Ines some friends have torneo away of my sister once she talk them about belting.

How did she explain she had to wear a belt?

    Well, obviously I dont know details (It was a painful episode for her), but basically, 2 elements:
    1- "freak element"
    2- they can not understand that a girl could like the feeling of have someone caring for her. They are able to see only rules and steel and neopreno.

    Sad.

      Angelina
      This is true, but daily you do not have relationship only with friends. (In Spain to true friend we call them amiga, and rest of girls with good relation but not so close "mate" we call them "conocidas".
      OMG reading message it looks as Language lesson. Sorry girls.

          Ines

          exactly because of the first point i don't tell anyone anything about my belt or the other things if it doesn't have to be necessarily

            Ines I felt similar, when I was a students, other girls around hung with guys, but I couldn't.

            Ines In Spain to true friend we call them amiga

            I think everybody over the world know what amigo/amiga/amigos means 🙂

            Ines OMG reading message it looks as Language lesson. Sorry girls.

            That's fine. I'm always going to learn Spanish, and that's always just a plan.

                  I understand perfectly. We have to be 100% sure before accept dating a boy.
                  Saturday afternoon retationships are not made for us (anyway I dont miss them). 😂

                  I only know my mother and sister and I know but never met in person Daniels mother and once his sister.

                  Non of my friends wears on, at least that's what I know. It's extremely uncommon here.

                  My family, Daniels family and my best friend knows about my situation.

                  I avoid telling it other people because I fear the consequences.

                  One more thing on topic. Since my relatives know about my belt, I can't just cut the belt off, flea and live with a guy. It would be considered as misdemeanor, sure not any legal consequences, but I would lost connections with everybody, not with parents only.

                    Ines In Spain to true friend we call them amiga, and rest of girls with good relation but not so close "mate" we call them "conocidas".

                    🙂

                    On this topic. Everybody knew who wanted to. Guys for sure

                    • Ines replied to this.

                        Ines I think she means everybody knew about her belt, but only guys cared.

                          Ah...
                          Well, no, people that turn away from her were girls. Until where I know, she did not talk the topic with boys.
                          With one of them she was talking about rent an apartament. 🙁
                          Only good think is that I like she stay at home, but she was happy about rent a house near the campus, and did not end well.

                          You attach too much importance to this, in fact, only your boyfriend and parents should be concerned

                          What do you think I attach so much importance exactly?

                            Ines What do you think I attach so much importance exactly?

                            Not only you, but what others think about your belt

                                Renita Not only you, but what others think about your belt

                                With current social enviroment it is advisable to be discrete.

                                  Renita Not only you, but what others think

                                  Don't stress about things but it is up to you what to say. When someone finds it just explain it is a tradition you practice sometimes.