Chastity belts in colleges and unversities

orca2020

Sara2001 Oh really? why did you decide to stay wearing it all forever then? and you say it's your free decision, is your future husband okay with it? and does this mean you can take it off whenever you wanted then, IF you wanted? but yes, curious to see why you decided to make it permanent!

Sara2001

orca2020 Oh really? why did you decide to stay wearing it all forever then? and you say it's your free decision, is your future husband okay with it? and does this mean you can take it off whenever you wanted then, IF you wanted? but yes, curious to see why you decided to make it permanent!

My future husband wants me to stay in my equipment. He told me that when we marry, he expects me to stay locked at all times (of course except when we have fun). We talked about it and we still do on a regular basis and I agreed to his wishes. So I don't love or like to be locked in it but I love how much it makes him happy and to know how proud he is of me.

No, I can't take it of whenever I want. I have agreed to a system where I can ask to get out of the equipment whenever I want, but the opening itself will then be 6 months later. During these months, I can rethink my decision.

Maija I have to disagree. Both certainly have their pros and cons, but I really consider the added security worth it

I don't feel that it adds much security.

Megan

Sweat isn't a issue for me as I just move the belt part around without rubbing my body underneath the belt and the sweat just runs off.
Other more personal thicker bodily fluid could be more difficult to get rid of so I might take a bat with Epson salts of some type for a minute when I get home. 😅

Angelina

orca2020 (https://www.rotita.com/Swimdresses-c334.html)

that would probably not work, the whole swimsuit is too permeable, you would see a lot. it is more comparable to a neoprene suit. also the straps are not good, you would see the chains, it has to be long-sleeved

orca2020 like they are always reminding you that they are there?

more or less yes, the thighbands can be hidden well under skirts and dresses if they are long enough. but you have to be careful with every step, one step too far and you feel the pull, luckily i don't wear them permenently anymore but you notice them all the time

orca2020 i hope you've got a good group of real life friends that can support you, and i hope your girlfriend is helping too. Does she have to wear a chastity belt/set up too?

in my circle of friends only my best friend knows about it. to protect my father it is better that way. my girlfriend had to wear one in the beginning, it was not really a compulsion, but let's say it couldn't be otherwise. but that is in the past and now fortunately not anymore

orca2020 And you said you'd be let out of the belt and set up when your married, is that the same rules if you marry a girl? Like if your dating a girl, then you've not got to worry about getting pregnant. But if he's of traditional values, will he still keep to his word if you marry a girl instead of a boy? just curious.

they are the same rules yes, what should change about that? an unwanted pregnancy is only one of many reasons and not the strongest because that can be prevented in other ways. in short he wants me to go into marriage as a virgin so that i can appreciate the value of sexual pleasure and not let sex or masturbation distract me from more important things.

Sara2001 Definitely. It's way better. As you know I can compare it every day, because I still wear the padlock from dinner to the next morning and a chain for the day until dinner and having the chain definitely gives you way more freedom to move.

definitely, I agree with you

Megan Sweat isn't a issue for me as I just move the belt part around without rubbing my body underneath the belt and the sweat just runs off.

sweat always makes me a little itchy and I can't scratch myself, it's really bad.

Maija

Sara2001 Definitely. It's way better

I have to disagree. Both certainly have their pros and cons, but I really consider the added security worth it. Of course, I might also be the only one advocating for a connecting chain with chastity bras, for example, so take this with a grain of salt xd

Joh

Maija I find your view on security interesting.
Have you ever thought about to use handcuff for your hands behind your back to get extra security? It would make it more difficult to pick any lock 😉 😅

Renita

Maija I might also be the only one advocating for a connecting chain with chastity bras,

Me too. Because it prevents sliding up.

Angelina

Maija I have to disagree. Both certainly have their pros and cons, but I really consider the added security worth it. Of course, I might also be the only one advocating for a connecting chain with chastity bras, for example, so take this with a grain of salt xd

it depends on the point of view, from your point of view it is of course more correct the more security you have, whereas the connecting chains are actually only useful if you have rather small breasts. 😉

Joh Have you ever thought about to use handcuff for your hands behind your back to get extra security? It would make it more difficult to pick any lock 😉 😅

🤣

Maija Handcuffs would be quite impractical and, if enforced by parents, child abuse

of course, but i think @Joh meant it as a joke 😉

Renita No, but I have a security concern when I see a girl wearing chastity bra without this chain.

interesting we have many bra wearers here on the forum but apart from @Maija and myself for a short time, no one here has ever worn these connecting chains.

Maija

Joh find your view on security interesting.
Have you ever thought about to use handcuff for your hands behind your back to get extra security

Isn't that a bit of a strawman and a slippery slope? Handcuffs would be quite impractical and, if enforced by parents, child abuse

Joh

Maija Isn't that a bit of a strawman and a slippery slope? Handcuffs would be quite impractical and, if enforced by parents, child abuse

@Angelina
It was meant somewhat ironically and a little provocatively.

Lets have a look at the situation:
Is it abusive for parents to require their children to wear a chastity belt? Yes, it is.
Is it abusive for parents to require their children to wear a chastity bra? Yes, it is.
Is it abusive for parents to require their children to wear a thigh bands? Yes, it is.

At your particular situation you agree to wear it because you like the feeling of protection. You think about to increase your restriction further beside of any prove it would increase your protection.
For what do you need protection? As far as I understand it from yourself. I conclude using handcuff to hold you hand outside the range where the locks are it would improve you security feeling. I thought only at night when you use the blocking bolt. You would depended on you parents anyway so it would not change much.

Maija

Renita Me too. Because it prevents sliding up.

You wear one?

Renita

Maija You wear one?

No, but I have a security concern when I see a girl wearing chastity bra without this chain.

Renita

Angelina no one here has ever worn these connecting chains.

Probably, they didn't think about it.

Angelina

Renita Probably, they didn't think about it.

it is not necessary, even my small breasts are big enough for the bra to work without these chains. it makes sense for extremely small breasts, otherwise it is only suitable for annoying daughters.

Joh

i agree with you and at this point i don't understand @Maija anymore. i understand if i think completely different than usual, why she has this need for security, but why you have to put yourself in hard chains, so to speak, and make yourself completely dependent, i don't understand. the normal equipment offers 100% protection, more is not necessary.

Maija

Joh It was meant somewhat ironically and a little provocatively.

Sorry, perhaps I overreacted

Joh At your particular situation you agree to wear it because you like the feeling of protection. You think about to increase your restriction further beside of any prove it would increase your protection.
For what do you need protection? As far as I understand it from yourself. I conclude using handcuff to hold you hand outside the range where the locks are it would improve you security feeling. I thought only at night when you use the blocking bolt. You would depended on you parents anyway so it would not change much.

Yes, although let's remember that I'm not using the locking bolt at night - it was only a test. Of course, nothing is child abuse since I'm not a minor anymore, but I certainly see your point. However, I wear these devices completely voluntarily, and even sometimes, oddly enough, like the added restriction.

Angelina i agree with you and at this point i don't understand @Maija

Fair, my preferences might be a bit on the extreme side of things but it isn't to say that I would tolerate or want anything. I'm sorry for not being able to express my thoughts as precisely as I'd like in a non-native language.

Joh

Angelina @Maija
It could be simple. Perhaps she has a different view on the subject.

And if she feels it is right for her she should do it.

Renita

Angelina even my small breasts are big enough for the bra to work without these chains. it makes sense for extremely small breasts, otherwise it is only suitable for annoying daughters.

Unlike belt, chastity bra doesn't fit tight.

Angelina

Joh And if she feels it is right for her she should do it.

of course, everyone should do what he/she wants, i am just trying to understand the logic

Maija Fair, my preferences might be a bit on the extreme side of things but it isn't to say that I would tolerate or want anything. I'm sorry for not being able to express my thoughts as precisely as I'd like in a non-native language.

no problem, i'm not a native speaker either. so i see it right that you find many restrictions good, but always know exactly where the limits are and would say so openly?

Renita Unlike belt, chastity bra doesn't fit tight.

that's not true, how would you even know, you're not wearing one.
it's not so tight that it's painful, but it should fit tightly, so you get measured beforehand

Joh

Maija Sorry, perhaps I overreacted

Don't worry. It is fine and I had written my answer to you with a laughing eye.

Maija Yes, although let's remember that I'm not using the locking bolt at night

Yes, I was aware of that, but that can still change if you feel like it. After all, it's your decision. If so have fun 😉

Megan

Renita Unlike belt, chastity bra doesn't fit tight.

I imagined it isn't supposed to squeeze the breasts at all.
If I wear a ight supportive bra I look forward to taking it off.

Renita

Megan If I wear a ight supportive bra I look forward to taking it off.

But it's not steel.

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