Angelina My girlfriend hates me to struggle with my belt. And when I struggle I spread the legs. That's the explanation.

      Max9

      I think cuffs would be too restrictive overnight and without padding they'd tear up the wrists. I think @Tobbe once mentioned locking mittens (in the context of female chastity of course), but they'd make a lot more sense here than cuffs. You can get medical ones that force a flat palm, they were apparently used in the prison system long ago for a very similar purpose.

      However, @Renita is correct that they'd have to be unlocked each morning, but if the gf really does hate belt-fighting she might put up with the (minor) inconvenience. Maybe they'd be kept, like @HHelen's bra idea, in reserve to be used if and when they're needed?

      I can certainly see how they'd be useful in the example you gave, but I don't know how @Verrouille and his partner handle cleaning periods.

          Verrouille

          maybe you should find something to reduce your struggling, then you wouldn't have to spread your legs. 😉

          Jonas mentioned locking mittens

          at least it sounds like a sensible idea. i don't think it's good, but it serves the purpose.

              Renita So you know what is beeing a man better than a man despite you are not a man, quite interesting.

                  Jonas I think cuffs would be too restrictive overnight

                  Sure, it's nothing for over the night, just for the cleaning process. It could also cut the skin when trying to wear it overnight.

                  Tighbands?
                  holders might fear that the chaste person might be able to slide a finer under the shield, or any thin pencil or something like that. If you hold a vibrator to the stiff pencil then ...
                  But for men this obviously doesn't work - sure - to prevent him spreading the legs it would be useful ... that's bondage/restriction then. Therefore they are very useful. If she doesn't like your fighting she might also just hogtie you...

                      Verrouille So you know what is beeing a man better than a man despite you are not a man

                      I know my expectation from a man.

                          HHelen . And since you wear a girlish chastity belt already,

                          Am always fascinated by the idea that it is girlish to wear a chastity belt.
                          As a man, my thought process was simple...!

                          Have problem.
                          Get load of steel.
                          Get big lock.
                          Job done.
                          Problem gone away now.

                          😂😂

                              HHelen A guy in chastity belt even looks like a girl. But it's his choice.

                              If you had a son with an excessive masturbation problem, would you buy them a belt?

                                  HHelen So we need a more masculine looking belt. Hehe.
                                  I think its about why we wear rather than looks.
                                  Though i agree. There are some belts out there that have that feminine appeal.

                                      Jonas As a man, my thought process was simple...!

                                      Have problem.
                                      Get load of steel.
                                      Get big lock.
                                      Job done.
                                      Problem gone away now.

                                      😂😂

                                      now you have made me laugh 😂

                                      Fatherof3

                                      good idea but what could a male looking belt look like? maybe the penis tube in the shape of a beer bottle 😉

                                            Angelina lol. Idk. An etched tube that details a male's member and paint it musou black. 🤣
                                            Id honestly like to paint mine like a candied red and black.

                                                Verrouille IMO. Latowskis are impractical. There is no way it could be hygienic. A good belt needs good ventilation.
                                                I am open for others opinions from wearers of such.