Chastity belts in colleges and unversities

Angelina

Vanessa At most,it can be a side-effect.

But it can also have the opposite effect, if the girl can no longer concentrate on her studies due to constant "horniness".

HHelen But grades are the best way to evaluate her results.

by the grades you can see how successful she is, but you can't see the impact of mastubation.

Sara2001 In our family it wasn't. My father not even tried to keep us away from man/boys while we where/are in school. We are still allowed to spend time with them and at least "give them a good time". It has definitely nothing to do with our grades. It's just that he doesn't want us to have control about this aspect. He strongly believes that this should be controlled by a partner but accept do go a different way after marriage.

when i read this, i could get the idea that you are describing my father, yes it is very similar 🙂

HHelen

Vanessa but it seems it is rarely the main reason to use a chastity belt.

The main reason is her virginity.

Sara2001 Do you know anybody else who wears it at university for better grades?

@Ines 's sister, for example.

Sara2001 You said you think it's not rare.

Because it's logical.

Angelina but you can't see the impact of mastubation.

It's always negative thing in my opinion.

Vanessa

Sara2001 We are still allowed to spend time with them and at least "give them a good time".

Surprising he allows it...

Angelina But it can also have the opposite effect, if the girl can no longer concentrate on her studies due to constant "horniness".

Sure,it can depends on each people.

Angelina by the grades you can see how successful she is, but you can't see the impact of mastubation.

I agree.No way to know what would be her results if she doesn't wear a chastity belt.

HHelen The main reason is her virginity.

More classical.

HHelen @Ines 's sister, for example.

She wears it as a student,but not sure it is for her grades.And she's a willingly wearer,very different.

HHelen It's always negative thing in my opinion.

You can't compare how she would act as a student if not wearing it,so not possible to be sure it would have a negative impact on her studies.

Angelina then it seems as if it was your plan from the beginning to switch to a complete chastity belt at some point.

Probably,yes.

Angelina

HHelen The main reason is her virginity.

but virginity status has no influence on performance at university

HHelen It's always negative thing in my opinion.

then it seems as if it was your plan from the beginning to switch to a complete chastity belt at some point.

HHelen

Angelina but virginity status has no influence on performance at university

It does. Since virginity means no sexual activity.

Vanessa She wears it as a student,but not sure it is for her grades.

I'm pretty sure, her grades are good.

Sara2001

Vanessa Surprising he allows it...

Not really, he has and never had anything against it. It's not so much about keeping us in chastity but keeping us away from sexual pleasure on our side.

Angelina

Vanessa I agree.No way to know what would be her results if she doesn't wear a chastity belt.

hmm, would certainly be interesting if parents had twin daughters, one wears a belt while studying and the other doesn't. if they both studied the same thing, their performance would be comparable. 😂

Vanessa

Sara2001

In this case,it is understandable,yes.

Vanessa

Angelina

Sure,the results would be very interesting!🤣

HHelen It does. Since virginity means no sexual activity.

But sexual activities doesn't mean poor results.

HHelen I'm pretty sure, her grades are good.

Maybe;but probably not related to her chastity belt.

Max9

But it works in the opposite way.For @HHelen,poor results are a consequence of sex;in your example,sex is a consequence of failed career.

Sara2001 I think a relationship can be very time consuming compared with the time you can invest into studying as a single

But it is still more important to be in a relationship(especially if in love),than having more time to study,I think.And many people can manage both,so it is totally possible.

Sara2001 the urges may prevent you from concentration to your studies instead of helping you to focus.

I agree.Personally,I tend to concentrate on studies or work to distract me from my urges,but it doesn't always work,and,if it doesn't work,it can be very distracting,sure.

Sara2001 having a partner and being forbidden to enjoy sexual releases, is maybe the worst setup for our grades.

Probably,yes.

Angelina sexual activity doesn't have to influence it either, it depends on how interested and committed she is to her studies. 🙂

I agree.

Max9

HHelen Angelina but virginity status has no influence on performance at university

It does. Since virginity means no sexual activity.

That's a good question. Stufies habe shown that successful people tend to have sex later as people who aren't. Because when you fail in your career you tend to out effort into the love-life to succeed there.
The only question is if you are more successful when you have sex later in life

Angelina

HHelen It does. Since virginity means no sexual activity.

sexual activity doesn't have to influence it either, it depends on how interested and committed she is to her studies. 🙂

Max9

well, now you're already going a few points further. sexual activity doesn't mean having babies while still at university, etc.

I think I can completely agree with @Sara2001 on this point.

Sara2001

Max9 That's a good question. Stufies habe shown that successful people tend to have sex later as people who aren't. Because when you fail in your career you tend to out effort into the love-life to succeed there.
The only question is if you are more successful when you have sex later in life

I don't think this includes masturbation, if this is true at all. I think a relationship can be very time consuming compared with the time you can invest into studying as a single, but the urges may prevent you from concentration to your studies instead of helping you to focus.

I don't have others studies, but I think if you have time, because you are single and relaxed because you can masturbate it should be best for your studies. The situation of many girls here, having a partner and being forbidden to enjoy sexual releases, is maybe the worst setup for our grades.

Max9

Sara2001 I don't think this includes masturbation, if this is true at all.

Not about masturbation, but about habing sex and having babies etc. ... it is true, I can do some resesrch on it again to find them, if you want.
An indicator for it being true is that tennaged parents / parents at very young age tend not to be highly educated in general.

Joh

Sara2001 I don't have others studies, but I think if you have time, because you are single and relaxed because you can masturbate it should be best for your studies

This is depended on the person. We are not equal in our needs and behaviour. For one it can be the case and help with studies. Other my be get addicted and search for more stories and pictures which turn them on to masturbate. Instead of studying they wast their time for this.

Sara2001

Max9 An indicator for it being true is that tennaged parents / parents at very young age tend not to be highly educated in general.

I think it is the opposite. They have sex without protection because they are bad educated before they had sex. Then they have babies, which is very time consuming, so they have no more time for education, so they stay uneducated very often.

It has nothing to do with protected sex masturbation. I don't think there is a relationship.

Max9

Angelina sexual activity doesn't have to influence it either, it depends on how interested and committed she is to her studies.

No, sexual activity doesn't influence anything, that's right.
But not being successful has ab influence on the sexual activity because it moves the focus from career to boys / girls and having a family.

HHelen

Angelina sexual activity doesn't have to influence it either, it depends on how interested and committed she is to her studies.

Usually it has higher "priority" than studies.

Vanessa But sexual activities doesn't mean poor results.

Even the results are not poor, they could be better without it.

Vanessa Maybe;but probably not related to her chastity belt.

I think few factors together.

Laura I suspect @HHelen has her own story behind and wants her daughter to avoid it

Not mine, but somebody's else.

Angelina

Max9 But not being successful has ab influence on the sexual activity because it moves the focus from career to boys / girls and having a family.

hmm... i think that might be true, but my girlfriend is the opposite example, even if it's hard to compare because she's still in school.

she doesn't know exactly what job she wants to do later, probably something in the social field because she's a very social person, but it's not a guarantee that she'll have a successful career.

nevertheless, it is clear that i love her and want to have sexual pleasure with her, no matter if she becomes a manager or a cleaner later on. 🙂

Max9

I'm still searching that study ... doing so I just found an article abou tthe study thst couples tend to divorce themselves oftener when the man career is failing as when it's the woman's - something people here also did doubt to be true
https://orf.at/stories/3120645

might take a little while till I find tge one we're talking about right now - I'm just reading so much ...

Max9

Angelina So have I been thinking for a long time ... I indeed thought about getting engaged ... well, you know jow it did end... however, I also wouldn't say I'm a dumb person... statistics just don't say that things have to be like that every single time ... it's just... statistics

Angelina

Max9 statistics just don't say that things have to be like that every single time ... it's just... statistics

i know that, that's why i always try to combine statistics with individual situations.

Max9 I'm a bit jealous of you for having such a good working relation.

i also work on it every day 🙂

Max9

I have to confess I'm a bit jealous of you for having such a good working relation.

Laura

Vanessa For @HHelen,poor results are a consequence of sex

I suspect @HHelen has her own story behind and wants her daughter to avoid it

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