suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

sarafulton

Renita I told them about it all

Renita

sarafulton And asked them about a chastity belt for you?
I was in the same situation and asked my mom to put a belt on me.

Sasha

sarafulton Likewise I live at home still.
It’s one thing to obey their rules as you should, but a 24/7 chastity belt just seems a bit excessive.

sarafulton

Sasha why is it excessive? I would prefer to wear it full time on and off as I find that my body adjusts better that way, if I wore it on and off and had time out then it would be difficult to get back into comfortably. It has become a lifestyle

sarafulton

Renita no I didn't ask for it. I didn't really know it existed, It was mt older sister that made the suggestion and the ideas was out forward to me and I agreed

Sasha

sarafulton If you want to wear it that’s a different thing, nothing wrong with that. I’m more referring to it being pushed is all.
Though despite why I’m in one I still get time out of it to work out, and a little play time when my grades come out. Well if it’s better than a B average anyway

Renita

sarafulton But when it was introduced, you liked it. Also I guess, that you didn't let you mom forget to lock you.

sarafulton I do not masturbate so that is not an issue for me

That is an issue for me, since mom has "zero-masturbation" policy.

sarafulton

Sasha yes I fully understand. I do not masturbate so that is not an issue for me. I mean it is not locked on 24/7 without exception as there are times when I can come out like if swimming or at the beach or hiking and camping. But then in those situations I am supervised

sarafulton

Renita well it is the same there is a zero masturbation policy, I have but always felt bad and guilty afterwards to the belt removes that temptation.

Sasha

sarafulton I see, so for you it’s more a sense of moral/religious obligation that you want to be belted? If so that’s a really strong conviction.
For me it was much more about correcting harmful behavior.

pestulens

sarafulton I have talked to a lot of people who feel similarly. It sounds like a hard thing to deal with.

sarafulton

Sasha i think it is a mixture of things to be honest. Although I accepted it at first I was still skeptical and thought it would be something that passed.

my actions did bring some shame on the family as well so there was an element of punishment and humiliation at first

but then for me and parents it becomes the normal now

Sasha

sarafulton Seems like an interesting dynamic, but as long as you’re happy with it not much to worry about

sarafulton

Sasha yes well I am legally an adult so am able to leave and move out and do what I want really but am quite content with the situation

sarafulton

pestulens it was at first but now am thankful for it

Angelina

sarafulton why do you wear yours or have other wear then?

because my father wants it and pressures me to do it
that's why I'm trying to find out how high the degree of voluntariness is for you.

Sasha But since it seems like you were simply behaving like a normal teenager I’d have to agree with the others that putting a belt on you was a overreaction, in my opinion

@sarafulton That's exactly what I mean too

sarafulton

Angelina It was my parents choice and want, it is not something I volunteered for but have not resisted their wants and just accepted them

Joh

sarafulton It was my parents choice and want, it is not something I volunteered for but have not resisted their wants and just accepted them

If that's the case, why don't you change it now that you're an adult?

Angelina

sarafulton It was my parents choice and want, it is not something I volunteered for but have not resisted their wants and just accepted them

So you don't wear the belt voluntarily (I mean that you don't want to wear it yourself), but you are willing to voluntarily obey your parents' wishes? I think that fits, doesn't it?

sarafulton

Joh because I have grown used to it and like the security of it

curious

sarafulton
What happens if you change your mind about being belted?
Is the contract you have made binding and the belt stays locked, no matter what you want? or can you cancel and get out at any time?

Joh

sarafulton because I have grown used to it and like the security of it

Which security do you like exactly?

sarafulton

curious I cannot just choose to unlock no, it would take us to sit down discuss the matter with my parents

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