suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Angelina

thanks for the update 🙂
i'm glad to hear that it works well for you, which is probably also due to the fact that you are taking it slowly.
the toilet will be a new challenge again, she should practice it often before she wears the belt outside the house

Vanessa I doubt it.I think she would prefer to have the secondary shield off at night,than having a chastity belt with her keys,which she's not supposed to use.

i think in the beginning the one will not exclude the other, but with time this could change 😉

Vanessa It seems she hoped from the start her daughter would finally ask for it(or at least accept it)to be a chastity belt instead of an abstinence belt.

that's what i think now, the abstinence belt was probably only meant to make it "palatable" to her daughter

Vanessa

Angelina the toilet will be a new challenge again, she should practice it often before she wears the belt outside the house

I agree.

Angelina i think in the beginning the one will not exclude the other

Right.

Angelina that's what i think now

As long it is not forced,no problem.

alberto

Ines Angelina Vanessa
I have been busy a lot of work last days, my wife keep putting the belt on our daughter she is getting more used now she have weared for periods of about six hours. she tried going to the bathroom with the belt on she said that pee overflowed under the shield but it was ok if she clenead on the bidet then use dryer. for another try my wife removed the secondary shield and she said that leaning forward without the shield was much better

HHelen

alberto i think it is a good idea, that way you can test aspects about the belt so you can understand/help your daughter better.

I would recommend it to everybody.

Vanessa Yes,but she wears an abstinence belt,very different.

She has less strict regime, that's all.

Angelina

HHelen She has less strict regime, that's all.

the question is if you want to adapt your daughter's regime to your regime ?

Angelina

Vanessa As long it is not forced,no problem.

I would not say forced but rather influenced maybe even manipulated

Vanessa

Angelina

It would not be very good too.

Angelina

Vanessa It would not be very good too.

i agree, but it makes a difference in the mind of the wearer

alberto

thanks for the update, it seems to work well for you 🙂

of course the toilet is a big challenge and i agree with @Ines' tips. she needs to pee slowly and should use a spray bottle afterwards.

Ines

alberto she said that pee overflowed under the shield

She used the toilet as usual. She has to urinate slowly to avoid this (even if sometimes is not totally possible).
A spray bottle in the bag is very advisable.

HHelen

alberto for another try my wife removed the secondary shield and she said that leaning forward without the shield was much better

You should have started without it.

Vanessa

alberto

It seems she manages it pretty well,for now!

Ines

Right.

Angelina it makes a difference in the mind of the wearer

At least at start,yes.

Foxies

A hard step for every one of us,I think!😉

Angelina but if the belt is to be worn seriously she must learn it

It seems she would have it off pretty often,but always with the secondary shield on when she wears it.

Angelina

HHelen You should have started without it.

but if the belt is to be worn seriously she must learn it

this is the same reason why i am not a fan of support wheels on bicycles (but just my opinion)

Foxies

Learning to pee in it. Brings back such happy memories! 🤣

Fatherof3

Foxies Yeah I remember my first time. I spayed all over the toilet. lol

HHelen

Angelina but if the belt is to be worn seriously she must learn it

It should be added later on.

Angelina

Vanessa It seems she would have it off pretty often,but always with the secondary shield on when she wears it.

the point is that if I understood @alberto correctly, the belt is mainly to be used outside the home, so she needs to learn it in case she has to go to the toilet somewhere else.

Vanessa

Angelina

I understand it this way too.

Angelina

I agree.

Angelina

HHelen

Well, for me this is what we call a "salami tactic" in germany. I would say it is better if she learns immediately how it is done right.

Angelina

Vanessa

I would be interested in an update from @alberto and also if his daughter would like to join us on the forum ? 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

I wonder if her training goes well,too.

alberto

Angelina Vanessa
Sorry i didnt have much time to write im really busy at work at this time of the year. She has been wearing it intermittent, bathroom is much better now, still she prefers to have the secondary shield off also she has tried number two and it was ok. She went shopping with the belt on, the temperatures has been quite high but she managed. I have made some minor bendings on the shield and the band where te pressure marks where worse and it helped a bit. she wanted to try sleep with it on but she cant sleep so her mother release her. Wishing you a happy, healthy New Year!!!

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