Asking for releases

Vanessa

I think telling the truth would be the best choice in this case.

As the purpose of the belt is to avoid unwanted pregnancy,it should not be a problem...

Do you know their opinion about it?

You should ask for more,at first,this way,if they hesitate;you could tell you can reduce it to twice a week as a compromise.

Hannah

Better,sure!

Especially as it would be harder to be allowed if not clearly allowed at the start...

Jonas Even with the belt removed on a regular basis, there will be times when you cannot masturbate when you want to. Asking for belt releases when you wanted them would, however, be quite embarrassing as it would reveal your intent.

I agree,both have disadvantages...

Jonas

Vanessa Especially as it would be harder to be allowed if not clearly allowed at the start...

Very true.

HHelen

Hannah How do I go about asking for this? I haven't discussed masturbation with my mom and i don't think she is aware of my habits.

By asking for it you would make it worse, because she would become aware that you did it.

Jonas With the My-Steel you'd have to ask to have the entire belt removed in order to masturbate

Yes, it's a big disadvantage. She could wear her belt without a secondary shield at all. Since nobody can get pregnant from oral sex or masturbation.

Jonas

HHelen By asking for it you would make it worse, because she would become aware that you did it.

I understand where you're coming from, but I think she hasn't got so much to lose at this point. Unless she asks she'll be wearing a belt with built-in secondary shield 24/7.

HHelen Yes, it's a big disadvantage. She could wear her belt without a secondary shield at all. Since nobody can get pregnant from oral sex or masturbation.

So we come back around to the question, why 24/7 use, why a secondary shield? Is the aim here to prevent more than just pregnancy? Only @Hannah can say... and only after she's spoken to her mother. Good luck, Hannah!

Angelina

HHelen because she would become aware that you did it.

i think that all parents of a teenage daughter have to expect this.

Jonas So we come back around to the question, why 24/7 use, why a secondary shield? Is the aim here to prevent more than just pregnancy? Only @Hannah can say...

I'll be honest, the main goal is probably to prevent pregnancy, but I think @Hannah's parents also see other benefits and hope their daughter doesn't notice.

Vanessa

HHelen By asking for it you would make it worse, because she would become aware that you did it.

It is a risk,yes.But she should take this risk.

Jonas I think she hasn't got so much to lose at this point. Unless she asks she'll be wearing a belt with built-in secondary shield 24/7.

Right.

Angelina I'll be honest, the main goal is probably to prevent pregnancy, but I think @Hannah's parents also see other benefits and hope their daughter doesn't notice.

It would not be uncommon that they think there could have some side-effects they find useful...

Ines it has to be clear from the beginning.

I agree.

Angelina

Possible,yes.

Ines

Jonas So we come back around to the question, why 24/7 use, why a secondary shield? Is the aim here to prevent more than just pregnancy? Only @Hannah can say... and only after she's spoken to her mother. Good luck, Hannah!

You hit the nail. If they are conservative, for sure do not accept well the masturbation.
It is a very important point, and it has to be clear from the beginning.

Jonas

Angelina I'll be honest, the main goal is probably to prevent pregnancy, but I think @Hannah's parents also see other benefits and hope their daughter doesn't notice.

Yes, that's what I'm wondering. That's why @Vanessa was perhaps wise to suggest that the rules be decided at the start, though as @HHelen points out, drawing attention to the masturbation issue risks hardening her parent's views against it.

HHelen

Angelina i think that all parents of a teenage daughter have to expect this.

Yes, but how often.

Mary

Angelina "the main goal is probably to prevent pregnancy"

That is an entirely reasonable point of view.
However, I have a different opinion:
The goal to prevent any sexual stimulation whatsoever.

Angelina

Jonas Yes, that's what I'm wondering. That's why @Vanessa was perhaps wise to suggest that the rules be decided at the start, though as @HHelen points out, drawing attention to the masturbation issue risks hardening her parent's views against it.

i would agree with @Vanessa's suggestion. i think all rules and conditions should be set before the belt is worn. it would have been better to discuss the conditions before the training but it is high time now at the latest.

Christine What a good girl! That's not why she put the belt on you.

If it is only about preventing pregnancies, the demand is perfectly ok.

Christine

Hannah I would like breaks for self-pleasure when I am 24/7. Twice a week would be enough.

What a good girl! That's not why she put the belt on you.

Christine

Angelina If it is only about preventing pregnancies, the demand is perfectly ok.

She could teach her to use pills instead.

Angelina

HHelen Yes, but how often.

once or twice a week as @Hannah asked is not too much

HHelen

Angelina once or twice a week as @Hannah asked is not too much

No, it's too much in my opinion.

Vanessa It is a risk,yes.But she should take this risk.

Better to not bring an attention to this matter.

Angelina

Mary The goal to prevent any sexual stimulation whatsoever.

perhaps not the goal, rather an accidentally discovered advantage from the parents

Angelina

Vanessa It would not be uncommon that they think there could have some side-effects they find useful...

right, i think very few parents like it when their daughter masturbates and even if that is not the main goal of the belt, it is certainly a nice side effect.

Vanessa

Angelina

Right.I think it is a generally appreciated side-effect(like reducing the choice of clothes).

HHelen No, it's too much in my opinion.

How often would be right,in your opinion?

Jonas

Lots of speculation, but only @Hannah can tell us what's the actual situation here is. fingers crossed

Angelina

Jonas

right, i hope for an update soon 🙂

BikelockFugitive

HHelen HHelen you gotta High-ball these things so you have room to go down.

Angelina

HHelen No, it's too much in my opinion.

too much? in fact i would say it is just the right amount for sexual pleasure to be possible but not excessive

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