suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

alberto

Finally we got the belt. i have inspected it and i am very pleased with the quality of neosteel, no sharp edges and silicone liner properly mounted. Also very safe, 1.5mm thickness stainless steel strong guide pins avoid the shield from moving to the sides. the padlocks are quite big a good advantage in security but a bit bulky as downside also they are protected against bolt cutters by the circle of the lock. we ordered adjustable ergo waistband, it has many holes so you can make the waistband a bit bigger or a bit smaller. the shield band is not adjustable hope it fits well, tonight my wife will try it on our daughter. she already practice a bit locking and unlocking the padlocks. she presented it on her but it is too small for her

Tobbe

alberto she presented it on her but it is too small for her

Is the belt to small, or missing text in post???

Ines

alberto
For sure it will be good belt.
If measures were rightly done all will be right.
About size, two considerations, a chastity belt is tight but it is not a excruciating, so do not worry if you see it a bit small, but be aware if it is bitting the flesh, then it is so much tight.

I hope it will be a tool to make happier your family.

Angelina

alberto

thanks for the experience report

do you have a specific "training plan" so that you can see how the belt works and if your daughter gets used to it?

alberto

maybe now would be a good time for your daughter also to register here in the forum, she will surely have some problems in the beginning, because it is very unfamiliar and I think maybe we could help her 😉

Vanessa

Angelina exactly, she should do her tasks and get a release as a reward

Yes,it could be a good way.

HHelen

You make it harder for you than for your daughter.Hoping she would decide to give up her nights without the secondary shield?

alberto

Even if I've a My-Steel one,personally,I've often read that Neosteel is a very good brand too.Not too uncomfortable,and very secure.

It would need some choice of clothes from your daughter to be able to hide it well.

Ines I hope it will be a tool to make happier your family.

Even if she's more or less willing(the rewards for accepting it seem to have play an important part in her decision),there would be time she would not be very happy to have it on,I think.

alberto sorry my english is not very good

Don't worry,it is easy to understand you.

alberto on our daughter she said that it feels a bit tight but it is acceptable. she said it is not too uncomfortable

Good that it is not too hard for her to wear it,and it seems you haven't much troubles to make it fit her well.

Tobbe Do not force the time she wear it!

I agree,the training is important.

Angelina do you have a specific "training plan" so that you can see how the belt works and if your daughter gets used to it?

Good question.

Angelina it is very unfamiliar and I think maybe we could help her 😉

It is possible,yes.Even if,in her case,it is more willingly than for several of us.

Laura

Tobbe Is the belt to small,

I think he means, daughter's belt is too small for his wife

alberto

Tobbe

Laura

Ines

yes as laura said, it is too small for my wife, sorry my english is not very good. on our daughter she said that it feels a bit tight but it is acceptable. she said it is not too unconfortable, sitting on a hard surface is a problem but soft it is ok. she weared it about half hour and seems ok. tomorrow as my wife will be at home early she will put it on her and try it more for possible problems

Tobbe

alberto Your English is good enough. If we do not understand, we will ask and you may explain as you have done now.
Do not force the time she wear it!
One more hour each day, works fine, if she not get any redness. Then you take it off and make small adjustment, there it is red on her skin. Only very small adjustments, to not make the belt press on another part on her skin.
The belt must be tight to not get any chafe. It is like shoes. You not want to have to large, if you must go a long way.

Ines

alberto

alberto daughter she said that it feels a bit tight but it is acceptable.

It is the normal. If it is rightly fitted, she will ignore it in some time.
About hard surfaces... I guess it can depends a bit on the rear of belt, but however in some postures even the shield part can disturb a bit. (Some pinches can occur too).

alberto

Thank you all for your advices. yesterday she weared it about an hour and half, i will translate what her mother said: she said that it feels a bit tight but is acceptable for the moment, sitting for long periods worries her, clothes also, skirts seems to be the best way to hide the belt specially the main padlock is quite noticeable on tight clothes, her mother applied some talcum powder on the insides of the belt before fitting she thinks it may help with skin what do you think about it?

Tobbe
Ines
Thanks for the info, my wife said that they was a minor pressure mark like when wearing tight clothes but mainly evenly distributed and they went away in short period after the belt was removed, this time she put the waistband in the middle becouse it was on the widest position and it was a bit loose but no major changes. no big pinches yet but still is to early to tell

Angelina
Vanessa
Thanks for your input, we havent a specific training plan, the idea is that she wears a bit more time slowly so she can get used to it, also se if any proublem appear

Angelina

Vanessa You make it harder for you than for your daughter.Hoping she would decide to give up her nights without the secondary shield?

maybe the daughter would accept the deal if she had access to the keys, if then equal rights for all

Vanessa ,there would be time she would not be very happy to have it on,I think.

as I hear here it is the same with all volunteers, but I think it depends on the overall result

alberto

thanks for the new information, it sounds quite good so far, i think that with her probably no big training is necessary, because she has enough breaks from her belt. i think the most important thing is that your daughter is ready to follow the steps and that you support her

HHelen

Vanessa You make it harder for you than for your daughter

That's what a chastity belt is for.

Vanessa Hoping she would decide to give up her nights without the secondary shield?

Exactly. I hope for her conscience.

Ines

alberto the main padlock is quite noticeable on tight clothes

Well, if clothes are so tight yes, obvious, but in normal tightened clothes is noticeable for her that knows that is there, not for the rest.

alberto she thinks it may help with skin what do you think about it?

Yes. And after clean too.

Vanessa

alberto the main padlock is quite noticeable on tight clothes

Right,not possible to wear tight clothes while wearing a chastity belt.

alberto Thanks for your input, we havent a specific training plan, the idea is that she wears a bit more time slowly so she can get used to it, also se if any proublem appear

A good way to do it.

Angelina maybe the daughter would accept the deal if she had access to the keys, if then equal rights for all

I doubt it.I think she would prefer to have the secondary shield off at night,than having a chastity belt with her keys,which she's not supposed to use.

Angelina I hear here it is the same with all volunteers

It seems,yes.

HHelen That's what a chastity belt is for.

Yes,but she wears an abstinence belt,very different.

HHelen Exactly. I hope for her conscience.

Not surprising,but I doubt she would decide that.

Angelina because only then would it make sense that you make your own rules stricter for yourself than for your daughter

It seems she hoped from the start her daughter would finally ask for it(or at least accept it)to be a chastity belt instead of an abstinence belt.

alberto she has to test going to the bathroom with the belt on

An important step,which can take some time to manage well.

Angelina

HHelen That's what a chastity belt is for.

so you bought the chastity belt for yourself to really use it as a chastity belt while your daughter uses it only as a abstinence belt ?

Ines

@alberto
How is adapting our Argentinian girl to her belt? It is going fine?

alberto

Ines Yesterday she weared for about two hours with no issues, my wife said that she told her that in some positions it feels odd becouse her labia touch the secondary shield also a bit more pressure from the sides of the slit on the shield but is not uncomfortable and the rear band she is not used to it yet. she wanted to keep wearing the belt for more time but it was getting late so my wife removed it. today we have a family dinner so tomorrow will resume her adaptation. also she has to test going to the bathroom with the belt on

HHelen i think it is a good idea, that way you can test aspects about the belt so you can understand/help your daughter better.

HHelen

Angelina so you bought the chastity belt for yourself to really use it as a chastity belt

I bought it to see how it's supposed to work.

Angelina while your daughter uses it only as a abstinence belt

Yes, for virginity.

Angelina

HHelen I bought it to see how it's supposed to work.

so also how it should work with your daughter (in the idial case) ?

because only then would it make sense that you make your own rules stricter for yourself than for your daughter

Fatherof3

Angelina

HHelen
This is how i think it should be when considering chastising a son or daughter. Either it be "Ill get one if you get one" or get one for yourself first. Then consider. That way you can answer honestly about any questions they might have and help them be more confident in making a thoughtful/well-rounded decision with you.

Ines

alberto she wanted to keep wearing the belt for more time but it was getting late so my wife removed it

Congratulations for 2 reason, firstly for the spirit of your girl, soon she will be a proud wearer, and secondly for your smart and wise wife.
It is not necessary to run.

alberto also she has to test going to the bathroom with the belt on

The most important thing... And please do not mind I am gross, she should not let go... She has to learn to urinate slowly, and clean herself with a syringe or similar.

Angelina

alberto

thanks for the update 🙂
i'm glad to hear that it works well for you, which is probably also due to the fact that you are taking it slowly.
the toilet will be a new challenge again, she should practice it often before she wears the belt outside the house

Vanessa I doubt it.I think she would prefer to have the secondary shield off at night,than having a chastity belt with her keys,which she's not supposed to use.

i think in the beginning the one will not exclude the other, but with time this could change 😉

Vanessa It seems she hoped from the start her daughter would finally ask for it(or at least accept it)to be a chastity belt instead of an abstinence belt.

that's what i think now, the abstinence belt was probably only meant to make it "palatable" to her daughter

HHelen

alberto i think it is a good idea, that way you can test aspects about the belt so you can understand/help your daughter better.

I would recommend it to everybody.

Vanessa Yes,but she wears an abstinence belt,very different.

She has less strict regime, that's all.

alberto

Ines Angelina Vanessa
I have been busy a lot of work last days, my wife keep putting the belt on our daughter she is getting more used now she have weared for periods of about six hours. she tried going to the bathroom with the belt on she said that pee overflowed under the shield but it was ok if she clenead on the bidet then use dryer. for another try my wife removed the secondary shield and she said that leaning forward without the shield was much better

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