suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

alberto

Thank you all for your advices. yesterday she weared it about an hour and half, i will translate what her mother said: she said that it feels a bit tight but is acceptable for the moment, sitting for long periods worries her, clothes also, skirts seems to be the best way to hide the belt specially the main padlock is quite noticeable on tight clothes, her mother applied some talcum powder on the insides of the belt before fitting she thinks it may help with skin what do you think about it?

Tobbe
Ines
Thanks for the info, my wife said that they was a minor pressure mark like when wearing tight clothes but mainly evenly distributed and they went away in short period after the belt was removed, this time she put the waistband in the middle becouse it was on the widest position and it was a bit loose but no major changes. no big pinches yet but still is to early to tell

Angelina
Vanessa
Thanks for your input, we havent a specific training plan, the idea is that she wears a bit more time slowly so she can get used to it, also se if any proublem appear

Angelina

Vanessa You make it harder for you than for your daughter.Hoping she would decide to give up her nights without the secondary shield?

maybe the daughter would accept the deal if she had access to the keys, if then equal rights for all

Vanessa ,there would be time she would not be very happy to have it on,I think.

as I hear here it is the same with all volunteers, but I think it depends on the overall result

alberto

thanks for the new information, it sounds quite good so far, i think that with her probably no big training is necessary, because she has enough breaks from her belt. i think the most important thing is that your daughter is ready to follow the steps and that you support her

Ines

alberto the main padlock is quite noticeable on tight clothes

Well, if clothes are so tight yes, obvious, but in normal tightened clothes is noticeable for her that knows that is there, not for the rest.

alberto she thinks it may help with skin what do you think about it?

Yes. And after clean too.

Vanessa

alberto the main padlock is quite noticeable on tight clothes

Right,not possible to wear tight clothes while wearing a chastity belt.

alberto Thanks for your input, we havent a specific training plan, the idea is that she wears a bit more time slowly so she can get used to it, also se if any proublem appear

A good way to do it.

Angelina maybe the daughter would accept the deal if she had access to the keys, if then equal rights for all

I doubt it.I think she would prefer to have the secondary shield off at night,than having a chastity belt with her keys,which she's not supposed to use.

Angelina I hear here it is the same with all volunteers

It seems,yes.

HHelen That's what a chastity belt is for.

Yes,but she wears an abstinence belt,very different.

HHelen Exactly. I hope for her conscience.

Not surprising,but I doubt she would decide that.

Angelina because only then would it make sense that you make your own rules stricter for yourself than for your daughter

It seems she hoped from the start her daughter would finally ask for it(or at least accept it)to be a chastity belt instead of an abstinence belt.

alberto she has to test going to the bathroom with the belt on

An important step,which can take some time to manage well.

HHelen

Vanessa You make it harder for you than for your daughter

That's what a chastity belt is for.

Vanessa Hoping she would decide to give up her nights without the secondary shield?

Exactly. I hope for her conscience.

Angelina

HHelen That's what a chastity belt is for.

so you bought the chastity belt for yourself to really use it as a chastity belt while your daughter uses it only as a abstinence belt ?

Ines

@alberto
How is adapting our Argentinian girl to her belt? It is going fine?

alberto

Ines Yesterday she weared for about two hours with no issues, my wife said that she told her that in some positions it feels odd becouse her labia touch the secondary shield also a bit more pressure from the sides of the slit on the shield but is not uncomfortable and the rear band she is not used to it yet. she wanted to keep wearing the belt for more time but it was getting late so my wife removed it. today we have a family dinner so tomorrow will resume her adaptation. also she has to test going to the bathroom with the belt on

HHelen i think it is a good idea, that way you can test aspects about the belt so you can understand/help your daughter better.

HHelen

Angelina so you bought the chastity belt for yourself to really use it as a chastity belt

I bought it to see how it's supposed to work.

Angelina while your daughter uses it only as a abstinence belt

Yes, for virginity.

Angelina

HHelen I bought it to see how it's supposed to work.

so also how it should work with your daughter (in the idial case) ?

because only then would it make sense that you make your own rules stricter for yourself than for your daughter

Fatherof3

Angelina

HHelen
This is how i think it should be when considering chastising a son or daughter. Either it be "Ill get one if you get one" or get one for yourself first. Then consider. That way you can answer honestly about any questions they might have and help them be more confident in making a thoughtful/well-rounded decision with you.

Ines

alberto she wanted to keep wearing the belt for more time but it was getting late so my wife removed it

Congratulations for 2 reason, firstly for the spirit of your girl, soon she will be a proud wearer, and secondly for your smart and wise wife.
It is not necessary to run.

alberto also she has to test going to the bathroom with the belt on

The most important thing... And please do not mind I am gross, she should not let go... She has to learn to urinate slowly, and clean herself with a syringe or similar.

Angelina

alberto

thanks for the update 🙂
i'm glad to hear that it works well for you, which is probably also due to the fact that you are taking it slowly.
the toilet will be a new challenge again, she should practice it often before she wears the belt outside the house

Vanessa I doubt it.I think she would prefer to have the secondary shield off at night,than having a chastity belt with her keys,which she's not supposed to use.

i think in the beginning the one will not exclude the other, but with time this could change 😉

Vanessa It seems she hoped from the start her daughter would finally ask for it(or at least accept it)to be a chastity belt instead of an abstinence belt.

that's what i think now, the abstinence belt was probably only meant to make it "palatable" to her daughter

HHelen

alberto i think it is a good idea, that way you can test aspects about the belt so you can understand/help your daughter better.

I would recommend it to everybody.

Vanessa Yes,but she wears an abstinence belt,very different.

She has less strict regime, that's all.

alberto

Ines Angelina Vanessa
I have been busy a lot of work last days, my wife keep putting the belt on our daughter she is getting more used now she have weared for periods of about six hours. she tried going to the bathroom with the belt on she said that pee overflowed under the shield but it was ok if she clenead on the bidet then use dryer. for another try my wife removed the secondary shield and she said that leaning forward without the shield was much better

Vanessa

Angelina the toilet will be a new challenge again, she should practice it often before she wears the belt outside the house

I agree.

Angelina i think in the beginning the one will not exclude the other

Right.

Angelina that's what i think now

As long it is not forced,no problem.

Angelina

HHelen She has less strict regime, that's all.

the question is if you want to adapt your daughter's regime to your regime ?

Angelina

Vanessa As long it is not forced,no problem.

I would not say forced but rather influenced maybe even manipulated

Vanessa

Angelina

It would not be very good too.

Angelina

Vanessa It would not be very good too.

i agree, but it makes a difference in the mind of the wearer

alberto

thanks for the update, it seems to work well for you 🙂

of course the toilet is a big challenge and i agree with @Ines' tips. she needs to pee slowly and should use a spray bottle afterwards.

Ines

alberto she said that pee overflowed under the shield

She used the toilet as usual. She has to urinate slowly to avoid this (even if sometimes is not totally possible).
A spray bottle in the bag is very advisable.

HHelen

alberto for another try my wife removed the secondary shield and she said that leaning forward without the shield was much better

You should have started without it.

Vanessa

alberto

It seems she manages it pretty well,for now!

Ines

Right.

Angelina it makes a difference in the mind of the wearer

At least at start,yes.

Foxies

A hard step for every one of us,I think!😉

Angelina but if the belt is to be worn seriously she must learn it

It seems she would have it off pretty often,but always with the secondary shield on when she wears it.

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