Broken chastity belt
Vanessa Personally, I only have one, but it seems many people here have at least two chastity belts.
My partner reminded me we actually do have two. I had forgotten.
My first belt was a cheap Chinese adjustable one. My partner insisted I buy a cheap one first to see if I was serious about it. It was only after she finally accepted the keys on a 24/7 basis that we then ordered the made to measure Neosteel one I wear now.
The original Chinese one now hangs suspended from a tree in the back garden, holding a plant pot. As far as I know, the plant in the plant pot is still chaste 
Foxies My first belt was a cheap Chinese adjustable one. My partner insisted I buy a cheap one first to see if I was serious about it. It was only after she finally accepted the keys on a 24/7 basis that we then ordered the made to measure Neosteel one I wear now.
I think you never told, or I missed it. Can you tell us how often you are allowed to have sexual releases? Are you normally allowed to orgasm from time to time?
Sara2001 Can you tell us how often you are allowed to have sexual releases?
Answering your question makes me feel like a bit of a fraud on this forum. You see that in a very real sense, though I wear a chastity belt, I am not chaste in the way that most other wearers are on this forum. (Sorry – I hope admin doesn’t ban me)
Unlike many of the girls here, I have a partner of many years and we have always been sexually active. We are not married in any legal sense though we both feel “married” in a sense that is likely stronger than many real marriages. Essentially my partner is THE most important part of my life and she feels pretty much the same about me. With this background you may understand that we engage in sex play several times a week. And it is fairly equal and mutual. The only difference between us and a more typical married couple, is that my belt puts nearly all the decisions of our sex play, in her hands.
We shower together every night (and have pretty much ever since we got together). During this time, I am unlocked, cleaned, shaved as necessary, rinsed and dried and mostly locked back up afterwards. I am not allowed to touch myself in any meaningful way when I am unlocked. Sometimes however, at her discretion the belt stays off and we go to the bedroom where we enjoy ourselves. Once finished the belt goes back on and my thigh bands are padlocked together before I go to sleep.
A few times a month, my partner decides she wants extra “service” 
lol, and during an afternoon, my belt is unlocked and she takes what she wants. In fairness, I am satisfied too. Sometimes, the belt itself frustrates me and I may start banging on the plate. If she sees this (I actually do this subconsciously at times ) she will often just smile, but occasionally she may get sympathetic and release me for a short period. 
Smiles. Naturally she can decide to partake or not (I don’t want to get too graphic here lol).
I suppose, many here will thus consider my belt and thigh bands just a sex toy. However, in my own mind, it really isn’t. As far as we are concerned (and truly that’s all that matters to us), the belt means my sex is purely in the hands of my partner. It was my gift to her. She alone controls it; even though admittedly I can ask for release without fear of punishment. In which case she may permit it or deny. If she denies me then I really do accept it. However, it is fair to say that my happiness is as important to her, as hers is to mine, so though she may tease me, she really doesn’t let me suffer.
Hope this explains where the chastity belt (and now thigh bands) play their role in our lives.
One other thing I would like to mention. Early in our relationship my partner literally saved my life and career. However to do that, for a period of several years, I lived with her under much stricter conditions than say Angelina or Vanessa do with their families. It is true those conditions didn't actually include a physical chastity belt, however I literally had all most no choices in what I was allowed to do or behave, including chastity. It was either accept the conditions or be cast out. For this reason, I have great sympathy for you girls who have little choice to to be controlled an an important aspect of your lives. I can almost say, been there, done that.
Sorry this was another God awfully long post.
Tobbe Then you change your explanation what make a chastity belt to be an abstinence belt?
a chastity belt that you don't always wear , so to be clear, so that mastubation is permitted , no matter how exactly
Vanessa But my chastity belt has never break!
if this happened (by accident), what would your parents do?
Order a new one, of course, but what happens in the meantime?
Foxies A few times a month, my partner decides she wants extra “service”
It is the logical way of use in a couple. I wish to be a protected wife, but to be a satisfied wife too . Chastity belt is not a torture tool.
Foxies the belt means my sex is purely in the hands of my partner. It was my gift to her. She alone controls it; even though admittedly I can ask for release without fear of punishment. In which case she may permit it or deny. If she denies me then I really do accept it.
This is my approach too. And I guess, that if she refuses release you, our partners will have to face fiery lioness in the next release.... It can be our revenge
Foxies However, it is fair to say that my happiness is as important to her, as hers is to mine, so though she may tease me, she really doesn’t let me suffer.
Correct, I want a firm and attentive keyholder, not a beast. No, I like feel me protected, not abused.
Foxies As far as I know, the plant in the plant pot is still chaste
If the Neosteel break,would you have to wear this one until you get a new/fixed Neosteel?
Foxies Answering your question makes me feel like a bit of a fraud on this forum. You see that in a very real sense, though I wear a chastity belt, I am not chaste in the way that most other wearers are on this forum. (Sorry – I hope admin doesn’t ban me)
Unlike many of the girls here, I have a partner of many years and we have always been sexually active. We are not married in any legal sense though we both feel “married” in a sense that is likely stronger than many real marriages. Essentially my partner is THE most important part of my life and she feels pretty much the same about me. With this background you may understand that we engage in sex play several times a week. And it is fairly equal and mutual. The only difference between us and a more typical married couple, is that my belt puts nearly all the decisions of our sex play, in her hands.
We shower together every night (and have pretty much ever since we got together). During this time, I am unlocked, cleaned, shaved as necessary, rinsed and dried and mostly locked back up afterwards. I am not allowed to touch myself in any meaningful way when I am unlocked. Sometimes however, at her discretion the belt stays off and we go to the bedroom where we enjoy ourselves. Once finished the belt goes back on and my thigh bands are padlocked together before I go to sleep.
A few times a month, my partner decides she wants extra “service”
I suppose, many here will thus consider my belt and thigh bands just a sex toy. However, in my own mind, it really isn’t. As far as we are concerned (and truly that’s all that matters to us), the belt means my sex is purely in the hands of my partner. It was my gift to her. She alone controls it; even though admittedly I can ask for release without fear of punishment. In which case she may permit it or deny. If she denies me then I really do accept it. However, it is fair to say that my happiness is as important to her, as hers is to mine, so though she may tease me, she really doesn’t let me suffer.
Hope this explains where the chastity belt (and now thigh bands) play their role in our lives.
It seems a good way to use it,and which make you both enjoy it a lot!
Foxies One other thing I would like to mention. Early in our relationship my partner literally saved my life and career. However to do that, for a period of several years, I lived with her under much stricter conditions than say Angelina or Vanessa do with their families. It is true those conditions didn't actually include a physical chastity belt, however I literally had all most no choices in what I was allowed to do or behave, including chastity. It was either accept the conditions or be cast out. For this reason, I have great sympathy for you girls who have little choice to to be controlled an an important aspect of your lives. I can almost say, been there, done that.
It seemed to have been very hard too...
Angelina if this happened (by accident), what would your parents do?
Order a new one, of course, but what happens in the meantime?
They would buy a new one,probably in express.
I don't know exactly how they would act,however.Except my bedroom door would never been closed,and I would not be allowed to be alone with my girlfriend,of course.Probably the punishment for masturbation or sex would be very severe,too.
Ines This is my approach too. And I guess, that if she refuses release you, our partners will have to face fiery lioness in the next release.... It can be our revenge
It would be hard,I think too.
It would be related to the disobedience,at least...
Vanessa If the Neosteel break, would you have to wear this one until you get a new/fixed Neosteel?
No! The plant has to remain chaste!
We would buy a new one for sure, though till it arrived, I would be "free". My partner, who is very handy and mechanically gifted, is currently designing and crafting a new one for me anyway. It may be a while before it is finished and ready for prime time, but it is keeping her (and me) amused. Certainly the measurement and the fitting process are sort of fun!
Vanessa It seemed to have been very hard too...
I was in a bad way, my career was blowing up and I was out of control. Though I hated her control (at the time) she nursed me back to health, encouraged (forced?) me to buckle down and get my career back on track and really saved my life. The first few years were hard but in the end we lived happily ever after - smiles.
Seriously, there is a plant in a pot suspended in a tree in my original Chinese belt.
My Neosteel belt no longer fits quite as well as it used to and so we were contemplating another belt from Fancysteel - with the cable system. But my partner is very mechanically minded and reasonable skilled at making things. When she saw the Fancysteel design with its cables, she thought she could make something using plastic for the main shield and locking mechanism. The plastic is formed in a printer and his hard and reasonably difficult to cut (it melts rather than cuts). Not that I would cut it anyway. She thinks the cables (steel covered in plastic) might be more comfortable and since the shield is plastic it won't need a lining and will not damage my skin. We shall see It would be nice if its easier to use the bathroom!
Vanessa I don't know exactly how they would act,however.Except my bedroom door would never been closed,and I would not be allowed to be alone with my girlfriend,of course.Probably the punishment for masturbation or sex would be very severe,too.
then the only option is to masturbate in the bathroom, i think i would take the risk if it was the only option.
Sara2001 I don't know, but I don't think so.
good for you