I'm very surprised he decided it!Even if the fact you still have your chastity belt on make his main purpose still working.And yes,it would solve the hygiene problem during possible vacations.
From my own experiences I can say one-sided sex is still very pleasant,but yes,awfully frustrating for the wearer.So it is a mix of pleasant sensation(feeling your girlfriend body react to what you do,making her orgasm...),and unpleasant ones(mainly frustration,not possible to do it "fully"...).From her side she could easily like it,of course,but feel a bit frustrated and sad to not make you feel it too,even maybe guilty to enjoy something you can't.
If you choose the second opportunity,would it means she would lose her possibility to masturbate until you're married too?It can be very hard for her to manage it,she should understand it very well.Even if I can understand her opinion.
You must have long talks again,yes.And about more technical parts too.How would you do the training(even if she still wear it,it would be different)and care enough about the hygiene,as you can't meet during the week,for example?
About being a keyholder,it is difficult to answer.I think it is an unusual situation,and can be very hard to manage.How would you react and feel if she can't stand to not be able to masturbate anymore and ask you desperately to open her belt?When you would be alone together,are your sure you would not use the key to open her chastity belt and have sex together?Personally,I don't think i could do it with Emilie.
I can understand her idea and understand you hesitate.Maybe a trial period would help you know how you can manage it,with several talks again after it.
Tobbe I think when one thinks it should remain locked, but the other wants to open.
Then it is not possible to "blame" anyone else.
I agree,it can lead to argument,and resentment...
Max9 But wesring a belt nearly permanently is something different as wearing it occasionally...
Yes,I'm not sure she knows exactly how it would be hard to wear it permanently...
Raziel discuss rules and expectations before deciding yourself.
Sara2001 If you don't give it to her, it will have a very severe impact on your relationship. If not anything is 200% clear, it can destroy a lot.
I agree,it is risked.
Sara2001 You need some kind of compensation or system or procedure that ensures that she doesn't get mad on you when you don't open her if she asks.
Sara2001 If you like the idea, it's a big chance, if not, it's a big risk.
Angelina there would certainly be situations in which she would absolutely want to get out of the belt
Do you think a written contract would help a lot in this situation?
Angelina she often feels guilty that she's allowed to do something i'm not
Understandable,Emilie feel similar,often.
Angelina i'm just a bit emotionally overwhelmed at the moment.
Angelina the first would be to do it on the basis of a contract so that unpleasant situations can be clarified quickly, the second idea would be to set up a kind of trial period.
Why not a trial,then a written contract about it,based on what happened during the trial period?
Sara2001 I would suggest to make a pro and cons list and to rate the pros and cons with A (important), B, C (unimportant)
It could help,yes.