fear of orgasm: why?

Angelina

Vanessa I think she would think less about it,if able to relieve her urges when needed...

And several wearers here have already written(me included)that they think more about sex while wearing a chastity belt.

right, when it comes to performance at university it can also be counterproductive, but i myself have not noticed any particular changes in my school performance (neither positive nor negative).

Vanessa

Angelina

Same for me,not much changes.

I wonder if it would affect @HHelen's daughter's results.

HHelen Just random.

As often as now,in average?

HHelen I disagree.

If it isn't your case,you're an exception!😉

Angelina does not normally cause any permanent hindrance to sexual functions

Depends on how it it is done.We've already discussed it several times and have finally agreed!😉

HHelen

Vanessa How did you do,before?

Just random.

Vanessa they think more about sex while wearing a chastity belt.

I disagree.

mark12423

When a girl becomes obsessed with her own pleasure, it hurts her ability to focus on serving her family. This leads to bad behavior such as promiscuity, cheating, porn, etc because she will start valuing her orgasm more then her duty as a woman. That's why I think a woman's orgasm should only come from sex with her husband.

Saintprudence

mark12423 how do these rules apply to the male orgasm?

mark12423

Saintprudence the male orgasm is necessary for the creation of life, therefore it shouldn't be as restricted as much. Females need chastity to help them serve their family/husband. Men need to orgasm to serve the family (by creating children). Different genders means different rules. Of course men should still avoid masterbation if they are married, but chasity is not as virtuous for them as it is to women.

Saintprudence

mark12423 I suspect my life might have been very different had I been raised that way!

in all seriousness, if I had not been taught to fear my own orgasm as a Catholic, I might have stayed male 🙂.

Saintprudence

mark12423 you speak a great deal of virtue and the natural order of things. Are your beliefs based in religion?

Max9

mark12423 Men need to orgasm to serve the family (by creating children).

But only while having swx with the wife - there's no practical reason for a man to masturbate.

Max9

mark12423 Of course men should still avoid masterbation if they are married, but chasity is not as virtuous for them as it is to women

Why?

mark12423

Saintprudence im not sure what you are trying to say

Saintprudence

mark12423 I’m asking if your objection to masturbation comes from religion.

mark12423

Saintprudence yes, I was raised in a conservative southern family. Both my support for female chastity and my support for a patriarchal relationship are based on these values.

mark12423

Max9 i agree. Mens masterbation (particularly for married men) is unnecesary. However, he still needs control of his orgasm in order to create children, so putting him in a chastity belt (and therefore erasing his control over his orgasm) would be unwise.

Max9

mark12423 but a chastity belt doesn't castrate one. He can still be unlocked when the couple decides to make children

Angelina

mark12423 so putting him in a chastity belt (and therefore erasing his control over his orgasm) would be unwise.

a chastity belt does not normally cause any permanent hindrance to sexual functions. as soon as the belt is unlocked, children can be conceived (or after a few days at the latest).

Max9 but a chastity belt doesn't castrate one.

I agree

Angelina

Vanessa Depends on how it it is done.We've already discussed it several times and have finally agreed!😉

yes we should not discuss it again, I agree with you and point out that I wrote "normally". 😉

HHelen

Vanessa I wonder if it would affect @HHelen's daughter's results.

Nothing to compare with.

Vanessa

Angelina that I wrote "normally".

Right!😉

HHelen Nothing to compare with.

Her usual results without the belt on.

Megan

Saintprudence it has been apparent for a while that HHelen’s daughter will be belted through college at the very least, and she should enjoy her self-pleasure breaks while she still can.

HHelen University time is coming.

HHelen Yes, as Megan said. She shouldn't be obsessed.

Why not make school easier than home right before leaving? I think that is what I might want although I am not certain???

HHelen The way you suggested, as soon as she starts her university.

HHelen

Megan Why not make school easier than home right before leaving?

More opportunities for sex there.

Megan I think that is what I might want although I am not certain???

What you might want? Please elaborate.

Angelina her daughter did perform before she wore the belt, were they better or worse ?

She is not an university student yet.

Angelina

Vanessa Nothing to compare with.

Her usual results without the belt on.

frankly, i didn't understand @HHelen's answer. her daughter did perform before she wore the belt, were they better or worse ?

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