fear of orgasm: why?

HHelen Vanessa and if I remember well,she wants to wait until marriage

Right, but she says it now.

Angelina met at university and married after graduation, sounds romantic

It would be great.

I never knew how to masturbate very well growing up but if I had an addiction I needed to overcome, doing more work on chastity at home would make it easier to move into school. Also you would not want to be lazy and flunk out if home was not super easy... ???
That's just me anyway

Angelina met at university and married after graduation, sounds romantic

Not uncommon!

HHelen Right, but she says it now.

She never said it before she started to have to wear her belt?

Vanessa She never said it before she started to have to wear her belt?

She did, but what would she say later?

HHelen She did, but what would she say later?

I meant that,if she hasn't said it before,it could have been a try to get rid of the belt.Obviously,it is not the case,so.

And there is no good reasons to think she would change her mind about it.

Vanessa I expect it to be harder to stick to as we get older. Easy to be committed to staying virgin when you've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Jen

hmmm.... and if we have a boyfriend/girlfriend? then we could openly talk about wanting to stay a virgin until the wedding

Jen Easy to be committed to staying virgin when you've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend.

I can confirm it

Vanessa it could have been a try to get rid of the belt

Possibly.

Vanessa And there is no good reasons to think she would change her mind about it.

She will start communicating with new people.

Angelina hmmm....

Hmmm, hmmm, what does that mean.
If you and your girl had no belts and privacy would you stay virgin?

Jen If you and your girl had no belts and privacy would you stay virgin?

@Jen didn't you break and throw your belt out? That doesn't mean you will instantly find love...
Love take work and I was sort of lucky that I already knew someone who moved back closer to me.
Chill out it's all been done before & I don't think all the chastity belts in the world are conspiring to jump on you my sister...

Megan didn't you break and throw your belt out?

Not broken but never worn. Still in a suitcase in my parents wardrobe last time I looked.

Jen
And it should stay there until you decide that you want wear it.
I am glad of not to have a forced wearer here. And your reaction and course of situation is very logical.
Any normal family can survive to a situation of forced wearing.

Ines I worry that it staying there represents a constant sword of Damocles, a fear that they won’t give up their investment that easily. I applaud Jen’s assertiveness against it.

Saintprudence
My words were figurative sense, I mean it should be away of her until she decides, that if some day she decides use it.
And however,frankly, I do not think that her parents can force the use

Jen Hmmm, hmmm, what does that mean.
If you and your girl had no belts and privacy would you stay virgin?

hmmm means that I think about something

and no if the situation was like this then i probably wouldn't stay a virgin

Saintprudence I worry that it staying there represents a constant sword of Damocles

I don't know this sword reference. I'd think about it less if I knew it was gone, but I don't worry, I mean I never like conflict but it would be easier than the first time

Ines And however,frankly, I do not think that her parents can force the use

Yep no way

Jen Sword of Damocles is a Greek mythological reference. It means a dangerous thing suspended over your head that could fall and strike you at any moment. In broader use, it refers to an ever-present threat that could re-emerge any time, such as someone getting the idea of that belt back in their heads. I’m glad you stand firm!