Hannah I would like breaks for self-pleasure when I am 24/7. Twice a week would be enough.
With the My-Steel you'd have to ask to have the entire belt removed in order to masturbate (other makes of belts have a removable secondary shield), so again, the question is why you're going for 24/7 protection?
There is some disagreement over breaks for self-pleasure. Some people say they're okay, necessary even, but others say that they increase your desire, like salt-water.
Even with the belt removed on a regular basis, there will be times when you cannot masturbate when you want to. Asking for belt releases when you wanted them would, however, be quite embarrassing as it would reveal your intent.
How do I go about asking for this? I haven't discussed masturbation
with my mom and i don't think she is aware of my habits.
You say you can talk about anything with your mom, so that's a good start. 😅