Finding a chaste lady

Vanessa

Sara2001

I would agree with @Ines. He should try to get a girlfriend,and then,talk about chastity belts with her.If they share interest for it,it is good,but if not,as long as they're happy to have a relationship,it s not too bad.

Angelina

Vanessa I would agree with @Ines. He should try to get a girlfriend,and then,talk about chastity belts with her.If they share interest for it,it is good,but if not,as long as they're happy to have a relationship,it s not too bad.

right, it should not be a prerequisite for the relationship, rather a nice additional point 😉

Max9

swiss because on the one hand we are an anonymous forum and on the other hand we are an international forum.

GoodyProctor But would you be allowed to marry without your parents' permission? They already have you locked up. I doubt they'd have a problem using that as leverage to veto the marriage.

one has nothing to do with the other, our parents locked us up so we wouldn't have sex before marriage not so we would marry a chosen partner.

Sara2001 Our parents are friends. We where not forced to have a relationship but kind of "forced" to meet and see where it is going. But it was always clear, that if there is nothing between us, that's would have been perfectly fine.

i think this way is ok, if parents think that the children fit together, they should get to know each other, but the parents should accept that it is ok if it really does not fit.

Max9

Sadly the singles here don't postthat they search for a boyfriend. If they'd just only post a few words like "Hi, I'm Eva , 25 from Ohio anwillingly chaste. I like painting nails and whatever and search for a boyfriend" .... it would definitely help them a lot to find someone (maybe we should make the thread for this only visible for registered users)
...
it would help anyone here, because right noe we have sad single girls and sad single boys...

GoodyProctor

Max9 Here's an unspoken truth: anyone here who's really belted by their parents for college or whatever and not just telling a story? They aren't likely to be searching for singles any time soon. The road to marrying someone like that goes solely through their parents. And at least some of those parents have already set their sights on arranging a match. Some things never change. Purity culture's obsession with policing the bodies of unmarried women is one of them.

Vanessa

Max9

We've discussed a lot about an unwed chastity dating site,but decided it would be mainly useless.

GoodyProctor The road to marrying someone like that goes solely through their parents. And at least some of those parents have already set their sights on arranging a match.

Most of us(if not all)are not in an arranged marriage,and would very likely not be.

Sara2001

GoodyProctor Have you considered, that most of the single women here who are belted don't want a relationship where they have to stay belted? Most of us want to get rid of the belt as soon as possible, so I think this is maybe one of the last places to find a woman who wants to live in chastiy.

GoodyProctor

Vanessa Most of us(if not all)are not in an arranged marriage,and would very likely not be.

But would you be allowed to marry without your parents' permission? They already have you locked up. I doubt they'd have a problem using that as leverage to veto the marriage.

Laura

GoodyProctor
https://unwedchastity.org/d/23-parental-approval-and-arranged-marriage

Vanessa

GoodyProctor

I would probably ask them,but only to do it "well";I'm sure they would be ok.

And they know doing something damaging my relationship with Emilie would be a red line,as I would always choose Emilie instead of my parents,and break the relationship with my parents if it is necessary.With a good possibility that my twin side with me,and do the same.

Sara2001

Possible,yes!

Sara2001 We where not forced to have a relationship but kind of "forced" to meet and see where it is going.

If I remember well,you were punished because you weren't ok,at first.Or was it because you weren't polite when refusing?

Angelina our parents locked us up so we wouldn't have sex before marriage not so we would marry a chosen partner.

Right.

GoodyProctor

Not sure.

Tobbe

Interesting.

So,in France there should be approximately 670 000 men wearing it,and probably at least the same for women!If it is the same,it would be 1 340 000 people in chastity in France;at least 1 people on 50.If it is true,I probably already met some people wearing one without knowing it(which is very likely,during university,I think)!😉

Tobbe 20.000 different models of male devices

That's a lot!I think many are exactly the same,but with a different name...

Sara2001 I think it would be something people would talk about

We don't talk about it with much people,except on this board...

Jen

Sara2001 Have you considered, that most of the single women here who are belted don't want a relationship where they have to stay belted?

🙂 good point

Goody's comment about arranged, or at least parents approved, marriage... How does that relate to you and Daniel?
How did your first meet him, was he a family friend?

Sara2001

Jen How did your first meet him, was he a family friend?

Our parents are friends. We where not forced to have a relationship but kind of "forced" to meet and see where it is going. But it was always clear, that if there is nothing between us, that's would have been perfectly fine.

Tobbe

I do not understand how someone who has read more than a couple of posts here, can get the idea that it is the perfect place to find one chaste lady, who wants to continue, when she has moved away from home.
Most have an agreement. Study and get married, so you do not have to use your chastity belt...

GoodyProctor

Tobbe Selling the idea of a belted marriage to someone who's already in the belt is probably easier than trying to sell it to someone's who's never seen a chastity belt before!

Angelina

Tobbe

the idea is relatively simple. everyone who has a preference for chastity belts will eventually find this forum and then these people will try to find a partner through this forum because they already have experience with the belt (whether directly or indirectly).

Tobbe

GoodyProctor I'm not sure at all.
If you've longed for your "freedom" for several years, you probably do not want to continue.

GoodyProctor

Tobbe The "become a belted wife" thread has a lot of positive responses, though!

Tobbe

GoodyProctor From "positive response" to do it in real life, is a big step...

GoodyProctor

Tobbe This is true! I just can't see anyone willing to permanently wear a belt who hasn't already been exposed to it or has an interest on their own. 99.9 percent of everyday women would shut it down immediately. 50 percent of women who've worn a belt would at least hear out the offer.

Tobbe

I think you have the wrong percent! 😁
Curiosity has made many women start with chastity belt.

Jen

Tobbe Curiosity has made many women start with chastity belt.

😅😂🤣😳

Sara2001

Tobbe Curiosity has made many women start with chastity belt.

But how many of them do it 24/7 for their whole lives. I think it's mostly a bedroom thing.

Tobbe According to the former Canadian Minister of Education, 4% of men in Quebec are caged with the key given to their wife, as well as 2.5% in Germany and Sweden, 1.5% in UK, and 1% in France and Italy (though I wonder how they estimated this).

Sounds much, much, much to high for me. It would mean any 40th German man wears a cage. That would mean more than 500.000 if I only count adults. Let's say it needs to be replaced any 5 years, it would mean that they would have to produce 100.000 for the German market every year. I think that's far away from the reality.

Tobbe

I find this, but is it men in chastity, but think it is about the same, or more women in chastity:

According to the former Canadian Minister of Education, 4% of men in Quebec are caged with the key given to their wife, as well as 2.5% in Germany and Sweden, 1.5% in UK, and 1% in France and Italy (though I wonder how they estimated this).
In 2020, a chastity device called Cellmate, which has a smartphone-operated Bluetooth lock, was hacked, revealing the geographic location of about 40,000 men who were using the device. Based on this data, male chastity seems to be a worldwide phenomenon, especially in North America, Europe, and East Asia. Based on the relative popularity of this specific device, it can be estimated that in total around 65 million chastity devices are in use.
Dhgate, an online shop for Chinese wholesalers, has around 20,000 different male chastity devices for sale.
Reddit’s “Chastity” subreddit has over 100,000 members.
https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/

MaximeJourennes

Tobbe caged with the key given to their wife, as well as 2.5% in Germany and Sweden, 1.5% in UK, and 1% in France

I'm so glad to know that i'm not alone in this situation 😅 thanks !

But very interesting numbers !

Angelina

Tobbe According to the former Canadian Minister of Education, 4% of men in Quebec are caged with the key given to their wife, as well as 2.5% in Germany and Sweden, 1.5% in UK, and 1% in France and Italy (though I wonder how they estimated this).

i agree with your question, i have no real idea how they arrive at this statistic 😂

Tobbe 2,5% in Germany will be 2 million men?

about a little more than one million men (assuming equal numbers of women and men in germany) 42 million men /100*2.5 = 1.05 million 😉

Sara2001 Sounds much, much, much to high for me. It would mean any 40th German man wears a cage. That would mean more than 500.000 if I only count adults. Let's say it needs to be replaced any 5 years, it would mean that they would have to produce 100.000 for the German market every year. I think that's far away from the reality.

i agree with you, i think there are at most 100,000 men and women in germany (maybe even less) = 0,12%

Tobbe

MaximeJourennes 2,5% in Germany will be 2 million men?, and then all belted women.
It must also be something 2 million, or more...

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