Finding a chaste lady
Sadly the singles here don't postthat they search for a boyfriend. If they'd just only post a few words like "Hi, I'm Eva , 25 from Ohio anwillingly chaste. I like painting nails and whatever and search for a boyfriend" .... it would definitely help them a lot to find someone (maybe we should make the thread for this only visible for registered users)
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it would help anyone here, because right noe we have sad single girls and sad single boys...
Max9 Here's an unspoken truth: anyone here who's really belted by their parents for college or whatever and not just telling a story? They aren't likely to be searching for singles any time soon. The road to marrying someone like that goes solely through their parents. And at least some of those parents have already set their sights on arranging a match. Some things never change. Purity culture's obsession with policing the bodies of unmarried women is one of them.
We've discussed a lot about an unwed chastity dating site,but decided it would be mainly useless.
GoodyProctor The road to marrying someone like that goes solely through their parents. And at least some of those parents have already set their sights on arranging a match.
Most of us(if not all)are not in an arranged marriage,and would very likely not be.
Vanessa Most of us(if not all)are not in an arranged marriage,and would very likely not be.
But would you be allowed to marry without your parents' permission? They already have you locked up. I doubt they'd have a problem using that as leverage to veto the marriage.
GoodyProctor Have you considered, that most of the single women here who are belted don't want a relationship where they have to stay belted? Most of us want to get rid of the belt as soon as possible, so I think this is maybe one of the last places to find a woman who wants to live in chastiy.
Sara2001 Have you considered, that most of the single women here who are belted don't want a relationship where they have to stay belted?
good point
Goody's comment about arranged, or at least parents approved, marriage... How does that relate to you and Daniel?
How did your first meet him, was he a family friend?
right, it should not be a prerequisite for the relationship, rather a nice additional point
swiss because on the one hand we are an anonymous forum and on the other hand we are an international forum.
GoodyProctor But would you be allowed to marry without your parents' permission? They already have you locked up. I doubt they'd have a problem using that as leverage to veto the marriage.
one has nothing to do with the other, our parents locked us up so we wouldn't have sex before marriage not so we would marry a chosen partner.
Sara2001 Our parents are friends. We where not forced to have a relationship but kind of "forced" to meet and see where it is going. But it was always clear, that if there is nothing between us, that's would have been perfectly fine.
i think this way is ok, if parents think that the children fit together, they should get to know each other, but the parents should accept that it is ok if it really does not fit.
I do not understand how someone who has read more than a couple of posts here, can get the idea that it is the perfect place to find one chaste lady, who wants to continue, when she has moved away from home.
Most have an agreement. Study and get married, so you do not have to use your chastity belt...
Tobbe Selling the idea of a belted marriage to someone who's already in the belt is probably easier than trying to sell it to someone's who's never seen a chastity belt before!
GoodyProctor I'm not sure at all.
If you've longed for your "freedom" for several years, you probably do not want to continue.
Tobbe The "become a belted wife" thread has a lot of positive responses, though!
GoodyProctor From "positive response" to do it in real life, is a big step...
Tobbe This is true! I just can't see anyone willing to permanently wear a belt who hasn't already been exposed to it or has an interest on their own. 99.9 percent of everyday women would shut it down immediately. 50 percent of women who've worn a belt would at least hear out the offer.
I think you have the wrong percent!
Curiosity has made many women start with chastity belt.
I find this, but is it men in chastity, but think it is about the same, or more women in chastity:
- According to the former Canadian Minister of Education, 4% of men in Quebec are caged with the key given to their wife, as well as 2.5% in Germany and Sweden, 1.5% in UK, and 1% in France and Italy (though I wonder how they estimated this).
- In 2020, a chastity device called Cellmate, which has a smartphone-operated Bluetooth lock, was hacked, revealing the geographic location of about 40,000 men who were using the device. Based on this data, male chastity seems to be a worldwide phenomenon, especially in North America, Europe, and East Asia. Based on the relative popularity of this specific device, it can be estimated that in total around 65 million chastity devices are in use.
- Dhgate, an online shop for Chinese wholesalers, has around 20,000 different male chastity devices for sale.
- Redditβs βChastityβ subreddit has over 100,000 members.
https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/
Tobbe caged with the key given to their wife, as well as 2.5% in Germany and Sweden, 1.5% in UK, and 1% in France
I'm so glad to know that i'm not alone in this situation thanks !
But very interesting numbers !