suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Angelina

HHelen Not in public, but to her boyfriend, yes.

but in this situation, you know that your daughter's boyfriend knows about the belt

But I mean that in general, do you talk to your daughter about who she tells about the belt?

Vanessa

Christine Probably. However it's a little more complicated.

You would have to take a decision,when your belt would be off,so.But if you would be in a relationship with someone else, it would probably solve the problem before it happens.

Angelina

I think so,too.For now,it is not truly a problem(even if the belt doesn't prevent everything sexual),but after...

HHelen

It would be disastrous for them;she should be the one who tell him about it first.Even if he may want you to confirm after,she should be allowed to tell it to him herself,when she's ready for it.

Angelina

Vanessa (even if the belt doesn't prevent everything sexual)

You have really dirty thoughts. 😉

Vanessa It would be disastrous for them;she should be the one who tell him about it first.Even if he may want you to confirm after,she should be allowed to tell it to him herself,when she's ready for it.

exactly it's better if she tells him than if he finds out by accident

HHelen

Vanessa she should be the one who tell him about it first

I want to meet him first to see what is he and, depending on conversation, make my position.

HHelen

Vanessa but you should not tell him about your daughter's chastity devices

I think it's easier to clarify the situation from the beginning.

Vanessa f he may want you to confirm after,she should be allowed to tell it to him herself,when she's ready for it.

She might be too shy.

Christine Hopefully it will not happen to me, because it's shameful.

You are around 25. It's different.

Angelina but you should still let your daughter decide when to tell him about the belt

I will ask what she prefers.

Vanessa

Angelina You have really dirty thoughts. 😉

As I said in another topic,necessary to still be able to have some sex with a boyfriend/girlfriend,when in a chastity belt! 😉

HHelen

It is good you want to meet him;but you should not tell him about your daughter's chastity devices.Maybe you should discuss with your daughter first and if she's ready to tell him,that,after you meet him,you would only say "my daughter has something to tell you.",then leave,and let her explain it to him.

Christine

I agree,I would have hated if my parent have explained it to a boyfriend/girlfriend,instead of letting me do it(or hide it).

Christine

HHelen I want to meet him first to see what is he and, depending on conversation, make my position.

Hopefully it will not happen to me, because it's shameful.

Angelina

HHelen I want to meet him first to see what is he and, depending on conversation, make my position.

That's a good idea. do you think you'll meet him soon? but you should still let your daughter decide when to tell him about the belt

Angelina

Vanessa then leave,and let her explain it to him.

right, that's a good idea 🙂

Vanessa I agree,I would have hated if my parent have explained it to a boyfriend/girlfriend,instead of letting me do it(or hide it).

well my dad didn't tell it to my girlfriend, but it was a condition that i tell her so we could date

Vanessa

Angelina well my dad didn't tell it to my girlfriend, but it was a condition that i tell her so we could date

Not easy,but understandable,and he let you do it.And in your case,it meant he would change the no-dating rule,too,hardest situation.

HHelen I think it's easier to clarify the situation from the beginning.

But it should be her who do it.

HHelen She might be too shy.

In this case,she should ask you to tell it to him.

HHelen I will ask what she prefers.

Good.

Sara2001

The second time she meet him,it is a bit soon.

Christine it would be shameful even at 18.

I agree.

Angelina

I think too maturity depend,at least partly,to how she was raised.

Sara2001

HHelen I think it's easier to clarify the situation from the beginning.

I think it would be better if you tell her that she has to explain it to him or you will do it the second time you see him. So you would be sure it is done but she can tell him this very private secret. I think it would be better for all 3 of you.

Christine

HHelen You are around 25. It's different.

it would be shameful even at 18.

Angelina

HHelen I think it's easier to clarify the situation from the beginning.

that's true, but it should be your daughter's decision

HHelen She might be too shy.

but this is not your problem, if the relationship gets serious, sooner or later she will have to tell

HHelen You are around 25. It's different.

where is the difference between 18 and 25?

Sara2001

a good idea, but i'd rather say after the third or fourth date 🙂

Sarah

Angelina why is age so important, attitude, maturity and stages of life mean more, some 18 year olds are very mature, I have a 30 year old that is very immature, in her case physical years don't relate to maturity or responsibility 😊

Angelina

Sarah

but between 18 and 25 there are generally no big differences, this is at least my experience. in both ages young women can be rather childish or already very grown up

Laura

Sarah some 18 year olds are very mature, I have a 30 year old that is very immature

That's the reason of marriage. A girl must be socially mature for it

Sarah

Laura yes, exactly and some are never going to be ready

Angelina

Sarah some are never going to be ready

but it is also your task to make your daughter mature enough for it 😉

Sarah

Angelina yes, if it is possible

HHelen

Vanessa In this case,she should ask you to tell it to him.

I'm not going to tell without her permission.

Sara2001

Vanessa The second time she meet him,it is a bit soon.

I mean the second serious date, maybe the third, at least a date in the early stage of the relationship.

Angelina

Vanessa hardest situation.

probably the hardest in my life, but it worked 🙂

Vanessa I think too maturity depend,at least partly,to how she was raised.

I think so, too, and it's the parents' responsibility

HHelen I'm not going to tell without her permission.

good decision 🙂

Laura

HHelen Have you tried the secondary shield yet?

Vanessa

HHelen I'm not going to tell without her permission.

So that's ok.

Sara2001 I mean the second serious date, maybe the third, at least a date in the early stage of the relationship.

Why early?

Angelina probably the hardest in my life, but it worked 🙂

It is never easy to tell it...

HHelen Thank you for reminding. Will try for a full day tomorrow.

Any reason for trying it now?Does she already know what wearing it would mean(especially what "possibilities" she would lose with it on)?

Do you plan to try it only or to start a training before it would be put on permanently?

Tobbe

I strongly doubt it...

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