Chastity belts in colleges and unversities

Vanessa

I think there is a same reason for having sex more easily and being drunk,during university.Many students live alone,so there is no one who notice if they spend the night out,or come home with different man/woman each time they went to a party,or if they come home drunk,etc...It would explain why it is more common form university students coming from other cities,they likely live alone,while the ones from your city probably still live with their parents.

Angelina it's actually quite good that I'm out of it 😂

It can still be pleasant...But less than having sex when in love,sure.

Laura

You may have guessed it right!😉

Ines

So,she wouldn't be allowed to choose where she would have to study?

Wouldn't she accept to wear a chastity belt to be allowed to go studying in another city?It wouldn't be very good,as a sort of blackmailing her,but I think it is something your parents,or her,could suggest...

Angelina as far as i know, it's similar in germany. in the beginning, everybody studies together and after a few semesters, the students are divided into the different fields of study.

Similar in France.

HHelen

The purpose of the belt often apply during years in university,yes.

Ines

So 10 to 12 years of studying?

Ines

Vanessa So,she wouldn't be allowed to choose where she would have to study?

Well, more or less yes. My sister does not have exceptional marks, so, I think she would have to win her right to choose university. In our local University there are all the degrees, and it has good prestige in Spain.

Vanessa Wouldn't she accept to wear a chastity belt to be allowed to go studying in another city?It wouldn't be very good,as a sort of blackmailing her,but I think it is something your parents,or her,could suggest...

No. It is out of sight. A chastity belt far of key holder is harmful.
Can be some things that maybe she could do if she wear a belt, as go to a trip with friends or something similar, but link choosing of studies with a belt is even evil.

Angelina

Vanessa It can still be pleasant...

i like to believe that, but i have the suspicion that my girlfriend sees it differently 😂

Ines In our local University there are all the degrees, and it has good prestige in Spain.

well, i think it can even have advantages if she still lives at home. and if your local university is well respected, there is no real reason not to study there 🙂

Ines A chastity belt far of key holder is harmful.

I agree 100% with this 🙂

HHelen

Vanessa The purpose of the belt often apply during years in university,yes.

Every parent of a female student should think about it.

Ines In our local University there are all the degrees, and it has good prestige in Spain.

Are there colleges in your place in case if her grades are not good enough for the university?

Vanessa

Ines Well, more or less yes. My sister does not have exceptional marks, so, I think she would have to win her right to choose university. In our local University there are all the degrees, and it has good prestige in Spain.

If she gets better grades,she would have more freedom to choose?

Ines No. It is out of sight. A chastity belt far of key holder is harmful.

Right,I haven't thought about it.

Ines Can be some things that maybe she could do if she wear a belt, as go to a trip with friends or something similar, but link choosing of studies with a belt is even evil.

Yes,it is why I wrote it was not very good,as it would be very close to blackmailing her.

Laura

Ines A chastity belt far of key holder is harmful.

Agree. It would never work

Ines

Vanessa Yes,it is why I wrote it was not very good,as it would be very close to blackmailing her.

No, it is not blackmail at all.
There are things that a girl without safety should not do.

Vanessa If she gets better grades,she would have more freedom to choose?

Yes. Main drawback is that she is choosing her studies way in depends of less exigent subjects.

Vanessa

Angelina i like to believe that, but i have the suspicion that my girlfriend sees it differently 😂

Of course,it should not be done if in a relationship.

HHelen Every parent of a female student should think about it.

Generally,they take care of it by telling her several times about condoms,birthcontrol pills,and the risk of becoming pregnant before the end of her studies,STD,the image she can give of herself if she have sex too easily,etc...Instead of using a chastity belt.

Renita Everybody sees, she doesn't like your family's rules and tries to avoid chastity belt this way.

No,she would not have to wear it if she doesn't agree.

But an university where she would have to live alone,in her own studio,would mean it would be easier to go partying,to drink a bit more than allowed,to spend the night with a man(or a woman),etc...If she lives in her parents house,there would probably be more control,and she would not do it so easily.

Ines

HHelen Are there colleges in your place in case if her grades are not good enough for the university?

I can not understand, Helen.
What is the difference?
Here, at the end, high school marks and an access exam, determine your choose.
So, better degrees in better universities are run chosen t the first.

Angelina

Ines

i don't understand the difference either, it's the same with us. probably an american thing

HHelen

Ines What is the difference?

Some colleges may have lower requirements than universities.

Ines So, better degrees in better universities are run chosen t the first.

If she can enter the local university, if not, she can try something else, but still local.

Ines

HHelen

HHelen If she can enter the local university, if not, she can try something else, but still local.

Yes. In fact always remains vacancies in the less demanded degrees. Usually, the problem is not the university, but the degree.

Angelina

HHelen Some colleges may have lower requirements than universities.

with us this is called "Fachhochschule"

Ines Nobody sees it! Only she does

she seems to be a rebel 😉

Katie

can you write again what you are studying ? otherwise it seems to be going quite well at the moment 🙂

Vanessa Close to blackmailing her a bit,but it can be a deal,if she agrees to it.

well i would do it a little bit differently. i would have long conversations with her and explain to her how important it is that she concentrates on her studies. and then maybe say that the belt could help, but rather than offer 🙂

Laura

Ines Usually, the problem is not the university, but the degree.

Then I don't see a reason why you sister can't got to a local university.

Ines

Laura
Nobody sees it! Only she does

Renita

Ines Nobody sees it!

Everybody sees, she doesn't like your family's rules and tries to avoid chastity belt this way.

Ines

Renita
She does need do it.
I think she wants more parties than good university 😂.

And, even is not dangerous, business in this time are not going as well as usual, so, if my parents can save some money if she studies in local university, it is better.

Renita she doesn't like your family's rules and tries to avoid chastity belt this way.

No, she does not like anyone rules! She is very anarchic.

Laura

Ines I think she wants more parties than good university

Then she will be less motivated to study

Renita

Ines No, she does not like anyone rules! She is very anarchic.

Including university's rules, I guess.

Ines if my parents can save some money if she studies in local university, it is better.

If she goes to an university in another city, it will be waste of money.

Vanessa No,she would not have to wear it if she doesn't agree.

No belt, no party.

HHelen

Vanessa Generally,they take care of it by telling her several times about condoms,birthcontrol pills,and the risk of becoming pregnant before the end of her studies,STD,the image she can give of herself if she have sex too easily,etc...Instead of using a chastity belt.

You are talking the birth control only, but she should concentrate on learning instead sex.

Vanessa

Laura

Right.

Renita

Close to blackmailing her a bit,but it can be a deal,if she agrees to it.

I personally prefer to add freedom if wearing it than restricting freedom if not wearing it.Like "belt on,later curfew".

HHelen

Yes,if the problem is she thinks more about sex than studying,it is different;but it can be included in such talks too.

Katie

Because you may fail,or because it is a rule you have now?

Such troubles are related to your wearing of chastity belt?Having only "A"(best grade,I guess)seems very hard!

Christine

I'm wondering how @Katie 's college is going along.

Katie

Christine it’s all virtual this year. So far so good though. Some classes are really hard like chemistry. I will be in trouble if I don’t get 4.0 (all A’s)

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