MissBlossom The only people I know personally who lost their whole family at once were Mormons
I've studied with great interest the female Mormons I've me, all of my age. They are friendly, happy, well made up and nobody has said a single word to me about religion. They run in the same uniforms the rest of us do, bun huggers and bare shoulders and arms, clothes that would be verboten on their campus. Even had an informal group photo taken in sports bras. And this in circumstances where they were representing their university. Oh, half of them were also wearing wedding rings.