than miss out on a beautiful wedding

Vanessa

Angelina shortly after that the rules will be discussed anew

Not possible to discuss about this one before?

And,if not successful,you would have this rule for at least 1 more year,before trying again to change it?

Angelina unfortunately i don't have any ideas yet.

🙁

Angelina yes i would, i'd rather put up with a few more months in the belt than miss out on a beautiful wedding

I understand it,and would act similar.

Angelina

I hope so for you too!🙂

Joh

🤣

Joh

I wish you that your wedding will be unique and as you imagine it.

Angelina

Joh

thank you, I very much hope so 😃

Joh

Angelina thank you, I very much hope so

I hope so as well. Maybe you want invite us and I would come.

Angelina

Joh Maybe you want invite us and I would come.

rather unlikely because I want to remain somewhat anonymous, but maybe I'll think about it again 😂

Joh

Angelina somewhat anonymous

I can understand but it was worth to mention it.
I suppose a paper bag on your head is not really a solution at this important day 🤣

Angelina

Joh I suppose a paper bag on your head is not really a solution at this important day 🤣

no, really not 😂

but you will get a detailed report about the wedding 😉

Joh

Angelina report about the wedding

Thank you. I see forward to it.

Angelina

Joh Thank you. I see forward to it.

As I said, it will still take more than 2 years.

Vanessa Not possible to discuss about this one before?

And,if not successful,you would have this rule for at least 1 more year,before trying again to change it?

normally we only discuss shortly after my birthday, unless it is an emergency, but this is definitely not an emergency, so yes only once a year

Vanessa I hope so for you too!🙂

Thank you too 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina normally we only discuss shortly after my birthday, unless it is an emergency, but this is definitely not an emergency, so yes only once a year

So let's hope you can change it this time,and not wait at least one more year with this rule!

Joh

Angelina normally we only discuss shortly after my birthday, unless it is an emergency, but this is definitely not an emergency, so yes only once a year

As far as I understand your fathers intention you wear the CB to protect you not to get pregnant. With your current relation there is no risk.
When you turn 18 you can decide everything by yourself. He has no saying but you can follow his advice if it suite you.
Based on that I would start the negotiation.

By the way. Why is your father still single?
Does he fears women?
Or does he keep the situation as it is because he can do what he cannot safely do with a woman. Especially through your dependence?

Angelina

Vanessa

i hope so too, even though i don't have any ideas for a change yet, but maybe i don't need a deal any more and get a break even without a service in return 😉