Chastity belts in colleges and unversities

Angelina

Vanessa However,I appreciate to not had to wear it permanently during several years.

that is understandable and yes your parents probably hoped that it would be enough that you wear it as punishment, but they are two different reasons. if you wear the belt as punishment you have already behaved wrongly, if you wear the belt permanently the wrong behaviour is prevented.

Vanessa

Angelina

And as I continued to misbehave when I was punished this way,they finally decided to prevent me to misbehave anymore.

HHelen

Vanessa they finally decided to prevent me to misbehave anymore.

Time to re-consider their decision, because time goes and you will not behave the same way.

Angelina

Vanessa

probably, i can understand the logic even if i prefer to follow the logic "you learn from your mistakes".

HHelen Time to re-consider their decision, because time goes and you will not behave the same way.

i agree, she is now much more mature

Vanessa

HHelen

Very unlikely my rules change until married...

Angelina the logic "you learn from your mistakes".

It was the logic for using it as a punishment,but I've to admit it was not very effective...

Angelina

Vanessa It was the logic for using it as a punishment,but I've to admit it was not very effective...

that's true, but that's probably because from your point of view they weren't mistakes. 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

It plays a part,sure!

orca2020

Not really sure how i came across this page but after reading through, i've got a question for anyone who'd like to voice an answer or opinion. I read about how parents are putting their daughters in chastity etc... Personally, not experienced this or met anyone who went in for any other reason than because they wanted to. But one thing that i don't hear of, although it is there is male chastity. Does anyone here have any brothers? do they have to wear it? or would anyone in this thread put a guy / son in chastity? Curious to see how people perceive this, if it's like a, only women should wear it or if it's a both genders thing. Heck, i'd of thought it would be more important to lock a guy in chastity than to lock a girl considering most of the time (not all the time) it's the boys who rampage on with their bits...

Laura

orca2020 Does anyone here have any brothers? do they have to wear it?

@Vanessa does

Angelina

orca2020

well i know @Vanessa's brother wears one but not 24/7 and @Lukas and his sister are also both locked.

LoonyMel

orca2020 there are some males here which can answer to your question with first person experience.

Nate

orca2020

I'm actually a guy locked in chastity cage, and my brother is locked too.

For me, it's definitely not a single-gender thing; boys can be locked too. In real life, I know several other guys who are locked, but I don't know a single locked girl. So, maybe it's just the people you're around?

And yeah, it's just as important (if not even more) to lock boys. First, boys masturbate too. And second, there isn't just vaginal sex. To be honest, the cage did a good job preventing me and my brother from rampaging 😉, so ...

Laura

Abby82 If it was only to protect from the boys it probably wouldn't be worn 24/7

I didn't work this way 😂

orca2020

Abby82 ah okay, so to basically stop you from masturbating, same sorta reason a guy would get one i suppose! and yeah true, just surprised, i see a lot on here and some other places where they put girls in chastity to protect them from boys, instead of or and putting the boy in chastity!

Laura Think it depends on the reasoning and how old fashioned different parents/lovers are i suppose.

Angelina ah okay, assuming that was placed on them by parents?

LoonyMel Yeah i'm very interested, i've never been locked into one by someone else before, i have worn one for a day once out of personal curiosity tho lol.

Laura

orca2020 Think it depends on the reasoning and how old fashioned different parents/lovers are i suppose.

I meant in my case

Angelina

orca2020 ah okay, assuming that was placed on them by parents?

details you should ask @Vanessa and @Lukas yourself, but i think it depends a lot on what understanding parents have of chastity. it depends on whether they think it is only not for unmarried girls or should be forbidden for unmarried in general.

orca2020

Laura Yeah i understand 🙂

orca2020

Angelina just saw your bio! When you say permanently, what do you mean? When i think of permanent, i think of forever, so are you locked forever or just until marriage or something? Also, what's it like wearing a chastity bra? From the photos i've searched, doesn't look all that comfortable with the 'straps'. Same with thigh-bands, they annoying or?
Also, when you say part time thigh bands, how often do you have to wear them and do they play a big part on what you wear?
And if you don't mind me asking (if you do then no worries, just say) what are the consequences if you refused to wear all your gear? No funding, no home, disowned or something?
I'm very curious how chastity fits in like, a regular lifestyle, not any kink or fetish or anything, so yeah, very intrigued how both men and women deal with it as a regular thing, especially if you have to wear a belt, bra and bands!

orca2020

Nate oh really? how do you find it?

oh really? where abouts are you from? i've moved around england a fair bit and i've had a lot of close friends and i've never met a single girl or boy who's locked and i know this because i've had conversations about chastity with most of them. I've tried one on myself before for a day just out of curiosity and ive actually owned a few different types but i've never actually had one that like, stayed on and i couldn't get off lol.

I'm surprised there are so many people wearing it willingly/forcefully like, before this forum, i've never met someone who HAD to wear it willingly or forcefully.

Yes that's what i thought haha, i was expecting there to be a lot more guys locked but tbh, it seems like it's a lot easier to lock girls and there's a lot more add-ons like the chastity bra, thigh bands etc... that girls can wear with the belt on the daily that boys couldn't, or i should say, wouldn't, obv they could but ynow XD.

Yeah after having a female friendship group and a male, it's pretty clear to me that like, boys masturbate a LOOOOT more than girls, like a TONE more, i also think if more boys were controlled/locked in them, there'd be a hell of a lot less violence and stupid stuff but that might be just my opinion i dunno.

Really? what did it change? and are you forced to wear it or?

Luckily i've never had to wear one and anyone i've ever met relationship wise always looked down upon chastity, probably and english thing maybe i dunno, so never worn one apart from that day where i bought a few just to try it XD

Angelina

Nate For me, it's definitely not a single-gender thing; boys can be locked too. In real life, I know several other guys who are locked, but I don't know a single locked girl. So, maybe it's just the people you're around?

have to ask this because you know many boys in chastity, so the concept of chastity is not unknown in your circles, but you don't know any girls in chastity. Is it possible that you live in a radical feminist environment where men are oppressed? I really mean this question seriously.

markules

Nate
Hey Nate, you said you know "several" guys who are locked? I thought you only knew yourself, your brother and the other guy from practise. Is there anyone else?

youdontknowme

orca2020 Yes that's what i thought haha, i was expecting there to be a lot more guys locked but tbh, it seems like it's a lot easier to lock girls and there's a lot more add-ons like the chastity bra, thigh bands etc... that girls can wear with the belt on the daily that boys couldn't, or i should say, wouldn't, obv they could but ynow XD.

Definitely more accessories, but I do not think locking girls is easier. You have a much larger range of options for boys, some of which take much more time getting used to, though how orgasm-proof those easier options are varies a lot from person to person. However, locking girls up tends to be more in line with traditional gender roles, which are likely popular in the same social circles that would also try to restrict someone's masturbation.

However, I also think that not all of the people portraying themselves as involuntarily locked girls are actually involuntarily locked, or even girls. There are probably a number of boys and older men who would not last a day in a chastity device. Though the mods here do a great job of showing the obvious ones the door.

orca2020 i also think if more boys were controlled/locked in them, there'd be a hell of a lot less violence and stupid stuff but that might be just my opinion i dunno.

I would not necessarily think so. You know what is more troublesome than a horny boy? A frustrated horny boy.

Nate

orca2020

Well, it's kind of normal to me now. You get used to it if you wear it for a few years. I'm from CZ.

Again, I think that it's mostly about the type of people around you. If you're almost only around boys (like me), it's normal that you know locked boys and less girls.

Also, by several guys, I meant eight (five, if you don't count self-locked). It's not like every second guy I know is in chastity.

I would expect more locked guys on the internet too, but I guess they are too shy or embarrased to admit their manhood is locked in cage. My ego still hates it, to be honest.

No, I don't think it's easier to lock girls. I can (and do) wear just a small cage, not a full belt.

Angelina

No, not really. We're quite patriarchal community, just that some guys are in chastity.

orca2020

youdontknowme Really? i know there is a lot of different types of cages when looking online but seems to me only female chastity actually really works but i defo don't know enough about it all XD

and yes very true however a frustrated horny boy is also susceptible to control, if you hold his keys and decide when he gets let out etc... you've basically got control of that boy, obviously depends on the mentality of each individual person but a horny boy is a boy that can be controlled and a frustrated horny boy is a boy that will be controlled, if done right. I know if anyone ever locked me in chastity i'd be an absolute nightmare at the start but once i realise i'm fully at that persons mercy for being unlocked, i'd behave hahaha.

Nate Yeah true, when being online, i just always see people from other countries (not UK) being locked in chastity. Ofc there will be people here locked but wondering if it's just a different social thing over here, in my 19 nearly 20 years of life and purposely exposing myself to all this sorta stuff, i'm yet to meet anyone locked willingly or unwillingly. Again, sure there are people, but definitely not as common as other countries i don't think and yes, i can imagine there being a tone of people on the internet about it!
Yeah true, dunno how i'd feel about it if i was locked but it would change the way i'd see myself i think, my ego would defo change haha.
Really? i'd of thought that with males having erections, getting a cage on and making sure it stays on so it cannot be taken off or slipped off and that it doesn't cause any pain or discomfort when you try and get erect in it would be difficult no? compared to women's belt where it's effectively placed on top and there's nothing to encase or stop from growing, can put it on and off any time with relative ease and when horny, wouldn't have any issues with it like you would with a males cage? but again, i defo don't know enough about this stuff, just my thoughts so excuse me if i'm wrong or sound like a twit haha.

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