Belt and social circle.

Andrew

Laura Since my relatives know about my belt, I can't just cut the belt off, flea and live with a guy. It would be considered as misdemeanor, sure not any legal consequences, but I would lost connections with everybody, not with parents only

Laura No, they are not. Just ordinary Catholics

I live in a Catholic country, I know a lot of strong believers, but I have never encountered such fanaticism... Can you reveal your ethnic background?

Ines

Andrew I live in a Catholic country, I know a lot of strong believers, but I have never encountered such fanaticism...

Well, we are not fanatic, and if some of us fly with a boy without marriage, it would be a shock for the family. Maybe not lost the bounds, but it would be a uncomfortable situation.

Laura

Andrew It's not about religion at all

Andrew

Laura It's not about religion at all

So what is the reason for this rigor in relation to premarital sex? Customs of the environment? Hence the origin question, because in the conditions of the USA it is difficult to talk about a uniform culture, unlike in the national countries of Europe.

Ines if some of us fly with a boy without marriage, it would be a shock for the family. Maybe not lost the bounds, but it would be a uncomfortable situation.

Uncomfortable - you put it very well. 🙂

Jen

Laura tough family

Kaja

Ines This thread go up, so I read it 😀

Laura

Andrew So what is the reason for this rigor in relation to premarital sex?

Kinda family tradition. Btw, it's also applied to boys, but no chastity devices

Angelina

Laura Btw, it's also applied to boys, but no chastity devices

what exactly applies to boys?

Laura

Angelina what exactly applies to boys?

No sex before marriage

Angelina

Laura No sex before marriage

and how is this to be enforced without a chastity belt?

Laura

Angelina It's not enforced, just not appreciated

Ines

Laura

Yes, it is exactly the same for us. It is not appreciated but their "failures" are not so serious.

sarafulton

All my immediate family know that I am belted and most approve of the fact. I am personally quite proud that I am belted and do not feel ashamed to hide it but as others have mention many will not understand, approve and judge.

I have had others say who cares what others think and to a degree I do agree with that but we also have to live her and do not want to be viewed as outcasts in the community.

Ines

sarafulton

Rest of the women do not wear belts? Cousins, sisters, aunts, mother?

Angelina

sarafulton All my immediate family know that I am belted

how wide is the circle of people who know about it? grandparents? aunts/uncles? cousins? and did no one say anything critical about it or did you give a reason for everyone to like it?

sarafulton Both my older sisters are married. I am the youngest and nearly 10 years their junior

and why do you wear a belt but your sisters have not worn one in the past?

Jonas

sarafulton All my immediate family know that I am belted and most approve of the fact.

It's definitely better for immediate family to know, otherwise stressful to keep belt hidden.

I am personally quite proud that I am belted and do not feel ashamed to hide it

That's how I feel too, but then I don't see my chastity belt as representing my weakness, but my strength.

but as others have mention many will not understand, approve and judge.

As I've got older I worry less about what others choose to think. If they want to think something nice they will, if they want to think something nasty, well, that tells me not to waste my time with them.

sarafulton

Ines no I am the first I my family. Both my older sisters are married. I am the youngest and nearly 10 years their junior

Ines

sarafulton

So, you are the first and the late!
Why a FS belt?

sarafulton

Ines I have a mysteel belt as well which was my first. The FS belt I prefer as I find it a little more comfortable for an active lifestyle and excercise. The vaginal shield is narrower and does not cause chafing on my inner thighs

Ines

sarafulton

Well, difference is not so important with other belts, I thought that difference would be more notorious, and the surface of shield is nearly the same over more important areas.

sarafulton

Angelina because the family were not aware of chastity devices back when they were younger. Now my sisters are both married that would be their husbands concern and not my parents

youdontknowme

sarafulton because the family were not aware of chastity devices back when they were younger. Now my sisters are both married that would be their husbands concern and not my parents

sarafulton Possibly, it was my older sister that suggested to my parents and I

How nice of her to propose this after she knew she would no longer be affected by it.

Angelina

sarafulton Now my sisters are both married that would be their husbands concern and not my parents

Have you ever thought about proposing it to the husbands? also to make things at least a little fairer for you? 😉

youdontknowme How nice of her to propose this after she knew she would no longer be affected by it.

😆

sarafulton she was a little surprised and just say "oh ok dear"

do you also mean people from your circle of friends? aren't you afraid that they might tell others and that this would put your parents in a bad light?

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