suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Ines

shinydiamond77
With such belt, then, you do not achieve that goal. I thought you were only against sex.

Angelina

Ines

as far as i know, the goal has been achieved so far, although it surprises me very much

Laura She could take a picture and look at it 😂

🤣

shinydiamond77

looking is not touching 😉

Laura

shinydiamond77 and that she can't look there unless it's actually necessary.

What does it mean?

shinydiamond77

Laura What does it mean?

The shield covers the parts so that it's impossible to see them (the shield grating is too dark to see anything through it), which means she can't look at her parts whenever she wants, only when the belt is off.

alberto in my opinion is a bit too much, although it can help her focus in important things i think that is natural that she is allowed some private time with her body not always but sometimes

Apart from toilet or period needs, at her age doing anything else with private parts shouldn't be an option for her.

alberto

Renita i hope you can get the key for the secondary shield in the future so you can follow your original plan

Ines Angelina Yes we will keep it, if we change something she has to agree the changes or not possible to make them

HHelen Thanks for your input Helen, we havent talked about the secondary shield with her yet, so if she manage to use the toilet with it on she will not need the key for it. I hope she get used to the belt like your daughter has, do you remove the belt sometimes when she is at home or only the secondary shield?

shinydiamond77 in my opinion is a bit too much, although it can help her focus in important things i think that is natural that she is allowed some private time with her body not always but sometimes

Renita

alberto i hope you can get the key for the secondary shield in the future so you can follow your original plan

No, it is completely out of the question. I might replace to long shield instead.

HHelen

Angelina but nobody gets pregnant from oral sex

It's shameful.

alberto do you remove the belt sometimes when she is at home or only the secondary shield?

No, her belts always stays one, I only take the secondary shield off.

Vanessa

alberto she must try wearing it a lot of times slowly we will not be rushing it and then she must decide if she can manage wearing it and agrees then she cant stop wearing until our deal ends or we all agree to stop.

Good way to start the training,and to let her decide after.

But what if she agrees,then want to stop and you don't agree?

Ines say it openly from first moment.

I agree.If they say it is only to prevent sex,and when she agreed,they add it would prevent her to masturbate too,she would be more likely to hate the belt and be very angry.

Angelina if the belt is removed for masturbation breaks, it can be used as a abstinence belt

Right.But,in this case,it is the case for every chastity belt.

alberto the secondary shield we dont talked her about it so maybe we can keep it on if toilet is not an issue.

You should discuss it with her.It is what makes an abstinence belt a chastity belt,and impact her use of toilets too.

alberto she will not be able to wear some clothes.

Right,she would have to wear ones hiding her chastity belt.

Renita That was my original plan.

But it doesn't turned this way...

Angelina . i think it is quite feasible and sufficient for your goals 🙂

I think so,too.

HHelen Well, it moves slowly.

She agrees to masturbate less?And willingly?

HHelen This is a bad decision. Oral sex also must be prevented.

It is less risked than classical sex.No risk to get pregnant,no breaking the hymen,and less risk to get STD.And easier for the wearer to accept it.

alberto es we will keep it, if we change something she has to agree the changes or not possible to make them

Good.

Renita

Sorry for you.

HHelen It's shameful.

But pleasant!😉

Laura

Probably!

Laura

shinydiamond77 which means she can't look at her parts whenever she wants,

But what's wrong with it? She could take a picture and look at it 😂

shinydiamond77

Laura But what's wrong with it? She could take a picture and look at it 😂

Sure, and I'd be fine with her doing that. But she shouldn't have the option to pull down the front of her shorts and look at her private area just anytime whenever she wants to look at it.

shinydiamond77

Angelina looking is not touching 😉

It's okay if she looks there while, for example, she's showering without the belt - it's necessary for cleaning. But when she's home by herself, she shouldn't be able to look at her private area whenever just because she wants to, without an actual reason.

Angelina

HHelen It's shameful.

in some families yes, in some no

Ines

Angelina
In this, I agree with @HHelen , for me, is too a shame.
A unwed girl does not need that.
I respect every family approach, but, obviously, it is not my way.

Angelina

Ines

well, i admit in my family it would be a shame too. i think in most families here in the forum because we are all rather conservative. i just want to say that it is not like that everywhere

HHelen

Ines In this, I agree with @HHelen , for me, is too a shame.

Especially if she is known by doing it.

Vanessa She agrees to masturbate less?

She agrees to have the secondary shield more time.

Renita She has confiscated this key initially

I would be more surprised if she didn't do it.

Laura

Angelina i just want to say that it is not like that everywhere

Those people don't use chastity belts either 😂

Angelina

Laura Those people don't use chastity belts either 😂

probably 🤣

Sara2001

Angelina We have written about it in another topic, would this be a possible solution?

Not if they are not secure. 🙁

Tobbe

[deleted] would the long shield be a change in security or convenience for you vs the short shield?

Long or short shield is the same security when locked.
Long shield must be opened with the main lock in the waist band.
Smoother crotch area as there is no lock.

Short shield can be opened with a separate lock and key.
Give a small bulging in the crotch area.

Tobbe

[deleted] Barely noticeable higher weight on models with short shield, as it has an extra padlock.
The long model, on the other hand, has a bit more metal.

Renita

[deleted] Have you talked with your mother about it?

She has confiscated this key initially 😃

[deleted] And would the long shield be a change in security or convenience for you vs the short shield?

Smoother outline.

Vanessa

[deleted] Yes I think that is right, there should be no surprises. Allow her in her own mind to judge fully what she gives up and what she gains in this bargain and only if you all agree can you make changes to the agreement. You seem to have a fair approach to this but be vigilant to her state of mind through this, if you notice that she is going through real suffering you must be responsible and offer a way out.

I agree.

Renita She has confiscated this key initially 😃

Unexpected?

HHelen Especially if she is known by doing it.

Only her boyfriend should know it.

HHelen She agrees to have the secondary shield more time.

Any compensation for it?

I'm surprised she accept it if she has no "reward" for accepting it.

HHelen I would be more surprised if she didn't do it.

Yes,it seems logical in her case.

Ines Take time to think about the point, and do not try to cheat, nor yourself if you think that masturbation is not correct, nor your girl if you say her that she would wear an abstinence belt for a few hours.

Yes,he should tell her the truth and not change his mind when she wears it.

alberto she will not wear the belt at home so even if we keep the secondary shield on it will be an abstinence belt i think.

Yes,this way,it can be considered as an abstinence belt.

Ines

I think so,too.

Angelina under these conditions i can also be happy about a belt 🙂

Even with these conditions,I don't think I could say I'm "happy" to wear a belt...😉

Angelina

HHelen Especially if she is known by doing it.

it should also only be used in permanent relationships

Ines As general rule I think is no common that the girls hold the key of secondary shield.

even if it is "only" an abstinence belt?

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