your feeling first time(s) you worn a chastity belt

Ines

I mean, the shape, even if it is rightly measured, the shape is not exactly your waist shape, and you need, usually, bend a bit, test it.
Usually it chaff in some place, you solve it, then chaff in another... 😒🤭

Elsa

Ines That has been adjusted a little bit at time to time, yes. But carefully and slowly. Not too much at once.

Renita

curious What are your rules and what is your status as wearer then?

Do you want my story again? Here is the short version.

I'm a voluntary wearer
Voluntarily doesn't mean I'm allowed to take the belt off whenever I wish
I wear my belt 24/7 with few exceptions, like doctor/court visit. Dating is not in this list. Despite my age I'm still attractive to men.

curious

Renita
I do not doubt that you you are an attractive woman.
I am just surprised that your mother is your keybolder, given your age.
And what would be the conditions you have defined to be released from the belt? Will you stay in complete chastity until married for example?

Renita

curious Will you stay in complete chastity until married for example?

Yes, marriage is the requirement.

curious

Renita
Did you start late with belt? Or as teenager like most girls here and already 20 years belted?
Have you agreed on a contract you can terminate? Or is there no way out for you anymore apart from marriage, even if you no longer want the belt?

Jonas

Renita Yes, marriage is the requirement.

Some of your reasons for wearing will still be valid after marriage. Would you consider keeping the belt/gifting the key to your spouse?

Alena-CB

Elsa you will learn, don´t worry

Alena-CB

Elsa congratulation to first belted weekend

Angelina

Elsa The next long-term attempt just started now. Until Friday morning is now the goal.

good luck for that too, even if i have to say that it all happens very quickly, there were not even 24 hours between the two long-term tests

Elsa Without bands she was more likely to run up the stairs (2 steps at a time). With bands it was much slower and step by step. So I could see it well 😉

"Sister, were you bad again or why are you walking up the stairs so slowly?" haha, sorry I just have to imagine that 😂

Alena-CB congratulation to first belted weekend

nice to see you back on the forum, how are you doing now? are you in the belt 24/7 now? 🙂

Elsa Of course they are slowly implementing the whole thing more and more strictly, but they only ensure that the actual goal is achieved. That's why it feels right.

I think the question is rather, are you doing this for others, or do you believe in the values of chastity yourself and think that it's right for you?

MissBlossom

curious
See https://unwedchastity.org/d/83-should-renita-wear-a-chastity-belt-again-because-she-is-single

Renita

curious Did you start late with belt? Or as teenager like most girls here and already 20 years belted?

I tried to wear one when I was around 20, but given up. This time I did everything properly.

curious Have you agreed on a contract you can terminate? Or is there no way out for you anymore apart from marriage, even if you no longer want the belt?

"No longer want the belt" is not a reason for termination.

Jonas Would you consider keeping the belt/gifting the key to your spouse?

Up to him.

Jen

Damien hi, sorry, no

Damien

Dear Elsa, allow me to state the keyholder opinion: You've made half way in this fascinating route of revoking your sexual independence. Your body must surely be protesting by now; but do your heart and mind celebrate your chastity? How exactly does it feel to leave your future sexual self determination with your aunt and uncle, now that you are officially an adult?
You're free to say no on friday, or make your own rules for a reasonable chastity regime that meets your own moral goals. You do not owe anyone. State your right to earn breaks and choose your conditions. Prove your purity to yourself, don't just give away more freedom than you need gone. End opinion 🙂

Kaja

Damien The best post what I read there.

Elsa

Damien End opinion 🙂

Damien Your body must surely be protesting by now

Of course the urges increase! Of course, there are moments when I would like to throw everything away

Damien but do your heart and mind celebrate your chastity?

Yes I do. When some moments are over, I'm glad that the belt was there and gave protection..

Damien How exactly does it feel to leave your future sexual self determination with your aunt and uncle, now that you are officially an adult?

So everything is somehow based on my wish too. Of course they are slowly implementing the whole thing more and more strictly, but they only ensure that the actual goal is achieved. That's why it feels right.

Damien You do not owe anyone.

Thats right!

Damien State your right to earn breaks and choose your conditions. Prove your purity to yourself, don't just give away more freedom than you need gone.

The path that was taken is the path that I also think is right, including no breaks for self pleasure.

curious

Renita "No longer want the belt" is not a reason for termination.

What reason for termination would be accepted?
And what happens, if your sexual frustration builds up to a point where you completely withdraw your consent to being in chastity?

Jonas

Renita I tried to wear one when I was around 20, but given up. This time I did everything properly.

This is my experience too.

Renita "No longer want the belt" is not a reason for termination.

Yeah, I ended up considering my belt to be a need, not a mere want.

curious But would you not consider yourself an involuntary wearer then? I mean, when you have no longer consent but are still locked..?

Sorry, don't mean to barge in, but I think @Renita gave made her choice in such a way that authority now rests with her mom. This is very clever because her mom isn't subject to her sex drive. This means that the decision to unlock will always be made by someone with a clear head with her interests and values at heart.

Renita

curious What reason for termination would be accepted?

Health issues, for example.

curious And what happens, if your sexual frustration builds up to a point where you completely withdraw your consent to being in chastity?

It happened few times already. The belt stayed on.

MissBlossom

Renita
That sounds really rough.

Are you saying that you are not allowed to withdraw consent and stop wearing the belt entirely?

Or is it more like you changed your mind before your waiting period expired?

Or were you not trying to withdraw consent entirely, but requesting a break, and it was denied?

curious

Renita It happened few times already. The belt stayed on.

But would you not consider yourself an involuntary wearer then? I mean, when you have no longer consent but are still locked..?

Renita

MissBlossom Are you saying that you are not allowed to withdraw consent and stop wearing the belt entirely?

Sure, I can. Nobody can force me to wear a belt against my will.

MissBlossom Or is it more like you changed your mind before your waiting period expired?

Until I calm down.

MissBlossom Or were you not trying to withdraw consent entirely, but requesting a break, and it was denied?

Emotions. Coming from an argument if she refuses to take the belt off.

Renita

Jonas This means that the decision to unlock will always be made by someone with a clear head with her interests and values at heart.

I couldn't say it better than you did. She cares about my chastity great. No "incidents" happened.

Damien

Elsa The path that was taken is the path that I also think is right, including no breaks for self pleasure.

This determination is even more admirable coming after five days belted (and banded?) in a row, a typical timespan where some of your brothers and sisters in spirit might stumble on the verge of nervous breakdown. Please continue to keep us posted on the little quirks, challenges, peculiarities, pride and crisis of your chaste journey.

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