suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Angelina

very irresponsible, even if you are an adult, there can be big social problems for your parents if certain people find out, so the parents (the key holders) should always know who knows about the belt

Vanessa

Angelina if it is not yet real love, she should not show the belt yet 😉

But,as I said,it is hard to conceal it for a long time...

Angelina well then the goal would change, there is no real permanent wearing (and that was her own goal) 🙂

However,she was worried about permanent chastity.And didn't want to lose completely any possibility of orgasm.

Angelina then i can understand why he was not happy about the belt 😉

😉

HHelen Not sure why should I know it as long as it stays in place.

It is better not too much people know it,it could spread and embarrass her.

HHelen I was not even supposed to know about this relationship.

She didn't tell you about it?And now you know it,have you discussed together about this subject?

Anyway,it is your choice to make her wear a chastity belt and you're her keyholder,so I think you should care about how it affects her life(and it includes any relationship she has)

Christine Why not?

As there is less "benefits" for him too!😉

Angelina you should be a role model for your daughter and not do the same 😉

And wear a chastity belt too! 😉

Angelina it's nice when former couples stay friends 🙂

Not common,but nice,yes.

Angelina @Vanessa thinks of friendship+ 😉

Yes.😉

Angelina

@Laura can easily say it is her choice(and @HHelen's daughter too).Or a game with a lover.

Angelina

Vanessa But,as I said,it is hard to conceal it for a long time...

not if we just want to have sex with someone we really love and then we can show the belt to that person 🙂

Vanessa However,she was worried about permanent chastity.And didn't want to lose completely any possibility of orgasm.

the question is what is her decision a chastity belt or a abstinence belt

Vanessa @Laura can easily say it is her choice(and @HHelen's daughter too).Or a game with a lover.

I assumed they were telling the truth, but that's one way around it. 😉

Christine

Vanessa As there is less "benefits" for him too!

He wouldn't have these "benefits" even if I didn't wear the belt.

HHelen

Angelina therwise you and your daughter could get into unpleasant situations

Like what?

Vanessa And now you know it,have you discussed together about this subject?

I think there is nothing to discuss yet.

Vanessa

Angelina not if we just want to have sex with someone we really love and then we can show the belt to that person 🙂

But we should wait until this person is in love too.

Angelina the question is what is her decision a chastity belt or a abstinence belt

It seems,based on her posts,it is going to be a chastity belt,with release as rewards.

Angelina I assumed they were telling the truth, but that's one way around it. 😉

Of course,for telling the truth,we must be very careful.

Christine

So,it shouldn't have been a problem for him.

Angelina

Maybe @Christine's decision have been different or change after some time,if not in a chastity belt !😉

Angelina

Christine

if it is really "only" a friendship, it is the right decision no matter if with or without the belt 🙂

Christine

Angelina if it is really "only" a friendship, it is the right decision no matter if with or without the belt

But he has a different opinion, I suppose.

Angelina

Vanessa But we should wait until this person is in love too.

that's right, we shouldn't start an "official" relationship before that either

Vanessa be a chastity belt,with release as rewards.

I have to admit it's not a bad system for improving behavior.

Vanessa Maybe @Christine's decision have been different or change after some time,if not in a chastity belt !😉

I don't think she'll change her mind as long as she wears the belt 😂

HHelen Like what?

so it is completely normal for you to say in public that my daughter wears a chastity belt and I have the keys or how should I understand that?

Vanessa

HHelen I think there is nothing to discuss yet.

Since how long they date,if they're in love,how she plan to tell him about her chastity belt,etc...

Vanessa

Angelina that's right, we shouldn't start an "official" relationship before that either

And hide our devices until it.

Angelina I have to admit it's not a bad system for improving behavior.

Yes,and it would make it easier for her.

Angelina I don't think she'll change her mind as long as she wears the belt 😂

Sure!😉

Angelina so it is completely normal for you to say in public that my daughter wears a chastity belt and I have the keys or how should I understand that?

If it is known/shown in public,people would probably think badly of @HHelen,especially of it is clear her daughter can't take it off herself...

Christine

You may know it if you live on your own,without the belt and the two of you are still single.In this situation,he may not take long before talking to you about "friends with benefits",if he wants it.

Angelina

It's what I understand too.

And maybe he would have been able to convince @Christine there would be advantage of it,but now,it's useless...

HHelen

Angelina so it is completely normal for you to say in public that my daughter wears a chastity belt and I have the keys or how should I understand that?

Not in public, but to her boyfriend, yes.

Angelina

Christine

Just so I understand, you just want a friendship, he'd rather would have a friendship+ ?

Christine

Angelina Just so I understand, you just want a friendship, he'd rather would have a friendship+ ?

Correct.

Vanessa In this situation,he may not take long before talking to you about "friends with benefits",if he wants it.

Probably. However it's a little more complicated.

Angelina

Vanessa If it is known/shown in public,people would probably think badly of @HHelen,especially of it is clear her daughter can't take it off herself...

this is exactly what I mean, so I don't think she is responsible enough (even her daughter is 18)

Vanessa but now,it's useless...

the question is weir more under the belt suffers @Christine or her friend 😂

Angelina

Christine

then just a friendship, unfortunately could become very difficult (my opinion) 🙁

Vanessa

Christine Probably. However it's a little more complicated.

You would have to take a decision,when your belt would be off,so.But if you would be in a relationship with someone else, it would probably solve the problem before it happens.

Angelina

I think so,too.For now,it is not truly a problem(even if the belt doesn't prevent everything sexual),but after...

HHelen

It would be disastrous for them;she should be the one who tell him about it first.Even if he may want you to confirm after,she should be allowed to tell it to him herself,when she's ready for it.

Angelina

HHelen Not in public, but to her boyfriend, yes.

but in this situation, you know that your daughter's boyfriend knows about the belt

But I mean that in general, do you talk to your daughter about who she tells about the belt?

Angelina

Vanessa (even if the belt doesn't prevent everything sexual)

You have really dirty thoughts. 😉

Vanessa It would be disastrous for them;she should be the one who tell him about it first.Even if he may want you to confirm after,she should be allowed to tell it to him herself,when she's ready for it.

exactly it's better if she tells him than if he finds out by accident

HHelen

Vanessa she should be the one who tell him about it first

I want to meet him first to see what is he and, depending on conversation, make my position.

HHelen

Vanessa but you should not tell him about your daughter's chastity devices

I think it's easier to clarify the situation from the beginning.

Vanessa f he may want you to confirm after,she should be allowed to tell it to him herself,when she's ready for it.

She might be too shy.

Christine Hopefully it will not happen to me, because it's shameful.

You are around 25. It's different.

Angelina but you should still let your daughter decide when to tell him about the belt

I will ask what she prefers.

Vanessa

Angelina You have really dirty thoughts. 😉

As I said in another topic,necessary to still be able to have some sex with a boyfriend/girlfriend,when in a chastity belt! 😉

HHelen

It is good you want to meet him;but you should not tell him about your daughter's chastity devices.Maybe you should discuss with your daughter first and if she's ready to tell him,that,after you meet him,you would only say "my daughter has something to tell you.",then leave,and let her explain it to him.

Christine

I agree,I would have hated if my parent have explained it to a boyfriend/girlfriend,instead of letting me do it(or hide it).

Christine

HHelen I want to meet him first to see what is he and, depending on conversation, make my position.

Hopefully it will not happen to me, because it's shameful.

Angelina

HHelen I want to meet him first to see what is he and, depending on conversation, make my position.

That's a good idea. do you think you'll meet him soon? but you should still let your daughter decide when to tell him about the belt

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