suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Angelina

Vanessa then leave,and let her explain it to him.

right, that's a good idea 🙂

Vanessa I agree,I would have hated if my parent have explained it to a boyfriend/girlfriend,instead of letting me do it(or hide it).

well my dad didn't tell it to my girlfriend, but it was a condition that i tell her so we could date

Vanessa

Angelina well my dad didn't tell it to my girlfriend, but it was a condition that i tell her so we could date

Not easy,but understandable,and he let you do it.And in your case,it meant he would change the no-dating rule,too,hardest situation.

HHelen I think it's easier to clarify the situation from the beginning.

But it should be her who do it.

HHelen She might be too shy.

In this case,she should ask you to tell it to him.

HHelen I will ask what she prefers.

Good.

Sara2001

The second time she meet him,it is a bit soon.

Christine it would be shameful even at 18.

I agree.

Angelina

I think too maturity depend,at least partly,to how she was raised.

HHelen

Vanessa but you should not tell him about your daughter's chastity devices

I think it's easier to clarify the situation from the beginning.

Vanessa f he may want you to confirm after,she should be allowed to tell it to him herself,when she's ready for it.

She might be too shy.

Christine Hopefully it will not happen to me, because it's shameful.

You are around 25. It's different.

Angelina but you should still let your daughter decide when to tell him about the belt

I will ask what she prefers.

Sara2001

HHelen I think it's easier to clarify the situation from the beginning.

I think it would be better if you tell her that she has to explain it to him or you will do it the second time you see him. So you would be sure it is done but she can tell him this very private secret. I think it would be better for all 3 of you.

Christine

HHelen You are around 25. It's different.

it would be shameful even at 18.

Angelina

HHelen I think it's easier to clarify the situation from the beginning.

that's true, but it should be your daughter's decision

HHelen She might be too shy.

but this is not your problem, if the relationship gets serious, sooner or later she will have to tell

HHelen You are around 25. It's different.

where is the difference between 18 and 25?

Sara2001

a good idea, but i'd rather say after the third or fourth date 🙂

Sarah

Angelina why is age so important, attitude, maturity and stages of life mean more, some 18 year olds are very mature, I have a 30 year old that is very immature, in her case physical years don't relate to maturity or responsibility 😊

Angelina

Sarah

but between 18 and 25 there are generally no big differences, this is at least my experience. in both ages young women can be rather childish or already very grown up

Laura

Sarah some 18 year olds are very mature, I have a 30 year old that is very immature

That's the reason of marriage. A girl must be socially mature for it

Sarah

Laura yes, exactly and some are never going to be ready

Angelina

Sarah some are never going to be ready

but it is also your task to make your daughter mature enough for it 😉

Sarah

Angelina yes, if it is possible

HHelen

Vanessa In this case,she should ask you to tell it to him.

I'm not going to tell without her permission.

Sara2001

Vanessa The second time she meet him,it is a bit soon.

I mean the second serious date, maybe the third, at least a date in the early stage of the relationship.

Angelina

Vanessa hardest situation.

probably the hardest in my life, but it worked 🙂

Vanessa I think too maturity depend,at least partly,to how she was raised.

I think so, too, and it's the parents' responsibility

HHelen I'm not going to tell without her permission.

good decision 🙂

Laura

HHelen Have you tried the secondary shield yet?

Vanessa

HHelen I'm not going to tell without her permission.

So that's ok.

Sara2001 I mean the second serious date, maybe the third, at least a date in the early stage of the relationship.

Why early?

Angelina probably the hardest in my life, but it worked 🙂

It is never easy to tell it...

HHelen Thank you for reminding. Will try for a full day tomorrow.

Any reason for trying it now?Does she already know what wearing it would mean(especially what "possibilities" she would lose with it on)?

Do you plan to try it only or to start a training before it would be put on permanently?

Tobbe

I strongly doubt it...

HHelen

Laura Have you tried the secondary shield yet?

Thank you for reminding. Will try for a full day tomorrow.

Tobbe

HHelen I think she will appreciate the benefits of a second shield.

Angelina

HHelen Thank you for reminding. Will try for a full day tomorrow.

I'm curious what your daughter thinks about this.

Tobbe I think she will appreciate the benefits of a second shield.

It might be more comfortable for her to wear, but I don't think she'll like it.

HHelen

Tobbe I think she will appreciate the benefits of a second shield.

She prefers to have it off.

Angelina I'm curious what your daughter thinks about this.

She knows it's training only.

Vanessa Any reason for trying it now?

Yes, because time to go out.

Vanessa Do you plan to try it only or to start a training before it would be put on permanently?

I don't pan to put it on permanently.

Angelina i'm starting to get the feeling that @HHelen is not telling the whole truth, i think she makes things more nice than they are.

Of course I don't tell irrelevant things in the middle.

Angelina f not, her daughter is quite naive

She is not naive, but realistic.

Angelina

Vanessa Any reason for trying it now?Does she already know what wearing it would mean(especially what "possibilities" she would lose with it on)?

Do you plan to try it only or to start a training before it would be put on permanently?

i'm starting to get the feeling that @HHelen is not telling the whole truth, i think she makes things more nice than they are. if not, her daughter is quite naive

Sara2001

Vanessa I think early is better, because it would be hard to invest so much hope and emotions and then having trouble because of the belt.

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