Broken chastity belt

Sara2001

Foxies Thank you for the very long and detailed explanation. It sounds very nice for me. I think in my future my orgasms will stay a very rare thing. I hope this will make them more like big things for me.

Angelina

Sara2001

i really hope so for your sake, but i think the bigger challenge will be getting back into the belt and the rest of the equipment after an orgasm.

Ines

Foxies A few times a month, my partner decides she wants extra “service” 😅 lol, and during an afternoon, my belt is unlocked and she takes what she wants. In fairness, I am satisfied too. Sometimes, the belt itself frustrates me and I may start banging on the plate. If she sees this (I actually do this subconsciously at times 😅 ) she will often just smile, but occasionally she may get sympathetic and release me for a short period. 😂 Smiles. Naturally she can decide to partake or not (I don’t want to get too graphic here 😅 lol).

It is the logical way of use in a couple. I wish to be a protected wife, but to be a satisfied wife too 😅. Chastity belt is not a torture tool.

Foxies the belt means my sex is purely in the hands of my partner. It was my gift to her. She alone controls it; even though admittedly I can ask for release without fear of punishment. In which case she may permit it or deny. If she denies me then I really do accept it.

This is my approach too. And I guess, that if she refuses release you, our partners will have to face fiery lioness in the next release.... It can be our revenge 😂

Foxies However, it is fair to say that my happiness is as important to her, as hers is to mine, so though she may tease me, she really doesn’t let me suffer.

Correct, I want a firm and attentive keyholder, not a beast. No, I like feel me protected, not abused.

Vanessa

Tobbe

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Foxies As far as I know, the plant in the plant pot is still chaste 🤣

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If the Neosteel break,would you have to wear this one until you get a new/fixed Neosteel?

Foxies Answering your question makes me feel like a bit of a fraud on this forum. You see that in a very real sense, though I wear a chastity belt, I am not chaste in the way that most other wearers are on this forum. (Sorry – I hope admin doesn’t ban me)

Unlike many of the girls here, I have a partner of many years and we have always been sexually active. We are not married in any legal sense though we both feel “married” in a sense that is likely stronger than many real marriages. Essentially my partner is THE most important part of my life and she feels pretty much the same about me. With this background you may understand that we engage in sex play several times a week. And it is fairly equal and mutual. The only difference between us and a more typical married couple, is that my belt puts nearly all the decisions of our sex play, in her hands.

We shower together every night (and have pretty much ever since we got together). During this time, I am unlocked, cleaned, shaved as necessary, rinsed and dried and mostly locked back up afterwards. I am not allowed to touch myself in any meaningful way when I am unlocked. Sometimes however, at her discretion the belt stays off and we go to the bedroom where we enjoy ourselves. Once finished the belt goes back on and my thigh bands are padlocked together before I go to sleep.

A few times a month, my partner decides she wants extra “service” 😅 lol, and during an afternoon, my belt is unlocked and she takes what she wants. In fairness, I am satisfied too. Sometimes, the belt itself frustrates me and I may start banging on the plate. If she sees this (I actually do this subconsciously at times 😅 ) she will often just smile, but occasionally she may get sympathetic and release me for a short period. 😂 Smiles. Naturally she can decide to partake or not (I don’t want to get too graphic here 😅 lol).

I suppose, many here will thus consider my belt and thigh bands just a sex toy. However, in my own mind, it really isn’t. As far as we are concerned (and truly that’s all that matters to us), the belt means my sex is purely in the hands of my partner. It was my gift to her. She alone controls it; even though admittedly I can ask for release without fear of punishment. In which case she may permit it or deny. If she denies me then I really do accept it. However, it is fair to say that my happiness is as important to her, as hers is to mine, so though she may tease me, she really doesn’t let me suffer.

Hope this explains where the chastity belt (and now thigh bands) play their role in our lives.

It seems a good way to use it,and which make you both enjoy it a lot!🙂

Foxies One other thing I would like to mention. Early in our relationship my partner literally saved my life and career. However to do that, for a period of several years, I lived with her under much stricter conditions than say Angelina or Vanessa do with their families. It is true those conditions didn't actually include a physical chastity belt, however I literally had all most no choices in what I was allowed to do or behave, including chastity. It was either accept the conditions or be cast out. For this reason, I have great sympathy for you girls who have little choice to to be controlled an an important aspect of your lives. I can almost say, been there, done that.

It seemed to have been very hard too...

Angelina if this happened (by accident), what would your parents do?

Order a new one, of course, but what happens in the meantime?

They would buy a new one,probably in express.

I don't know exactly how they would act,however.Except my bedroom door would never been closed,and I would not be allowed to be alone with my girlfriend,of course.Probably the punishment for masturbation or sex would be very severe,too.

Ines This is my approach too. And I guess, that if she refuses release you, our partners will have to face fiery lioness in the next release.... It can be our revenge 😂

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Angelina

It would be hard,I think too.

Angelina

It would be related to the disobedience,at least...

Sara2001

Angelina i really hope so for your sake, but i think the bigger challenge will be getting back into the belt and the rest of the equipment after an orgasm.

I am not sure how difficult this will be. At least I know there are consequences I don't like if I disobey.

Angelina

Sara2001

would it also prolong the time until the next orgasm ?

Sara2001

Angelina would it also prolong the time until the next orgasm ?

I don't know, but I don't think so.

Foxies

Vanessa If the Neosteel break, would you have to wear this one until you get a new/fixed Neosteel?

🤣 No! The plant has to remain chaste! 🤣

We would buy a new one for sure, though till it arrived, I would be "free". My partner, who is very handy and mechanically gifted, is currently designing and crafting a new one for me anyway. It may be a while before it is finished and ready for prime time, but it is keeping her (and me) amused. Certainly the measurement and the fitting process are sort of fun! 🤣

Foxies

Vanessa It seemed to have been very hard too...

I was in a bad way, my career was blowing up and I was out of control. Though I hated her control (at the time) she nursed me back to health, encouraged (forced?) me to buckle down and get my career back on track and really saved my life. The first few years were hard but in the end we lived happily ever after - smiles.

Angelina

Vanessa I don't know exactly how they would act,however.Except my bedroom door would never been closed,and I would not be allowed to be alone with my girlfriend,of course.Probably the punishment for masturbation or sex would be very severe,too.

then the only option is to masturbate in the bathroom, i think i would take the risk if it was the only option.

Sara2001 I don't know, but I don't think so.

good for you 🙂

Vanessa

Sara2001 I don't know, but I don't think so.

Good point;as it seems it would not be very often...

Foxies

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Main one,or a spare one,in case of the Neosteel break?

Foxies

A hard time,but with a good outcome,so!

Foxies She thinks the cables (steel covered in plastic) might be more comfortable

Based on @Ines' review,it should be worn more tight,and so,difficult to wear it most of the time,more useful for a short time,like when going out.

Angelina then the only option is to masturbate in the bathroom, i think i would take the risk if it was the only option.

Probably,but they may decide only supervised showers should be used until the new belt is received;and used.

Angelina

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Fatherof3

Foxies Wait. You were not joking about the plant. Lol

Your partner is making a belt? How cool is that. Thats a different kind of romance.

Foxies

Fatherof3

Seriously, there is a plant in a pot suspended in a tree in my original Chinese belt.

My Neosteel belt no longer fits quite as well as it used to and so we were contemplating another belt from Fancysteel - with the cable system. But my partner is very mechanically minded and reasonable skilled at making things. When she saw the Fancysteel design with its cables, she thought she could make something using plastic for the main shield and locking mechanism. The plastic is formed in a printer and his hard and reasonably difficult to cut (it melts rather than cuts). Not that I would cut it anyway. She thinks the cables (steel covered in plastic) might be more comfortable and since the shield is plastic it won't need a lining and will not damage my skin. We shall see 🤣 It would be nice if its easier to use the bathroom!

Fatherof3

Foxies Seriously, there is a plant in a pot suspended in a tree in my original Chinese belt.

That is prolly the coolest reuse of an item i have heard of in a while. What do you say when someone asked about it? Surly its not obvious what it is. Lol

Fatherof3

Foxies that is a neat idea with the belt.

Foxies

Fatherof3 What do you say when someone asked about it?

No-one has asked yet - smiles. It is in our back garden and the plant tends to overhang the plant pot so it's not really very obvious.. It does give us a good laugh though. And perhaps chastity is good for plants. It seems to survive well enough! 🤣

Angelina

Foxies

then it's time for a new topic: should my plant wear a chastity belt? 😂

Foxies

Angelina

I know English isn't your first language ... but did you mean "Should your plant wear YOUR chastity belt"? 🤣

Angelina

Foxies but did you mean "Should your plant wear YOUR chastity belt"? 🤣

Yes, but it was only a joke 🤣

Foxies

Vanessa Based on @Ines' review, it should be worn more tight, and so, difficult to wear it most of the time, more useful for a short time, like when going out.

Yes - I admit when I read Ines review about the cable having to be worn tight, I was less than enthused. A part of the selling point my partner made when she decided to make me a belt, was that it would be more comfortable. She also wanted it to be easier to keep clean and allow me more clothing options.

None of this has materialised yet, so neither of us knows how it will turn out. From her perspective it only only costs her time, since the material cost of the belt will be pennies. Its also a fun project for her - and I don't mind the attention of all the measuring and fitting etc. The good news is that if it really is uncomfortable or unwearable, then we shall just buy a different belt.

The fact that she has complete control over design and the manufacture gives me hope that it will be better. But if not, it won't be a big loss and it will have given us some fun.

Angelina

Vanessa Probably,but they may decide only supervised showers should be used until the new belt is received;and used.

of course, it could be difficult and I think your parents could come up with creative ideas to stop you from masturbating. 🙁

Vanessa

Foxies The fact that she has complete control over design and the manufacture gives me hope that it will be better.

I agree,she can make it a bit differently to avoid the problems of the original one.

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