One more thing on topic. Since my relatives know about my belt, I can't just cut the belt off, flea and live with a guy. It would be considered as misdemeanor, sure not any legal consequences, but I would lost connections with everybody, not with parents only.

    Ines In Spain to true friend we call them amiga, and rest of girls with good relation but not so close "mate" we call them "conocidas".

    🙂

    On this topic. Everybody knew who wanted to. Guys for sure

    • Ines replied to this.

        Ines I think she means everybody knew about her belt, but only guys cared.

          Ah...
          Well, no, people that turn away from her were girls. Until where I know, she did not talk the topic with boys.
          With one of them she was talking about rent an apartament. 🙁
          Only good think is that I like she stay at home, but she was happy about rent a house near the campus, and did not end well.

          You attach too much importance to this, in fact, only your boyfriend and parents should be concerned

          What do you think I attach so much importance exactly?

            Ines What do you think I attach so much importance exactly?

            Not only you, but what others think about your belt

                Renita Not only you, but what others think about your belt

                With current social enviroment it is advisable to be discrete.

                  Renita Not only you, but what others think

                  Don't stress about things but it is up to you what to say. When someone finds it just explain it is a tradition you practice sometimes.

                      Megan When someone finds it just explain it is a tradition you practice sometimes.

                      Do not doubt that is what I did

                        In my case,my parents know it,and my twin,of course.

                        Emilie too,obviously,and several of my ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends.

                        I wonder if my extended family knows it,but I guess so.And I wonder too if my cousines have felt a chastity belt locked on them too.

                        My best friend knows it too,but I hide it from everyone else.

                          Vanessa and several of my ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends.

                          Why are they supposed to know? I thought you got belted after.

                              Laura

                              If I was punsihed this way during the relationship,I sometimes tell them to explain why I stopped to have sex with them during a few days or weeks.

                              I only dated Emilie since I was belted permanently.

                                  7 days later

                                  Vanessa If I was punsihed this way during the relationship,I sometimes tell them to explain why I stopped to have sex with them during a few days or weeks.

                                  For how long did you have to wear you belt as punishment if you had to explain explicitly?

                                      Laura For how long did you have to wear you belt as punishment if you had to explain explicitly?

                                      It depends on the offense,and if it was a repeated one;never less than one week,and the most common was two weeks to a month.

                                      But,even if it may seems short,if I used to have sex with a boyfriend/girlfriend secretly several times a week and suddenly stop,he/she will wonder why...

                                          Vanessa if I used to have sex with a boyfriend/girlfriend secretly several times a week

                                          With different people?

                                              Renita With different people?

                                              It happened a few times,but,most of the time,I was faithful and not change partners that quickly.

                                                At end in home...
                                                As I told before, this afternoon I have to role as elder sister. :😕
                                                All started with a typical discussion in my home last weeks, my sister want my parents buy her a corset, stupid TV shows 😡, and my parents refuse.
                                                My sister is yet too young and a corset can damage her, and as my sister is a bit lazy, corset still will do things worse. In that I agree with my parents.
                                                She argues that we wear a belt that is more or less the same (could she be more wrong?).
                                                Until this point, nothing new, all old known in my home folklore, but she add a thing that break my heart.
                                                She said that even she is not Miss Allright, my "nickname", she has too feelings, and that we do not see her as a girl just because she does not use a chastity belt. That she feels herself isolated of us .
                                                Bad afternoon today. I need go running a bit.