Sara2001
Right,it can be hard to be sure our partner don't react too hardly.With Emilie,I had to talk a long time with her to be sure she won't start an argument with my parents when I explained her about the belt,as it would have do no good for me or for our relationship.
WIth precedent partners,it was easier.My chastity belt was not worn permanently,only as punishment,and I can insist on this part to tell them we just have to wait a bit and it would be taken off,telling them it was not so bad,or,that I understood my parents' decision to punish me this way.Even if it wasn't true,most of the times(and especially the second and third arguments),it was generally enough to be sure they won't react too much and accept it.
I think we should not discuss it too soon,not before knowing enough each other and be pretty sure he/she can accept it,or,at least,keep it secret.But not too late,as,when we become closer,it is hard to avoid them feeling the waist band.A woman can refuse her new boyfriend/girlfriend put his/her hands between her legs too soon,but not accepting he/she touch or caress her waist,it is harder to explain.
