Asking for thighbands

Vanessa

Jonas

Thank you!

Angelina

Vanessa Very surprising!

I would rather say a high mental strength 🙂

Jonas It frustrates me a great deal to know that your experience is so different to my own.

why ? i think most people (generally not only in the forum) would react similarly if they had to wear a chastity belt

Jonas

Angelina if they had to wear a chastity belt

Yeah sure, if people had to wear them, then clearly more unhappiness would be the result.

...but given full social acceptance and maybe a few high profile celebrities being seen wearing them, I think a lot more people would choose to wear one.

Vanessa

Angelina I would rather say a high mental strength 🙂

It probably plays a part.But it is very uncommon.

Jonas given full social acceptance and maybe a few high profile celebrities being seen wearing them, I think a lot more people would choose to wear one.

Likely.But I doubt the reluctant wearers on this board would become willingly wearers,even in this case!😉

Angelina

And a bit lying,if trying to lower the disadvantages...

Jonas Consent is the key.

I agree.

Jonas the huge numbers of products available on eBay and Amazon

As they're generally not made to be used long term,I think these are many for fetishists...

Angelina

Jonas ...but given full social acceptance and maybe a few high profile celebrities being seen wearing them, I think a lot more people would choose to wear one.

maybe, but for that to happen, the advantages would have to be put clearly in the foreground and the disadvantages clearly in the background, and it would take a lot of promotion.

Jonas

Angelina Consent is the key. I think the experiences on Unwed forum make that clear. The more free the choice to wear, the better the outcome.

Of course, when people choose to wear chastity belts it gets labelled a "fetish" but I think most here agree that this line can be blurred. Whatever we call it, the huge numbers of products available on eBay and Amazon certainly show that there's a lot of interest out there.

Angelina

Jonas Consent is the key. I think the experiences on Unwed forum make that clear. The more free the choice to wear, the better the outcome.

of course, i agree with you completely, but the belt is a restrictive item and such items (whether voluntary or involuntary) are always difficult to market.

Vanessa It probably plays a part.But it is very uncommon.

Of Course

Vanessa And a bit lying,if trying to lower the disadvantages...

that's true, but the belt should only be aimed at customers who want the belt voluntarily anyway.

Jonas

I doubt the reluctant wearers on this board would become willingly wearers,even in this case!😉

I agree. I find this sad. The positive side of chastity has been lost to these folk, perhaps forever.

Jonas Consent is the key.

I agree.

Consent means everyone involved is adult, informed, and willing. If these three things are not in place, chastity belt use is entirely wrong.

Jonas the huge numbers of products available on eBay and Amazon

As they're generally not made to be used long term,I think these are many for fetishists...

Again it's this question of the difference, if any can be found, between "fetish" and "real" use. When I asked about this in regard to manufacturers' websites, the forum couldn't agree a way to separate the two.

So, instead of judging and classifying the behaviour, if we look at it merely as an expression of interest, then a lot of people appear to be interested in chastity.

Vanessa

Jonas The positive side of chastity has been lost to these folk

Not sure we could have liked it,anyway.

Jonas When I asked about this in regard to manufacturers' websites, the forum couldn't agree a way to separate the two.

However,fetish only stuff are generally not made to be used in long term.And I doubt many stuffs sold on Amazon and so can be worn permanently...

Angelina the belt is a restrictive item and such items (whether voluntary or involuntary) are always difficult to market.

I agree.

However,cuffs are restrictive and sell pretty well in sex-xhop and similar,too,it seems...

Angelina the belt should only be aimed at customers who want the belt voluntarily anyway.

Right.

Angelina

Vanessa However,cuffs are restrictive and sell pretty well in sex-xhop and similar,too,it seems...

because customers also know what to expect when they shop in a sex shop. 😉

Max9

Vanessa However,cuffs are restrictive and sell pretty well in sex-xhop and similar,too,it seems...

so do chastity cages for devoted man and dominant women.

Vanessa

Angelina

Right!And they're mainly used by fetishists.

Angelina

Vanessa

in most cases yes, i think very few use it for a lifestyle

Vanessa

Angelina

It is very restrictive,even more than thigh bands.

Max9

Angelina Well, theoretically handcuffs can be used when your partner takes of your belt for cleaning and such things...

Angelina

Vanessa It is very restrictive,even more than thigh bands.

that's right, although in my opinion thigh bands are also a "border product".

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.

Vanessa

Max9

Right.

Max9

Right too.

Angelina

Max9

If the partner wears the belt willingly, he/she will also endure the 5 minutes without having to be tied up. 😉

Max9

Angelina Endure - for sure - but resist?

Angelina

Max9 but resist?

i think so, at least if the other partner regularly takes care of sexual happiness 😉

Vanessa

Max9

He can still look at him/her.😉

Max9

Rarely.

Angelina

It is not uncommon for a new couple to do it several times a day.

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