Chastity belts in colleges and unversities

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Nate Floorball ... it's like ice hockey, but without ice 😃

So like field hockey?

Nate

orca2020

Nate ohhh i see what you mean, i've seen that before but didn't know it was called floorball! Interesting and yeah i get what you mean, can't hide an outline very well in underwear haha

Angelina

orca2020

so i hope you are not angry with me, but i can only give short answers to so many questions at once.

orca2020 ah really? is it hard to cover up/hide? and what happens if you want to go swimming etc... do you get let out or do you have to deal with it?

when i go swimming i have a special swimming swim suit and (as always during the day) no thighbands

orca2020 Well when i googled them, i saw some people wear them without any chain in-between the two bands, so just the bands so was wondering if you had to wear the chain. Does the chain make a big difference being on compared to being off? Like do you have to walk differently or dress differently? And what do you mean to the crotch? When i researched thigh bands, i could only see photos of chains connecting the two bands together or chains along the outside of the thighs connecting to the belt, are you saying you have one going to your crotch too or?

thigh bands are usually always locked, otherwise they don't make sense. in my case with a chain but some users only wear it with a padlock. my connecting chain goes through the D-rings of both bands but also through a D-ring in the crotch area. Mysteel explains it well on his website

orca2020 Huh, not sure how much that makes sense, if you have 1 day out of the bra you have to wear thigh bands all the time, do thigh bands really make that much of a difference with stimulation? Or is it just more of an inconvenience? But hey, at least you can get out the bra 'regularly'!

thigh bands make stimulation in the crotch area almost impossible, without thigh bands I can get my fingers under the shield if I spread my legs wide, that's enough for stimulation but not for orgasms. the thighbands should prevent that when i play with my breasts i stimulate myself too much and then fight too hard against my belt

orca2020 No worries haha and yes, although you cannot prove it, it is curious if he would or not! and would be funny if the boy had to wear thigh bands and a bra, would make wearing male clothing quite difficult i would imagine! XD

yes, i assume if i were a boy, then only the belt 😂

orca2020 Does all the gear make life difficult? if so, how? does it change a lot? make you do things differently then before? trying to understand if it's more of a nuisance or if it's actually a positive thing to have locked on you? and even if it is positive, does it cause any problems with daily life? i can imagine if your locked in all that gear, it would make you change what clothes you'd wear maybe? as i asked above, what happens with swimming, or going doctors, hell, what about summer! How do you hide it all, or don't you?

I actually answered a lot of these questions in the forum. yes it has changed a lot, yes i recognize both positive and negative sides, whereby the negative sides outweigh in my opinion, which is why i also say that i wear it involuntarily. hiding is difficult, but we have threads in which I and others describe in detail how we hide it, and yes in summer it is extremely difficult, but doable, but sometimes you sweat a lot and yes it sometimes itches and you can't scratch yourself, this is hell

These were a few short answers, I'd be happy to write more about them, but that doesn't work if you ask 20 questions at once 😂

Maija

Angelina thigh bands make stimulation in the crotch area almost impossible, without thigh bands I can get my fingers under the shield if I spread my legs wide, that's enough for stimulation but not for orgasms. the thighbands should prevent that when i play with my breasts i stimulate myself too much and then fight too hard against my belt

This is the main reason women should wear thighbands

Angelina I actually answered a lot of these questions in the forum. yes it has changed a lot, yes i recognize both positive and negative sides, whereby the negative sides outweigh in my opinion, which is why i also say that i wear it involuntarily. hiding is difficult, but we have threads in which I and others describe in detail how we hide it, and yes in summer it is extremely difficult, but doable, but sometimes you sweat a lot and yes it sometimes itches and you can't scratch yourself, this is hell

It's certainly not easy, but I wouldn't necessarily say that the negatives outweighs the positives. As someone who wears thighbands and a bra every day, I personally can say that I mostly like the restrictions as they make me feel protected (i do however have an exercise break if one hour per day)

Angelina thigh bands are usually always locked, otherwise they don't make sense. in my case with a chain but some users only wear it with a padlock. my connecting chain goes through the D-rings of both bands but also through a D-ring in the crotch area. Mysteel explains it well on his website

Yes, it doesn't make much sense otherwise. As someone who has been locked in all of the described ways, I think they are a tradeoff between

Security
Ease of movement
Hygiene
Noisiness
(Maybe ease-of-locking-and-unlocking)

My parents and I consider my current regime (padlock) be the ideal compromise between these criteria. It's very secure, hygiene is easier than with a crotch chain for example, they aren't very noisy, and not particularly hassly to put on. The only downside is the freedom of movement, which does suck sometimes

orca2020

Angelina Nonono not angry don't worry, we brits like to list it all in one big message to save time lol.

Special swimming suit? could you elaborate or show me what you mean? i'm intrigued at how someone would hide their chastity belt, let alone with a bra when swimming!

Ohh right, never new that, makes sense tho, interesting how big of a part the bands make! Ah sorry, there is many comments and threads on here and i haven't read through all of them lol.

haha yes i can imagine an itch that cannot be scratched being a very bad thing!

Maija Oh so you think all women should wear thighbands? Do you think women should wear chastity all the time? and what about men?

Suppose it depends, you say you want to wear it, whereas angelina says she doesn't so that will definitely have an effect on the different views of what is positive and what is negative i think!

Oh so you connect the bands together by a padlock!? Doesn't that make walking difficult? i would've thought so! and how would that effect your clothing? I would imagine having your legs locked so tight together, you'd only want to wear certain things ?

Angelina

Maija as they make me feel protected (i do however have an exercise break if one hour per day)

exactly, you feel protected, i don't. my father would wish that i felt like you, but unfortunately that's not the case.

Maija My parents and I consider my current regime (padlock) be the ideal compromise between these criteria. It's very secure, hygiene is easier than with a crotch chain for example, they aren't very noisy, and not particularly hassly to put on. The only downside is the freedom of movement, which does suck sometimes

i also had a padlock for a short period of time, both have their advantages and disadvantages. but in normal everyday life i find a chain better because i can move around better with it.

orca2020 Special swimming suit? could you elaborate or show me what you mean? i'm intrigued at how someone would hide their chastity belt, let alone with a bra when swimming!

now a swimsuit with long sleeves and a skirt attachment. it's extremely unsexy but it serves its purpose. 😉

orca2020 Ohh right, never new that, makes sense tho, interesting how big of a part the bands make! Ah sorry, there is many comments and threads on here and i haven't read through all of them lol.

no problem, thighbands play a big role, they increase safety and certainly have small advantages. nevertheless they are the part of my equipment i hate the most because unlike belts and bra they also bother me when i am not aroused.

orca2020

Angelina I think if i were a girl, hell even a guy locked in chastity i would feel a level of protection but that would be very small compared to all the other feelings, personally haha.

ohh i see what you mean, i'm kind of imagining like a wetsuit type get up? I'm constantly seeing adverts for this swimsuit company called rotita (https://www.rotita.com/Swimdresses-c334.html) where they are selling swimsuits like what your describing. I've never seen a girl in a chastity bra before so i don't know how obvious it is or how hard it is to hide it, or how bothered you personally are at hiding it but maybe have a look at these and see if you can find anything that would cover you up enough whilst still looking 'sexy'. Just thought i'd mention it after seeing it so much online and your description of what you've currently got 🙂

Yes i can imagine! If i had to wear the gear you've got on, the belt i'm sure i could get used to, the bra (besides the fact i'm a guy haha) think i'd probably be able to get used to that too but the thigh bands, not sure i could get used to that as i think they are the type of 'equipment' that are constantly like, in the way and from what i hear and see, can't just hide or get used to, like they are always reminding you that they are there?

I think if a male was in a chastity belt or a cage, thighbands would help the same, reducing the leg gap that you'd have to mess around with your junk lol, but obviously guys don't wear skirts and dresses and they've got a lot bigger walking stride so don't think it would really work haha.

I do feel sorry for you though honestly. Like if you were to wear a chastity set up because you like it or its a kink or a religious thing or even just because you think it's right, then fair enough but if you've got to wear it "or else!" then i think in reality, it's really problematic mentally, and i do feel sorry for you and i hope you've got a good group of real life friends that can support you, and i hope your girlfriend is helping too. Does she have to wear a chastity belt/set up too?

And you said you'd be let out of the belt and set up when your married, is that the same rules if you marry a girl? Like if your dating a girl, then you've not got to worry about getting pregnant. But if he's of traditional values, will he still keep to his word if you marry a girl instead of a boy? just curious.

But hey, at least you know it isn't permanently on forever and only temporarily on until marriage, a light at the end of the tunnel 😃

Sara2001

Angelina i also had a padlock for a short period of time, both have their advantages and disadvantages. but in normal everyday life i find a chain better because i can move around better with it.

Definitely. It's way better. As you know I can compare it every day, because I still wear the padlock from dinner to the next morning and a chain for the day until dinner and having the chain definitely gives you way more freedom to move.

Angelina no problem, thighbands play a big role, they increase safety and certainly have small advantages. nevertheless they are the part of my equipment i hate the most because unlike belts and bra they also bother me when i am not aroused.

I have to agree. They definitely have the biggest impact on anything that is not sex related and I hate how they make cleaning after toilet more difficult.

orca2020 But hey, at least you know it isn't permanently on forever and only temporarily on until marriage, a light at the end of the tunnel

Not for me. I agreed with my future husband that I will continue to wear my equipment after marriage and for good. It was and still is my free decision, but sometimes it's very frustrating.

Angelina

orca2020 (https://www.rotita.com/Swimdresses-c334.html)

that would probably not work, the whole swimsuit is too permeable, you would see a lot. it is more comparable to a neoprene suit. also the straps are not good, you would see the chains, it has to be long-sleeved

orca2020 like they are always reminding you that they are there?

more or less yes, the thighbands can be hidden well under skirts and dresses if they are long enough. but you have to be careful with every step, one step too far and you feel the pull, luckily i don't wear them permenently anymore but you notice them all the time

orca2020 i hope you've got a good group of real life friends that can support you, and i hope your girlfriend is helping too. Does she have to wear a chastity belt/set up too?

in my circle of friends only my best friend knows about it. to protect my father it is better that way. my girlfriend had to wear one in the beginning, it was not really a compulsion, but let's say it couldn't be otherwise. but that is in the past and now fortunately not anymore

orca2020 And you said you'd be let out of the belt and set up when your married, is that the same rules if you marry a girl? Like if your dating a girl, then you've not got to worry about getting pregnant. But if he's of traditional values, will he still keep to his word if you marry a girl instead of a boy? just curious.

they are the same rules yes, what should change about that? an unwanted pregnancy is only one of many reasons and not the strongest because that can be prevented in other ways. in short he wants me to go into marriage as a virgin so that i can appreciate the value of sexual pleasure and not let sex or masturbation distract me from more important things.

Sara2001 Definitely. It's way better. As you know I can compare it every day, because I still wear the padlock from dinner to the next morning and a chain for the day until dinner and having the chain definitely gives you way more freedom to move.

definitely, I agree with you

Megan Sweat isn't a issue for me as I just move the belt part around without rubbing my body underneath the belt and the sweat just runs off.

sweat always makes me a little itchy and I can't scratch myself, it's really bad.

orca2020

Sara2001 Oh really? why did you decide to stay wearing it all forever then? and you say it's your free decision, is your future husband okay with it? and does this mean you can take it off whenever you wanted then, IF you wanted? but yes, curious to see why you decided to make it permanent!

Maija

Sara2001 Definitely. It's way better

I have to disagree. Both certainly have their pros and cons, but I really consider the added security worth it. Of course, I might also be the only one advocating for a connecting chain with chastity bras, for example, so take this with a grain of salt xd

Sara2001

orca2020 Oh really? why did you decide to stay wearing it all forever then? and you say it's your free decision, is your future husband okay with it? and does this mean you can take it off whenever you wanted then, IF you wanted? but yes, curious to see why you decided to make it permanent!

My future husband wants me to stay in my equipment. He told me that when we marry, he expects me to stay locked at all times (of course except when we have fun). We talked about it and we still do on a regular basis and I agreed to his wishes. So I don't love or like to be locked in it but I love how much it makes him happy and to know how proud he is of me.

No, I can't take it of whenever I want. I have agreed to a system where I can ask to get out of the equipment whenever I want, but the opening itself will then be 6 months later. During these months, I can rethink my decision.

Maija I have to disagree. Both certainly have their pros and cons, but I really consider the added security worth it

I don't feel that it adds much security.

Megan

Sweat isn't a issue for me as I just move the belt part around without rubbing my body underneath the belt and the sweat just runs off.
Other more personal thicker bodily fluid could be more difficult to get rid of so I might take a bat with Epson salts of some type for a minute when I get home. 😅

Joh

Maija I find your view on security interesting.
Have you ever thought about to use handcuff for your hands behind your back to get extra security? It would make it more difficult to pick any lock 😉 😅

Renita

Maija I might also be the only one advocating for a connecting chain with chastity bras,

Me too. Because it prevents sliding up.

Angelina

Maija I have to disagree. Both certainly have their pros and cons, but I really consider the added security worth it. Of course, I might also be the only one advocating for a connecting chain with chastity bras, for example, so take this with a grain of salt xd

it depends on the point of view, from your point of view it is of course more correct the more security you have, whereas the connecting chains are actually only useful if you have rather small breasts. 😉

Joh Have you ever thought about to use handcuff for your hands behind your back to get extra security? It would make it more difficult to pick any lock 😉 😅

🤣

Maija Handcuffs would be quite impractical and, if enforced by parents, child abuse

of course, but i think @Joh meant it as a joke 😉

Renita No, but I have a security concern when I see a girl wearing chastity bra without this chain.

interesting we have many bra wearers here on the forum but apart from @Maija and myself for a short time, no one here has ever worn these connecting chains.

Maija

Joh find your view on security interesting.
Have you ever thought about to use handcuff for your hands behind your back to get extra security

Isn't that a bit of a strawman and a slippery slope? Handcuffs would be quite impractical and, if enforced by parents, child abuse

Joh

Maija Isn't that a bit of a strawman and a slippery slope? Handcuffs would be quite impractical and, if enforced by parents, child abuse

@Angelina
It was meant somewhat ironically and a little provocatively.

Lets have a look at the situation:
Is it abusive for parents to require their children to wear a chastity belt? Yes, it is.
Is it abusive for parents to require their children to wear a chastity bra? Yes, it is.
Is it abusive for parents to require their children to wear a thigh bands? Yes, it is.

At your particular situation you agree to wear it because you like the feeling of protection. You think about to increase your restriction further beside of any prove it would increase your protection.
For what do you need protection? As far as I understand it from yourself. I conclude using handcuff to hold you hand outside the range where the locks are it would improve you security feeling. I thought only at night when you use the blocking bolt. You would depended on you parents anyway so it would not change much.

Maija

Renita Me too. Because it prevents sliding up.

You wear one?

Renita

Maija You wear one?

No, but I have a security concern when I see a girl wearing chastity bra without this chain.

Renita

Angelina no one here has ever worn these connecting chains.

Probably, they didn't think about it.

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